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Topic: whats the best?
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Sun 08/30/09 03:44 PM
..to be with the man you love but not giving you in return or to the man who truly loves you..

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Sun 08/30/09 03:48 PM
This would seem to have an obvious answer...until you actually look at the question.

From the way the question was phrased, you know the one guy truly loves you, but you don't feel the same way about him.

In that case, you are better off being away from both of them because you won't be doing anything but creating misery. Either for yourself ( in the case of the guy you love that doesn't give it back ) or for the guy ( the one who loves you but you don't have that kind of feelings for).

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Sun 08/30/09 03:49 PM
Obviously the later.So my Q is what are your feelings to-wards the man who truly loves U?

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Sun 08/30/09 03:50 PM
Neither one. One sided doesn't work for me. I want to love and be loved back.

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Sun 08/30/09 03:50 PM
what if you learn to love the other guy?

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Sun 08/30/09 03:51 PM
depends on what you want... if you want to satisfy an unhealthy dependency, be with the one who can't show love. If you want to feel loved be with the one who loves you...:heart:

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Sun 08/30/09 03:52 PM
With a gun to my head, if I had to choose, I would pick the man who loves me. Otherwise, there would be lots of crying and whining vs some eye-rolling and teeth clenching.

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Sun 08/30/09 03:52 PM
happy

depends on what you want... if you want to satisfy an unhealthy dependency, be with the one who can't show love. If you want to feel loved be with the one who loves you...:heart:

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Sun 08/30/09 03:52 PM

Neither one. One sided doesn't work for me. I want to love and be loved back.


Same here.What good is one without the either? If one sided someone always get hurt.brokenheart

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Sun 08/30/09 03:53 PM
Oh god!!

The man who truly loves me
Who is there holding me when I'm in pain
Who holds my hair while I puke in the sink
Who gives me bear hugs and kisses
Who whispers my name in the dark

That man truly loves me!!!!:heart:

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Sun 08/30/09 03:53 PM
they said chose the man who truly loves you.. but i want it to love and to be loved as well..

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Sun 08/30/09 03:54 PM
Or u could just go by the way of the song.If u can't be with the one u love,love the one your with.

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Sun 08/30/09 03:55 PM
is it possible to learn to love the man who loves you?

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Sun 08/30/09 03:56 PM

they said chose the man who truly loves you.. but i want it to love and to be loved as well..


then forget about both of them and start from scratch....

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Sun 08/30/09 03:57 PM
I guess it is

But I like to feel the love and show the love

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Sun 08/30/09 03:57 PM
okay..im in the situation that im with the man i love and he said he loves me too but i never felt he loves me..

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Sun 08/30/09 03:57 PM
I choose neither

I don't want to be in love with a man and I don't want any man in love with me

LightVoice's photo
Sun 08/30/09 03:59 PM

This would seem to have an obvious answer...until you actually look at the question.

From the way the question was phrased, you know the one guy truly loves you, but you don't feel the same way about him.

In that case, you are better off being away from both of them because you won't be doing anything but creating misery. Either for yourself ( in the case of the guy you love that doesn't give it back ) or for the guy ( the one who loves you but you don't have that kind of feelings for).


Exactly my sentiments

flowers

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Sun 08/30/09 03:59 PM
laugh

I choose neither

I don't want to be in love with a man and I don't want any man in love with me

laugh

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Sun 08/30/09 04:00 PM

This would seem to have an obvious answer...until you actually look at the question.

From the way the question was phrased, you know the one guy truly loves you, but you don't feel the same way about him.

In that case, you are better off being away from both of them because you won't be doing anything but creating misery. Either for yourself ( in the case of the guy you love that doesn't give it back ) or for the guy ( the one who loves you but you don't have that kind of feelings for).

:smile:

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