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 Should you have to "make" your relationship work,or should it just work by itself with little effort from those involved?
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It just flows....
Like the ocean...' Like it was meant to be....
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It just flows.... Like the ocean...' Like it was meant to be....
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It just flows.... Like the ocean...' Like it was meant to be....
yep...what she said |
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If you have to work "Hard" on it
It wouldn't feel natural Therefore maybe is not meant to be I understand compromising but like i said If it doesn't feel natural 
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It just flows.... Like the ocean...' Like it was meant to be....
yep...what she said
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Forcing it or "making it work" no, but working together in a stable relationship is a healthy thing.
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If you have to work "Hard" on it It wouldn't feel natural Therefore maybe is not meant to be I understand compromising but like i said If it doesn't feel natural
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Forcing it or "making it work" no, but working together in a stable relationship is a healthy thing.
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Edited by
earthytaurus76
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Sun 08/30/09 09:21 AM
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I think it flows with effort and work from everyone, also some people just click, and some dont.
If I dont feel inspired to put forth effort for someone, its not worthwile to me. Now if I have to slave at it, hell no. If we dont get along, its a no go. |
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If I dont feel inspired to put forth effort for someone, its not worthwile to me. Exactly. It depends. If you're struggling to work up a conversation, then...eh. However, if you're having trouble making time for each other because of work-related commitments or such...that's different. |
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I think it flows with effort and work from everyone, also some people just click, and some dont. If I dont feel inspired to put forth effort for someone, its not worthwile to me. Now if I have to slave at it, hell no. If we dont get along, its a no go.
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If I dont feel inspired to put forth effort for someone, its not worthwile to me. Exactly. It depends. If you're struggling to work up a conversation, then...eh. However, if you're having trouble making time for each other because of work-related commitments or such...that's different.
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it's not all touchy feely and warm and fuzzy after the initial infatuation starts to wear off and you're pickin up smelly socks and skidmark underwear for the 100th time or late for work cause you can't find your keys cause someone "tidied" for the 100th time
or you want to watch the Colts and the Patriots and she wants to watch "What not to wear". You do have to work pretty hard at it sometimes or it just wont work |
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Should you have to "make" your relationship work,or should it just work by itself with little effort from those involved?
The idea that relationships don't take work is fairytale, IMO. It takes two people giving 100%. Relationships should flow because of the work and the result has to be worth the work. That isn't to imply that a square peg/round hole situation is okay, either. Some things can't be forced and shouldn't be. But given that I'm single...what do I know??? 
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The general relation should be a breeze but to make it last you have to work at it, improve, adjust, compromise, grow together and never forget that you are not alone in it.
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it's not all touchy feely and warm and fuzzy after the initial infatuation starts to wear off and you're pickin up smelly socks and skidmark underwear for the 100th time or late for work cause you can't find your keys cause someone "tidied" for the 100th time or you want to watch the Colts and the Patriots and she wants to watch "What not to wear". You do have to work pretty hard at it sometimes or it just wont work That is why it is a good idea to be involved in an equal and compromising relationship in every which way. |
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Edited by
BillySuvol
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Sun 08/30/09 09:36 AM
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Should you have to "make" your relationship work,or should it just work by itself with little effort from those involved?
"working hard on a relationship" leads to stress......and we all know what stress leads to.............. in my case? it lead to me signing up for mingle  
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It just flows.... Like the ocean...' Like it was meant to be....
yep...what she said i third that
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I would prefer it be a labor of love.
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