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Topic: Where are the men?? Donde estan los hombres?
diva4's photo
Mon 09/07/09 06:47 AM
Edited by diva4 on Mon 09/07/09 06:47 AM
Donde estan los hombres? donde se han metido? si no son casados son medio raros o aburridos!!!! Familiar with this? es una cancion muy simpatica de Pimpinela...pero que tiene un poco de verdad... a veces me he sentido asi. Por que es tan dificil empezar una relacion formal hoy en dia? que es lo que los hombres andan buscando? Estube casada 19 anios y llevo de divorciada 10... me ha sido muy dificil volver al mundo de los solteros ya que me he dado cuenta que en 19 anios muchas cosas han cambiando, empezando por nosotras las mujeres. Llevo un tiempo en este site y.... debe ser el sombrero de Sherlock Holmes que tengo en algunas de las fotos (como alguien me dijo una vez) o algo en mi profile.... la cosa es que los que escriben, o son demasiado jovenes (para querer una relacion formal con una mujer de 52), viven en otro estado o simplemente te mandan la direccion y el telefono en el primer contacto!!!!!

What is going on? Donde estan los caballeros de mi edad? Es cierto que la sociedad ha cambiada tanto? Can anybody SERIOUSLY tell me? Is it me? really, help me with this...

I hope I dont sound desperate because I am not.... in the least. I am just puzzled about today's singles world, to which I belong once more brokenheart
Thank you

Diva

If you do not read or speak Spanish, here is a concised translation :banana:

It is hard now days at my age start in the singles world again. I am 52 and things are done very differently. I was married for 19 years and have been divorced for 10. Men have changed and so have women... so I am lost in a world where I was forced to live in again.... The gentlemen that write are either too young to want a serious and meaninful relationship with a 52 yr old woman, they live in another state or they send you their address and phone number on the first contact.... What? Am I supposed to call them or go visit them? Come on!!!! Has the world changed so much.... plese tell me!!




mssilverfox's photo
Mon 09/07/09 06:58 AM
Hang in there, it gets better..LOL Get in the forums and let people get to know you.. Lots of nice people here..Welcome to mingle2..flowerforyou

diva4's photo
Mon 09/07/09 07:02 AM
Thank you Mssilverfox.... nice suggestion but how do I do that?

Meg8771's photo
Mon 09/07/09 07:07 AM
Welcome and I wish you much success flowerforyou It just takes time. Post in the forums, get to know people and them know you...and have FUN!

Quietman_2009's photo
Mon 09/07/09 07:07 AM
you're already doing it


just scan the topic titles and read the threads (conversations). I promise you'll find something that you just HAVE to comment on. and over time you'll become familiar with some certain people and suddenly you'll realize you've made some truly great friends. and maybe just maybe one REALLY great man friend

that is how I met my girlfriend and we've been together three years. I think three years. everytime I say that she corrects me so maybe its four

lnghntr's photo
Mon 09/07/09 07:08 AM
your doin it now..lol...welcome to the nut house

diva4's photo
Mon 09/07/09 07:09 AM
Thank you Meg8771..

diva4's photo
Mon 09/07/09 07:10 AM
Good for you Quietman.... but make sure you keep that anniversary noted down somewhere!!!! it is important to us...laugh

Holly4459's photo
Mon 09/07/09 07:11 AM
That's what I say....Donde Estan Los Hombres?happy


:banana:
Get here rapido puh-leeze!!!:banana:


Oh and welcome Diva!

diva4's photo
Mon 09/07/09 07:12 AM
hahahaah you are absolutely right lnghntr... this is really very high tech for me.... but I will give it a "shot" :tongue:

diva4's photo
Mon 09/07/09 07:14 AM
You are not kidding!!!!Holly4459, but you are very young still...I AM RUNNING OUT OF TIIIIMMMEEEE!!!!!!!!!!laugh

Holly4459's photo
Mon 09/07/09 07:22 AM

You are not kidding!!!!Holly4459, but you are very young still...I AM RUNNING OUT OF TIIIIMMMEEEE!!!!!!!!!!laugh
happy You are a spring chicken my dear!!!drinker bigsmile flowerforyou

vivian2981's photo
Mon 09/07/09 07:26 AM

You are not kidding!!!!Holly4459, but you are very young still...I AM RUNNING OUT OF TIIIIMMMEEEE!!!!!!!!!!laugh


Hi and welcome! You've got lots of time!!!! Enjoy it here!flowerforyou

diva4's photo
Mon 09/07/09 07:29 AM
thank you Vivian for that buster!!!!laugh

diva4's photo
Mon 09/07/09 07:29 AM
I am glad someone thlaugh inks that way

Quietman_2009's photo
Mon 09/07/09 07:33 AM
and just a suggestion

when you reply to someones comments, uses the quote feature on their post and that way there is no confusion about who you're referring to

so far you're fitting in just fine and will make a welcome addition to this mingle family

diva4's photo
Mon 09/07/09 07:34 AM

and just a suggestion

when you reply to someones comments, uses the quote feature on their post and that way there is no confusion about who you're referring to

so far you're fitting in just fine and will make a welcome addition to this mingle family


Thank you, sir!!! is this better?

Quietman_2009's photo
Mon 09/07/09 07:57 AM


and just a suggestion

when you reply to someones comments, uses the quote feature on their post and that way there is no confusion about who you're referring to

so far you're fitting in just fine and will make a welcome addition to this mingle family


Thank you, sir!!! is this better?


yay!

now just stroll through the threads looking for opportunities to be obnoxious and bug people

oh wait

thats just me

but there is a lot of interesting stuff going on in the threads

motowndowntown's photo
Mon 09/07/09 08:05 AM
No tepreocupes con estas problemas. En tiempo cambia los todos.
La vida es para vivir.

no photo
Mon 09/07/09 10:32 AM



and just a suggestion

when you reply to someones comments, uses the quote feature on their post and that way there is no confusion about who you're referring to

so far you're fitting in just fine and will make a welcome addition to this mingle family


Thank you, sir!!! is this better?


yay!

now just stroll through the threads looking for opportunities to be obnoxious and bug people

Anybody notice that I FINALLY got this quote thing right? Thanks to everyone else's help.

oh wait

thats just me

but there is a lot of interesting stuff going on in the threads

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