Why does it always seem that nice guys never seem to get the girl. It just doesnt seem to pay off to be nice. Can anyone out there prove me wrong because i've had nothing but bad luck.

sorry, i can't help.

i prefer arseholes myself.

Hey I'm a nice guy and I meet the woman of my dreams!
Or was that I'm an a** and she doesn't want anything to do with me?
I don't know, I get sooooooo confused.

Thats not always true sometimes you find someone who is right for you and they will not overlook you, but if your not confident enough then you may be overlooked or maybe even looked at as timid or unsure!

All I can say....


Is a big old.....



Welcome



Tammy

Sorry i cant help. I am a complete wanker, and i have a girlfriend.

Have her make money for ya while sleeping with other people.You and her will appreciate one another

I'd like to meet whoever told men that all women want is a guy who considers himself to be nice- so I can shoot them! There is more to life than being a "nice guy" and just because you consider yourself nice, doesn't mean everyone does. Women want a man who can offer them something besides "niceness." End rant.

Oh yeah, welcome to mingle, if you stop calling yourself a nice guy you might do well.

Maybe it's the skateboard. Unless you're tony hawk.

Nice guys (including myself) tend to try the friendship route to a woman's heart. This usually makes us stuck in the friends zone because we were not clear with our motives. Women tend to go for the confidently, cocky, player because they are clear with their motives and are confident.

I have been told for years that eventually nice guys win, but I'll admit that I am tempted to try to the jackass approach since I have now been single for 3 years.

maybe the same reason nice girls get passed by,..'nice' is nauseous

Hi and welcome to Mingle2.

Nice guys do get girls. Floor mats don't.

I dont think its bad luck, and judging from your pic u look confident enough. You being a nice guy, im sure you are looking for a nice girl am i right? , or do you want any girl that would do just about anything and settle for any guy that wants her and has no respect for the body God gave us? Well this is the fact, so few people out there care about being good, or nice, most people do what ever they want, good or evil. So it may take some time to find the right woman for you because they are few. So hang in there, you are better off alone for a time ...than being stuck with some witch. Please, keep being one of the nice guys, we need you.

I'm proof of that

Im not a floor mat, its just that i believe that girls in my area tend to go for the insensitive jacka**, because i've seen plenty of evidence and i've even had a experiment with my friends to see which type of guy girls go for and it was a staggering 85% for the jacka** and 15% for the nice guy. Could someone disprove my facts on this?

as i said before, i can't help you.

i don't want to date anyone who considers themselves a 'nice guy'.


tge term doesn't have good connotations surrounding it.

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i don't think anyone wants an insensitive jerk; however, i do like the standoffish, cool, aloof, come-and-get-me type of guy, i've always found that attitude incredibly alluring. usually they are pretty good people under those hard outer shells by the way.

Sorry can not help.

I prefer a bad boy

Don't you just feel like grabbing a chainsaw and chop them up into tiny bits when they say "You're so nice, you're like a big brother"

See, nice guys are to precious to have as boyfriends, women, they prefer to have you forever so they turn you into a friend they can count on when they are feeling down.

That's why from now on I'll star with a "HEY B!TCH! That a$$ is fiiiiiiine!"




Na' just kiddin'

Not like that but I am a bit different than I used to be.

Just so I can help and you're aware....THe 'nice guy' threads have been WAY overdone on here...this is probably without over exaggerating the 10,000th post to be done on 'why do woman never want the nice guy' be who you are...don't claim your a 'nice guy' because you and every other guy on here almost has said the same at one time. If you are they will figure it out on their own. Just enjoy the forums and get to know some of these people...some will become pretty good friends others might take it a step further. Come in, RELAX, and enjoy.

~Isaac