Topic: Coming on too strong?
earthytaurus76's photo
Sat 08/29/09 12:35 AM

The girl is from Texas and grew up down there, any ladies from Texas in here that wanna give me tips?


I just did. :wink:

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Sat 08/29/09 12:37 AM

The girl is from Texas and grew up down there, any ladies from Texas in here that wanna give me tips?



I lived in Texas for quite awhile.....Never say anything bad about Texas!!! Great state. So hope you all have fun/flowerforyou

Balky's photo
Sat 08/29/09 12:38 AM


The girl is from Texas and grew up down there, any ladies from Texas in here that wanna give me tips?



I lived in Texas for quite awhile.....Never say anything bad about Texas!!! Great state. So hope you all have fun/flowerforyou


I've told her that I do want to visit Texas sometime but didn't mention anything about going with her... is that implying some future plans with her?

Balky's photo
Sat 08/29/09 12:41 AM



The girl is from Texas and grew up down there, any ladies from Texas in here that wanna give me tips?



I lived in Texas for quite awhile.....Never say anything bad about Texas!!! Great state. So hope you all have fun/flowerforyou


I've told her that I do want to visit Texas sometime but didn't mention anything about going with her... is that implying some future plans with her?



Ok after the date is over... lets say I'm dropping her off at her home or we're calling it a night... Do I ask her out again then and there or wait a few days and then ask her?

Quietman_2009's photo
Sat 08/29/09 12:42 AM
Edited by Quietman_2009 on Sat 08/29/09 12:43 AM
dude, don't over think it

just trust in your ability to react properly to the situation

just say "I'd like to see you again" (if you decide you want to) and go by what she says

Balky's photo
Sat 08/29/09 12:44 AM

dude, don't over think it

just trust in your ability to react properly to the situation

just say "I'd like to see you again" (if you decide you want to) and go by what she says


I can't stop over thinking dude, I'm a virgo it's in my trait to worry/think too much.

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Sat 08/29/09 12:47 AM
It's all on feeling isnt it?

A well organized game plan going into a date is a terrible idea because what if all your little cues don't go as exactly as planned?


Forget the game planning.


When to call, when to ask out again - you will be able to tell throughout the course of the nite what is right and what isn't.


What if you sat here rite now - and made the plan that "ok, i won't ask her out until 3 days after the date."

But she ends the date saying _ "Balky, I just had the greatest date I've ever had, your a true man, I like that."

well phuck me sideways!

you gotta ask her out again right there!

but you all ready made the game plan to wait 3 days!


BOO!



No game planning. be yourself, relax. Gentleman.

And no roofies, doesn't sound the chic to try that on.






earthytaurus76's photo
Sat 08/29/09 12:51 AM
You can feel it out about the asking her out again, but I would say make her wait either way.


Just for SURE call her the next day, and tell her you had a good time if you did.


I actually like it when they play it cool and ask like a day later or so..

Seems impulsive if he asks that same date night, unless he like,.. has an extra ticket for something already then.. mmm not SO bad.

7z3r05's photo
Sat 08/29/09 12:53 AM
Edited by 7z3r05 on Sat 08/29/09 12:53 AM

You can feel it out about the asking her out again, but I would say make her wait either way.


Just for SURE call her the next day, and tell her you had a good time if you did.


I actually like it when they play it cool and ask like a day later or so..

Seems impulsive if he asks that same date night, unless he like,.. has an extra ticket for something already then.. mmm not SO bad.


i want you in all the wrong ways that seem right.

and if they were right originally, then those count as 2 points. and for evey 2 points i get a spin on the blowjob wheel.

earthytaurus76's photo
Sat 08/29/09 12:55 AM
laugh


You can feel it out about the asking her out again, but I would say make her wait either way.


Just for SURE call her the next day, and tell her you had a good time if you did.


I actually like it when they play it cool and ask like a day later or so..

Seems impulsive if he asks that same date night, unless he like,.. has an extra ticket for something already then.. mmm not SO bad.


i want you in all the wrong ways that seem right.

and if they were right originally, then those count as 2 points. and for evey 2 points i get a spin on the blowjob wheel.


laugh

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Sat 08/29/09 12:55 AM
Truly, no offense...

but, if she has to set boundaries already...and you have to inquire about what boundaries are already...

and you have never even met...?

As Earthy would say...

Hope the sex is good!

Oh, and be sure to leave a decent tip to your waiter/waitress...perhaps THAT will leave a good impression.

laugh

earthytaurus76's photo
Sat 08/29/09 12:57 AM

Truly, no offense...

but, if she has to set boundaries already...and you have to inquire about what boundaries are already...

and you have never even met...?

As Earthy would say...

Hope the sex is good!

Oh, and be sure to leave a decent tip to your waiter/waitress...perhaps THAT will leave a good impression.

laugh


rofl Funny.

I dunno man.. I ALWAYS am RIGHT up front about the boundries.

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Sat 08/29/09 01:00 AM


Truly, no offense...

but, if she has to set boundaries already...and you have to inquire about what boundaries are already...

and you have never even met...?

As Earthy would say...

Hope the sex is good!

Oh, and be sure to leave a decent tip to your waiter/waitress...perhaps THAT will leave a good impression.

laugh


rofl Funny.

I dunno man.. I ALWAYS am RIGHT up front about the boundries.







Never came across it. Seems awkward to me. Icky. Wouldn't want to date in that situation.


BUT.

if it works, it works.


don't hate the playa, hate the game.


Balky's photo
Sat 08/29/09 01:01 AM

Truly, no offense...

but, if she has to set boundaries already...and you have to inquire about what boundaries are already...

and you have never even met...?

As Earthy would say...

Hope the sex is good!

Oh, and be sure to leave a decent tip to your waiter/waitress...perhaps THAT will leave a good impression.

laugh


As a former employee that used to rely on tips I know how to tip waiters

earthytaurus76's photo
Sat 08/29/09 01:03 AM
If I gotta be hatin.. it aint happening, and believe me, i wouldnt waste my time on a "playa"..


Thats why I have conversations with people before we go out, to see if there is anything I like about the person. There is never a time boundries dont come up, and it has never been a problem for me.

Balky's photo
Sat 08/29/09 01:04 AM
Ok. Her Bff "bestfriend" gave me an interview over the phone and she likes me and I passed her test, should be a good sign shouln't it?

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Sat 08/29/09 01:05 AM

If I gotta be hatin.. it aint happening, and believe me, i wouldnt waste my time on a "playa"..


Thats why I have conversations with people before we go out, to see if there is anything I like about the person. There is never a time boundries dont come up, and it has never been a problem for me.





:thumbsup:



keep workin it girl!

earthytaurus76's photo
Sat 08/29/09 01:06 AM
Edited by earthytaurus76 on Sat 08/29/09 01:06 AM

Ok. Her Bff "bestfriend" gave me an interview over the phone and she likes me and I passed her test, should be a good sign shouln't it?


O good God.. Id run like hell..

PFFT! Her best friend? How old is this person?

Like its not enough pressure trying to get to know HER!

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Sat 08/29/09 01:06 AM

Ok. Her Bff "bestfriend" gave me an interview over the phone and she likes me and I passed her test, should be a good sign shouln't it?





Come on. For real?



Ick.


Dating is stupid.




Balky's photo
Sat 08/29/09 01:06 AM


Ok. Her Bff "bestfriend" gave me an interview over the phone and she likes me and I passed her test, should be a good sign shouln't it?


O good God.. Id run like hell..

PFFT! Her best friend? How old is this person?


My girls is 28, idk about the bestfriend