No, it was not me doing anything wrong. You'd like me to explain?

No, it was not me doing anything wrong. You'd like me to explain?

You want to hear in detail about why the sex was bad?

To find an intelligent, empowered, articulate & communicative man who knows where a clitoris is and that pushing hard on it if he can find it is NOT a good idea... well. Prove he exists. I'm doubtful.

I miss the idealistic way I viewed love when I was younger. The experiences I've had have made me, well, not so sorry I'm single. And as for the sex, eh.... I'm got a helper. 80% of the sex I've had sucked.

And yes, I admit I might be a bit cranky today... but I'm also being honest.

To find an intelligent, empowered, articulate & communicative man who knows where a clitoris is and that pushing hard on it if he can find it is NOT a good idea... well. Prove he exists. I'm doubtful.

How about the three thrust wham bammers who lie back, cross their arms and say, so, baby, was it good for you?

How about the guys who have no, um, tempo and stop just as you are about to feel anything other than the sweat dripping on you after 32.8 seconds?

How about the ones who grind into you so badly you get a rash or worse, cut your skin in order to get more in there so they feel like "big men"?

How about the ones who never learned the word foreplay? The ones who stick their hands down your pants, ram two or three fingers up inside you... they feel the slightest bit of lubrication, push your panties aside, stick "it" up there and move seizure-like until they are done?

The ones who move only in a circular motion?

But one thing all these guys have in common? They don't make eye contact, they don't take cues, they don't listen, and they don't communicate. Why? Because they don't give a flying f**k.

So yes, I'm doing everything wrong. I'd be having much better sex if I didn't allow this to happen right?

what I miss is waking up in the morning with her in my arms and her scent still on my body, sneaking up behind her and putting my arms around hr waist and kissing her on the neck, catching her sneaking a glance at me from across the room, watching her hips sway as she walks, morning sex..

man, I hope she never reads this..

I realize some folks have had bad experiences, so have I, plenty, including horrid sex...but, that only lasted as long as I was willing to accept it...together a couple can learn from one another want does it for them. You don't just always instantly click in that area I have found, you know what you've learned... and the experimenting...exploring is SO much fun, just have to be willing to go there.

And Robin you are so right. A very wise woman here.

How about the three thrust wham bammers who lie back, cross their arms and say, so, baby, was it good for you?

How about the guys who have no, um, tempo and stop just as you are about to feel anything other than the sweat dripping on you after 32.8 seconds?

How about the ones who grind into you so badly you get a rash or worse, cut your skin in order to get more in there so they feel like "big men"?

How about the ones who never learned the word foreplay? The ones who stick their hands down your pants, ram two or three fingers up inside you... they feel the slightest bit of lubrication, push your panties aside, stick "it" up there and move seizure-like until they are done?

The ones who move only in a circular motion?

But one thing all these guys have in common? They don't make eye contact, they don't take cues, they don't listen, and they don't communicate. Why? Because they don't give a flying f**k.

So yes, I'm doing everything wrong. I'd be having much better sex if I didn't allow this to happen right?

How about the three thrust wham bammers who lie back, cross their arms and say, so, baby, was it good for you?

How about the guys who have no, um, tempo and stop just as you are about to feel anything other than the sweat dripping on you after 32.8 seconds?

How about the ones who grind into you so badly you get a rash or worse, cut your skin in order to get more in there so they feel like "big men"?

How about the ones who never learned the word foreplay? The ones who stick their hands down your pants, ram two or three fingers up inside you... they feel the slightest bit of lubrication, push your panties aside, stick "it" up there and move seizure-like until they are done?

The ones who move only in a circular motion?

But one thing all these guys have in common? They don't make eye contact, they don't take cues, they don't listen, and they don't communicate. Why? Because they don't give a flying f**k.

So yes, I'm doing everything wrong. I'd be having much better sex if I didn't allow this to happen right?

How about the three thrust wham bammers who lie back, cross their arms and say, so, baby, was it good for you?

How about the guys who have no, um, tempo and stop just as you are about to feel anything other than the sweat dripping on you after 32.8 seconds?

How about the ones who grind into you so badly you get a rash or worse, cut your skin in order to get more in there so they feel like "big men"?

How about the ones who never learned the word foreplay? The ones who stick their hands down your pants, ram two or three fingers up inside you... they feel the slightest bit of lubrication, push your panties aside, stick "it" up there and move seizure-like until they are done?

The ones who move only in a circular motion?

But one thing all these guys have in common? They don't make eye contact, they don't take cues, they don't listen, and they don't communicate. Why? Because they don't give a flying f**k.

So yes, I'm doing everything wrong. I'd be having much better sex if I didn't allow this to happen right?

That's what I'm talkin' about.