Age is not just a number. I want a mature, stable person, one who has experienced life and knows what he wants. Plus, guys my age are way more experienced in bed... whoo hooo!!!!

I have never quite understood the experienced in bed thing.



Bare with me for a moment.


Lets say I don't know how to play the piano. I have never received lessons. I can not read the music and I can't just play by ear. But I tickle the ivory and try my damndest to figure out how to play the prelude to a Smashing Pumpkins song. I have done this everyday for 5 years. EVERYDAY! That puts me into the realm of experienced, even into the hours it takes to become a genius at a certain skill. However, I just can not figure it out. I can play chopsticks, even "Mary Had a Little Lamb." But my friends still say I suck at it and they are irritated listening to me practice everyday.


Kind of like an "experienced person" in bed.


I have had a girl who was not good in bed. Boring. And hell, it could have been my fault too, I am by no means saying that I am outstanding. Some girl has probably thought I suck balls in bed.
But - The girl I was with that was just awful, just no emotion, did not want to talk, did not want to do it doggie, she wouldn't suck me off.
This particular girl I gave a shot because I really enjoyed her - but the more experience we had together, the worse it got even.


I dont think experience will do anything for her sexually in becoming good in bed - she doesn't have the mentality or enjoy sex at all. She dates to get married and have kids and be a housewive. Plain and simple.




Of course there are exceptions to everything.



But I have never understood why experience automatically relates to something positive.



Lilith - I'm commenting in general when people make that statement - certainly not challenging your statement.

That was a rocking awesome post, IV. I'm deeply sorry about the doggie and the oral, I enjoy those activities very, very much. Sympathies!


But here you go.... experienced in bed:
Having been with different women, in relationships, a man has the potential to learn what a clitoris is and what to do with it. He would also maybe learn that all women like things differently, and how to pick up cues and communicate intimately. Learning that making sounds and saying things generates additional excitement....

That sort of thing.

But I do agree, experienced does not mean good. Not always. But a girl can dream.

Funny most older women liked what I knew and how I took over but I can see how some guys wouldn't know what they were doing..lol

You can have bad sex with someone no matter what age they are, at least with a younger guy you usually have a lovely body and face to look at.

And, with any luck at all, the younger girls haven't bought into that whole goat-domestication thing yet.

Or so I keep hoping.

From what I've heard, most of them are too busy chewing gum to try turn someone into a goat....

THAT'S what I'm talking about....! Gum is not a deal-breaker!

Now where the hell are they?

I've seen lots of them on mingle, I can start sending sn's when they pop up, if you like? I can be like a mingle madam,

Ooooooh, that might be exactly what I need....!

That, and some business cards.

We need some new blood for the "ceremonies" anyway!

True. I'll be sure to only send the ones who have full body shots so we'll know who'll look best in the goat shorts.

When did you develop the ability to read my thoughts? Is that scary or what?

I'm just that good....

Wow I leave for a few hours and almost have a sex thread.. I don't even have those threads in my recent topics...

Don't you know I can be relied upon to bring up sex almost all of the time???

(((Lilith))) I think I've more seen the intellectual but hey the other is good too...

It all depends on my mood I guess.... I'm rarely on at night anymore. I've been getting raunchier the long I stay in the forums!

I know the cause, just don't have the antibody or well it is the anti-body in a way the no body.. I'll shut up now, I feel ya sister!!!

I won't be worried until your spelling starts to deteriorate....