Topic: Rate my profile please
Teufelhunde's photo
Fri 08/28/09 07:20 PM
I am not getting many responses or views on my profile. I am curious as to what I could change to make it better or if it's just that there might not be many in my area looking.

Thank you,

Teufelhunde

AndyBgood's photo
Fri 08/28/09 07:22 PM
Deutsch fur Devildog???spock

Teufelhunde's photo
Fri 08/28/09 07:24 PM
Marine Corps

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Fri 08/28/09 07:30 PM
I read your profile and it looks real good to me. You are so new here on Mingle and I would give it some time. You will find, I think, that you'll make lots of friends here if you keep posting but love is hard to find because of the big world we live in. I get lots of mail from nice guys 3,000 miles away. So it takes time. Good luck!flowerforyou waving smile2

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 08/28/09 08:25 PM
I don't think the text on your profile is helping you out a lot. Has a negative vibe. You want to focus on the things you want not what you do not want. Why someone should be attracted to you. What you would be attracted to.

Whatever you were doing for the "timeout" this is not the right time to address it. People's imagination will always be worse than the reality so be vague does you more harm.

A simple reference that "I have three great kids...y/o that live with ----" is enough. Most women are smart enough that they are not going to be the new Mommy.

For a good looking guy I kind of wonder why you picked the photo with the shades. Yea you are smileing but it isn't as flattering as a couple of the others. Might be the clouds in the background. Seems like a cartoon bubble that should have a wise crack with the smile that seems a little forced.

Read some profiles and some of the forums and you will get some ideas of what experience will tell you.

Give yourself a break. You are new it takes some time to hit pay dirt. Get on the forums early evening or on the weekend mornings. Getting comments out there gets your picture seen. NEVER whine you will get chewed up and spit out.