Topic: Am I A sucker Or What!
bibby7's photo
Sun 05/27/07 12:03 AM
Edit: "hold still"

Hi Sherrey!!:heart:

ArtGurl's photo
Sun 05/27/07 12:06 AM
Bobby flowerforyou

PetiteKitten's photo
Sun 05/27/07 12:06 AM
Bibbyyyyyyyyyyyyy sad

alexiateigra's photo
Sun 05/27/07 12:08 AM
Bibby, oh where, oh where did you find such a hat?

bibby7's photo
Sun 05/27/07 12:08 AM
Bobby...Bibby..Now, I'm confused!!sad laugh

bibby7's photo
Sun 05/27/07 12:09 AM
Want one, Alex???flowerforyou

ArtGurl's photo
Sun 05/27/07 12:09 AM
you will always be bobby to me flowerforyou

bibby7's photo
Sun 05/27/07 12:13 AM
Thanks, Sherry...<<<Looks over shoulder...Hmm..I was Bobby when I got
here..Hmmmm?laugh laugh laugh :heart:

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Sun 05/27/07 12:15 AM
sheesh..........$hit happens....i think it was a beautiful gesture that
you took her in....but what exactly were your motives?

did you think she would be even more grateful? love you more? bend over?

what ever you do for someone in a circumstance like this , should
support the strength not the weakness...her strength is in being
responsible for herself, if what you do assists her to get back on her
feet no strings attached..... and aside from that you court a love
affaire...then i see no problem..

if you expecrt her to be on your timetable then you have a live bomb in
the house


i imagine she is uncomfortable as well ...having to be rescued is
embarrassing....

give her time..she can't feel good about you till she feels good about
herself
flowerforyou

alexiateigra's photo
Sun 05/27/07 12:18 AM
bl8nt makes a good point, but the truth is that there is a lot we do not
know. I personally wonder why she did not move in w/ a friend or
someone else. Why did she move in w/ someone she new for only a
month?????

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Sun 05/27/07 12:20 AM
yeaaaaaa........



underneath all of my post above you.......is the sneakin suspicion



she's just NOT that into you dude...............(sorry)flowerforyou
ohwell

Jess642's photo
Sun 05/27/07 12:29 AM
What was the agreement?

Was sex part of the agreement?

Is that how she is supposed to pay her board?

Where you assisting a fellow human being in need, who may have
over-stayed their welcome...

Irrespsective of the set-up I find it offensive that she is supposed to
'repay' you with sex...

She has told you, that she does not love you, as you do her...

She may be a free-loader...or was this something you decided? To have
you feel more in control?

It is time to say, start looking elsewhere for accomodation..as you have
not received what you require...

Sluggo's photo
Sun 05/27/07 12:39 AM
Kitten, can you give me a cavity seach and get the phone please laugh
laugh

alexiateigra's photo
Sun 05/27/07 12:46 AM
We all turn our heads as we hear the snapping sound of plastic gloves
being put on.

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Sun 05/27/07 12:51 AM
lmao!!!!!!!!!!! good one!laugh

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Sun 05/27/07 12:57 AM
So you must not be able to see a disability as you said "she
says"....And if she is going for disability there are agencies out there
that will help her...appreciating the fact that you have a kind
heart...But have to agree with ChubbyCherubPoet and Petitekitten...this
is definately not your burden to bear...

bibby7's photo
Sun 05/27/07 12:59 AM
HOLY CHIT, Alexiateigra..Without a doubt, that is the most profound
declaration I have ever heard in JSH!!!BRAVA!!

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Sun 05/27/07 01:00 AM
And of course Alex...you as always shed more food for thought!
Hi!flowerforyou

cashay68's photo
Sun 05/27/07 04:32 AM
I don't know if I will call you a sucker but I will call you CRAZY. What
were you thinking? Or were you even thinking?

Greyhound's photo
Sun 05/27/07 04:38 AM
Be careful, after a certain amout of time living with you, she could get
a lawyer and get half of what you own. That's how it is in Canada. You
might wanna get rid of her soon,before she can call it common-law.