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Topic: What do I do Now???
earthytaurus76's photo
Fri 09/04/09 02:58 PM
Why would you consider a liar for a friend?

You can forgive people in your heart, but that doesnt mean you have to hang out with them, or have anything to do with them for that matter.


Forgiveness is only not holding someone in contempt. Your not sposed to keep unhealthy people around, just because they are forgiven.



auburngirl's photo
Fri 09/04/09 03:41 PM

Why would you consider a liar for a friend?

You can forgive people in your heart, but that doesnt mean you have to hang out with them, or have anything to do with them for that matter.


Forgiveness is only not holding someone in contempt. Your not sposed to keep unhealthy people around, just because they are forgiven.





Perfectly said!

Winx's photo
Fri 09/04/09 03:43 PM
Edited by Winx on Fri 09/04/09 03:46 PM

so here's a question for anyone that maybe someone can answer for me....Ive just got out of a realtionship for a year where he treated me bad an he constantly lied to me about anything an everything that he did. Now ive decided to go back to dating women who i know i can trust because women tend to be more honest then men. So here's the question...Should I be his friend if he asks me to be or wat should i do if he changes an i see it an he wants me back??? Plz let me know because im confused about him


I'm confused. Just because one man treated you badly you're doing this or is it because women turn you on more then men?

Also, it's usually a good idea to heal after a relationship before you go to another relationship.

I wouldn't call him a friend. My friends don't treat me like he treated you.


Winx's photo
Fri 09/04/09 03:44 PM

No one gender is more honest than the other, either you're a liar or you're not, it has nothing to do with whether you're a male or a female, so if that's the only reason you're going back to women, I think you're going to be in for a rude awakening. As for being his friend, yeah, when my "friends" treat me like crap, they don't deserve that title anymore.


I agree.

Winx's photo
Fri 09/04/09 03:45 PM

In the name of Sisterhood I want to understand. See, men have a unit and women have a hoo-ha. Men usually have short hair and usually women wear their hair more fluffy. Men have testosterone and women have estrogen. Generally, men fix things and make loud noises when they watch sports and women generally can make up a beautiful platter of crackers, cheeseball & veggies. So when you say this guy is acting up and you're thinking about going back to women it's a little like me saying, "This sewing machine breaks thread! I think I'll join a volleyball league." noway


I love your posts. You call it like you see it.

Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 09/04/09 03:47 PM

Why would you be his friend? Don't let him keep on emotionally abusing you! Walk away and don't look back! He does not deserve you. flowerforyou



Agree!!

Mr_Music's photo
Fri 09/04/09 03:51 PM
When a liar gets caught in their own game, they deserve to be left in the dust, especially compulsive and pathological liars.

Japanese831's photo
Fri 09/04/09 05:57 PM
I thank you all for ur quick responses to my question an im goin bak to women cas i feel more comfortable bein with a woman for my personal reasons that id rather not share ...no offense to anyone tho. An thats after i heal from this relationship tho

Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 09/04/09 06:00 PM
Man or woman

Your choice


Just make sure they treat you right!

windwalker65's photo
Fri 09/04/09 06:27 PM
It has been my expierience of 44 years that MOST liars are repeat offenders. your better off keeping a distance.bigsmile

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