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It is a awfull feeling.So I chose to stay single, than to feel that way.One day we will find someone .

Being alone as nothing to do with how many people around, you could have a partner lots of friends family and still feel alone.

If you cannot be comfortable alone then it is hard to be comfortable with others since yourself will always be around.

I love being alone, I can walk around naked in my house and bury people under my stoop without someone saying "they need food or water"...blah, blah, blah...they have a candle for crying out loud.

I don't have a problem being without a significant other in my life. I truly love myself, with all my lumps and bumps. I have a great personality and sense of humor. I may choose someone to share my life with but I don't need someone. I am already complete.

I don't think there can ever be a clear blanket consensus on that one. "Good" and "bad" are interpreted differently by different people.

I've been in a lot of relationships, and most of that time was pretty awful. Would I have been better off finding one person and sticking with her? Who can say? I suppose it's possible, but on the other hand, I might have ended up bored out of my skull for 50 years. Or even worse, domesticated. My parents were together for 27 years, and I saw what that did to them. No way I want to live through that scenario.



To me, the important thing is not to end up with the wrong person. I'm going to be alone, regardless -- no sense running from it.

I bought them a cranberry melon candle the other day, they love it.

I'm glad I'm "weird" then, because I love my own company. I'll never understand people who "need" someone else to make them happy or complete.

Well said.

Agreed.

Well, there is that one guy that makes me oh so very happy, but he shall not be named.....

Times have changed and while a long lasting relationship, such as that my grandparents had(sounds like a fairy tale)It's not what people NEED, that's a want...they met when they were 24, married at 26 and were together till the days they died. At the ages of 83 and 85, both died days apart. That kind of love is very strong..but not all people need it.

I maybe 26, but I already think about how I would rather be alone than be miserable with someone for the rest of my life. Marriage and kids aren't everything - in fact I did not even want kids, then I had my son, learned what true love is and he's the only love I need, he is the only male in this world that will make me happy. And one day he will be going through the same thing I am. hell, evidentally he already has a "girl" at school! LMAO!! And he stopped calling me "mommy"..now it's just "mom" :( But I'd love to be retired and the day he moves out is the day i'm taking a world tour! LOL

if someone wants to chat 12:49 just got off work whats up all

Sigh...relationships. Yes, i guess i have pretty much forgotten what a relationship is. I found out to my horror after retiring (even though my house is payed for), that living on a budgeted fixed income actually literally makes it to where i cannot be a part of any dating game whatsoever. It is based on money purely and simply. This is something people themselves created over a period of around 70 years. America is a rich persons country.

There are many potentials for me and with me owning a house in a well populated area i have found it has zero values as far as attaining a relationship. So based on this me calculas comes to this...people aren't looking for relationships that join dating sites or phone dating programs but are instead seeking someone to "Do things with". I finally figured this out after being alone for 3 years.

Take dating for example..they say let's meet...This means getting in a motorized vehicle and driving to someplace that requires money and it doesn't stop there.

My reply post sounds like it has no application to the original post in this topic..but are we so sure it doesn't?? For example...do people know what a relationship is??? NO..They not only do not know who they are, but they do not know what a relationship is..they are entertainment seekers instead. Or moochers in sheeps clothing waiting to vulturize money wise and transportation wise real potentials.

I was alone for a long time! By choice! Had girls to raise

Now I have someone I truly care for and all those years were worth it!!

i believe that people come into your life when you need them most and they each serve some purpose.

i don't necessarily believe in forever, although i wouldn't ever date someone who i didn't want around for the long haul (in case it happened).

i try to not have any expectations on the relationship and just enjoy it for what it is, while i have it. just because something comes to an end, it doesn't necessarily mean that it was a failure.

better to be bored alone
than miserable in company

HOLI: wasnt it Jean Paul Sartre who said hell was being locked forever in a room with all your friends.

LISTER: Yea Holi, but all his mates were French

What's the words to that song again ?


Oh yeah...Now I remember...

"I'd rather be lonely alone"