Topic: Have You Given Up?
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Wed 10/07/09 11:25 AM

sometimes, more often than not, i do give up on finding someone. i don't know if i am decent looking or not but with the amount of rejection i get...it makes me wonder.



I think you're quite attractive...maybe you should broaden your horizons? I don't really know what that means but they all say that! laugh

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Wed 10/07/09 11:28 AM

sometimes, more often than not, i do give up on finding someone. i don't know if i am decent looking or not but with the amount of rejection i get...it makes me wonder.



I had to turn my stealth back on to perv you, but you are an attractive fellow...

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Wed 10/07/09 11:31 AM
oops To answer the question, I gave up a looooooong time ago flowerforyou

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Wed 10/07/09 11:21 PM


sometimes, more often than not, i do give up on finding someone. i don't know if i am decent looking or not but with the amount of rejection i get...it makes me wonder.



I think you're quite attractive...maybe you should broaden your horizons? I don't really know what that means but they all say that! laugh
flowerforyou

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Wed 10/07/09 11:34 PM
oh sorry, i was too busy staring at someone's profile, what was the question again? giving up? nope, nope, not giving up, now back to his profile.....love love love

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Wed 10/07/09 11:40 PM

oh sorry, i was too busy staring at someone's profile, what was the question again? giving up? nope, nope, not giving up, now back to his profile.....love love love
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Wed 10/07/09 11:49 PM


oh sorry, i was too busy staring at someone's profile, what was the question again? giving up? nope, nope, not giving up, now back to his profile.....love love love
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Thu 10/08/09 12:30 AM
Damned Draconians! They keep stealing all of my women! Ain't that right, Mirror? laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 10/08/09 12:36 AM
i just stick to hookers....

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Thu 10/08/09 12:54 AM
I've given up on psycho women.

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Thu 10/08/09 01:40 AM
Hadn't given up, persay, just took a break, gave myself time to heal and enjoy the solitude.

Will say I found someone from here on Mingle2, though he'd only just popped on at the time. It's gotten serious fast (month and a half) even to the point of discussing marriage. It would be a long engagement though as he's in the military and goes to the Middle East in December-ish.

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Thu 10/08/09 02:57 AM
Equus, I wish I knew you more, and who knows, we could be friends, now it sounds like Soul-ja boy is rushing you, and you need time to sort things out, and get to know people, not rushed into a decision. I know, 4 years ago, I was rushed into a decision of having someone move in with me. I dismissed her emotional baggage, and I have regretted it ever since. She's gone now, thank God, but the last 4 years seem like such a waste now, even though we had those good times. I need to feel joy again.flowers

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Thu 10/08/09 07:21 AM



:heart: Have you given up on trying to "find someone" because of the amount of times you were rejected and you feel that it'll never work out or that you won't find someone?:heart:


Yep I have given up. When you have been told over and over again that your a great friend but not date material you give up. Guess when I am told that its a polite way of being rejected. :smile:

I may never be that special someone to one special person, but the one thing I do have that I don't regret and will never give up on is my friends.

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Thu 10/08/09 07:25 AM
haven't given up...just not seeking, trying the being seek d... seems can't find someone who turns my head and heart...too picky, naw i knw what i want and won't settle. and iam in no hurry. so i will sit patiently until i get what i want

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Fri 10/09/09 02:08 AM
Don't think I've really given up, just been rejected so much sometimes I feel why even bother. Its hard to tell when some one is being serious nowadays. Lately I've had a few flirtatious situations and opportunities I let pass by due to I think they might just be playing with my mind.

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Fri 10/09/09 02:13 AM
i find the younger the girls the more screwed up they are
they are shallow.

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Fri 10/09/09 02:16 AM
You cant give up as you never know what is around the corner said my grandad before the bus hit him!!!laugh laugh Anna x

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Fri 10/09/09 02:20 AM
whos anna x

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Fri 10/09/09 02:51 AM
Edited by EquusDancer on Fri 10/09/09 02:53 AM

Equus, I wish I knew you more, and who knows, we could be friends, now it sounds like Soul-ja boy is rushing you, and you need time to sort things out, and get to know people, not rushed into a decision. I know, 4 years ago, I was rushed into a decision of having someone move in with me. I dismissed her emotional baggage, and I have regretted it ever since. She's gone now, thank God, but the last 4 years seem like such a waste now, even though we had those good times. I need to feel joy again.flowers


No, there's no rush. It's just talk at this point. And considering I've never been a big one for marriage anyways, that says a lot. There's a far deeper connection on a mental level, not just physical. The time he's away will be good for an even deeper mental level as it will be all about communication.

I took a three year break after a bunch of crazy relationships. Quite enjoyed the time to myself.

He hasn't and won't give me any b.s. regarding my religious views, my animals, and my life, and we have fun together, even arguing! LOL.

I am still free to meet and make friends, however.

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Fri 10/09/09 07:57 AM
All the time and it´s getting harder and harder to find someone when you getting older.