Where pretty much depends on what kind of guy you are looking for. Do you want a guy who is intellectual, physical, family oriented, outgoing, or reserved? If you hate sports obviously a game is not probably going to find you someone you will like in the long run.

As far as guys who will build you up and not tear you down; you want to avoid places where people with self esteem problems hang out; unemployment centers, bars, rehab seminairs, or places that will put you in competition. People who are on power trips can really be tough if you are already having a time. I would take a few personal developement classes or do something that makes you feel stronger before you take on dateing. Dateing is hard on just about anyones self esteem.

If you want to find a guy who is not going to want to spend all your money it helps to date guys who have enough of their own to start with. After that you have to set your own boundries. If you have had some bad examples you might want to think that through and see if you see some personality markers to avoid. The "Entitled" or "Victim" attitude would be the first I would avoid.

that worked for me

look at what a jerk I am and what a great girlfriend I have

crate worthy......im excited!Can i be gagged?I sometimes blurt stupidity......as you know.

Hunny if you want gagged I'm cool with that..

Mutual Match

I'm going to play "mutual match".... if I'm not back in 15 min, come save me...

I have always made more than my exs but that is not a problem for me. I don't need someone to pay for the whole meal just their tab. I know who I am and where I am going so I need a man who is comfortable in their own skin.

I've never met one, sorry. I do wish you luck though.

Sometimes they turn out to be in your own backyard!
Or mingle
Or Wal Mart
Or the park


Who really knows?

were in the ICU at your local hospital trying to recover from the last woman who said she was a "good woman"

Dam if I know haven't met or find a good one yet.

Speaking strictly for myself (and considering myself to be the type of guy you mentioned), I just got tired of having people try to change me into somebody else. So I stopped looking.

My imagination?

Why the hell do you need a man to help build you up? My momma always told me "if you want it done right, do it yourself".

Ever try to knock down a house built on a solid foundation? Doesn't happen easily, takes a mighty big rig with a huge wrecking ball attached. You can spot them suckers a mile away. Point being, they can't tear you down if you stand strong, alone.

Last one's easy...give away all your assets and live in utter poverty. They won't be chasing you for your money. Works for me.

JMO Good luck to ya.

There are good men but not much. To have ur perfect match does not cost you a thing. What u need is believe and ask for the right one and it shall be given to you. Tell GOD to give u ur own heart desire and he will. Ask for honest reliable thrusworthy men u will surely get one. But u need to believe. I can help u out without a cost.

There are good men but not much. To have ur perfect match does not cost you a thing. What u need is believe and ask for the right one and it shall be given to you. Tell GOD to give u ur own heart desire and he will. Ask for honest reliable thrusworthy men u will surely get one. But u need to believe. I can help u out without a cost.

Ghana!


Nadu!


Bombay!



Apparently they are all there waiting just for you...........

Once I was a good guy and then I felt being only used so don't want to be a good guy anymore.

I'm more cruel, ruthless and my mind is constantly in the gutter.

U need to relax dont rush again. Check yourself, amend if it needs, take a new step, and get another concious man.