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Topic: Dating younger
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Sun 09/06/09 10:56 PM

well I won't date under 30 no matter what, tried that... My last date was 33 and I had said no one under 36/37.. what the heck do I knowlaugh laugh




Oh sweet jesus!

Thank you god. Thank you for letting me turn 30 6 days ago.


I think this is a sign.




bigsmile

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Sun 09/06/09 10:57 PM
hmmmmm maybe it means you need to come to Cali and take me to dinner... :wink: laugh

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Sun 09/06/09 11:15 PM
I date mostly younger. I even married younger. Ive dated 1 old guy. I havent dated my age since high school......I have no idea anymore.noway

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Sun 09/06/09 11:31 PM


somehow I always end up dating younger, mostly b/c that's who asks me out that I'm attracted to.. the one's my age are too angry b/c of what their ex did or too into themselves and or their mid-life crisis.. If that isn't the case then they're too far away or they look as old as my dad or Uncles and that is not what I'm attracted too...



that is the truth .... i thought i was the only one...


OMG no! Me too!

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Sun 09/06/09 11:38 PM

nope you're not :wink:

The tough thing is to tell if they're sincere or just looking for a 'cougar notch'...


Usually the latter, it's supposed to be exciting or exotic or some such crap. That's why it's unusual if they ever work out to be anything long-term.

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Sun 09/06/09 11:39 PM
I hear ya calleigh...

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Sun 09/06/09 11:41 PM
Sucks, doesn't it? The guys my age USUALLY look like they could be my father (ick) and the young ones only want me for my supposed experience. Sheesh frustrated

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Sun 09/06/09 11:43 PM

Sucks, doesn't it? The guys my age USUALLY look like they could be my father (ick) and the young ones only want me for my supposed experience. Sheesh frustrated


Yep, that's the way it goes.flowerforyou

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Sun 09/06/09 11:45 PM
2 yrs ago I dated someone that was 26, he wanted to marry me.. the issue was me... I know that... Last year I dated someone 32 who cared for me very deeply, there were just other things that I couldn't deal with but age wasn't the issue, unless it was the maturity part of the age but he could have been 45 and still immature who knows...

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Sun 09/06/09 11:46 PM

2 yrs ago I dated someone that was 26, he wanted to marry me.. the issue was me... I know that... Last year I dated someone 32 who cared for me very deeply, there were just other things that I couldn't deal with but age wasn't the issue, unless it was the maturity part of the age but he could have been 45 and still immature who knows...


Hmmm, maybe. I guess it depends on the people involved.

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Sun 09/06/09 11:48 PM
It does but it's hard to know at times...

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Sun 09/06/09 11:49 PM

It does but it's hard to know at times...


True, that's why it's easier to just be friends with guys, no worries, no bs, no expectations.

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Sun 09/06/09 11:51 PM
I pretty much don't go on dates.. Every here and there someone will intrigue me enough but it's rare... The last one seemed like a cougar hunter, it was a turn off...

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Sun 09/06/09 11:52 PM
My dad passed away in his early 40's so I don't seem to have the "father" complex most seem to on here. Older men tend to be better for being more settled down in life, knowing what they want and have worked for achieving it. Less of the party life and more ready to make a committment or at least be upfront of not wanting said committment. Downside is they tend not to be able to keep up

Younger guys are great for stamina and exhuberance but usually still need to find themselves and are working out their own youth towards adulthood and with my having kids puts them into a different category with what is considered "adult responsibilites"

I'm working on my evil scientist capabilities and going to gene splice or Frankenstien the two together to find my fit

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Sun 09/06/09 11:53 PM

I pretty much don't go on dates.. Every here and there someone will intrigue me enough but it's rare... The last one seemed like a cougar hunter, it was a turn off...


Yep, "I love older women, they know what they want, they take care of themselves and they're good in bed." Snore and ewww, it gets old.

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Sun 09/06/09 11:54 PM
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh it can if they're not sincere...


(((fire))) you know I adore you chica...

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Sun 09/06/09 11:57 PM


I pretty much don't go on dates.. Every here and there someone will intrigue me enough but it's rare... The last one seemed like a cougar hunter, it was a turn off...


Yep, "I love older women, they know what they want, they take care of themselves and they're good in bed." Snore and ewww, it gets old.





What does that even mean? "know what they want?"


They know what they want for breakfast?

They know what they want when they go to the grocery store?

They know what they want and how to order at a fancy restaurant?




So many generalized statements. Like saying you are "nice."


Doesn't make any sense.

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Sun 09/06/09 11:58 PM



I pretty much don't go on dates.. Every here and there someone will intrigue me enough but it's rare... The last one seemed like a cougar hunter, it was a turn off...


Yep, "I love older women, they know what they want, they take care of themselves and they're good in bed." Snore and ewww, it gets old.





What does that even mean? "know what they want?"


They know what they want for breakfast?

They know what they want when they go to the grocery store?

They know what they want and how to order at a fancy restaurant?




So many generalized statements. Like saying you are "nice."


Doesn't make any sense.


they mean they know what they want out of life. allegedly.

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Sun 09/06/09 11:59 PM
not all IV... but a lot are that way... I've had a couple of special younger one's see above...

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Mon 09/07/09 12:00 AM

not all IV... but a lot are that way... I've had a couple of special younger one's see above...


I never said all, I meant the ones I've either talked to or observed talking to other older women.

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