Your statement about having to use a knife over 6 inches, well I would consider that a red flag to anyone in this forum, I prefer to debate myself, not intimidate.

I hope you never use your knife on anyone, penalty can be severe perhaps you need to speak with someone as to why you feel the need to carry a weapon in first place.

Haha! You're new...

Your point would be what, you made an open statement in a forum which I took to be the truth, so are you now saying you are a liar.

Please take your time, do you carry a knife, or did you along with the name you use lie in order to make people fear you.

Feel free to answer the question, by all means take your time however. not that hard if you carry a blade though.

I'm not debating what I said, I know what I put down. Of course if one were to take the statement seriously...I would then have to question whether they are just trolling the forum, or if they are truly that daft. Either way, I'm done here...continue to give your useless advice.

lmao

So endeth the lesson in being a thug

Like you said you have only been dating a few months. What does it matter how he feels about someone else at this point. had it been for years then that would be a separate issue. I think he may feel the same at this point about both of you. But the fact that he is with you should say something. The butterflies. The face being flushed. The warm feelings when you around him. All of that is not love. That is lust. So he could still be feeling the same thing for her. The question is does he act on it? Feelings of lust in men is actually very common. Its how they handle it that makes the difference.

The reason he doesn't answer your question is because likely he knows it will end in an argument. Think about it. What if he answered honestly saying that I want to bang her, she is hot. but I wont because I love you. Likely you would not hear anything past the first sentence. Realize how much he does care about you. The fact that he chooses not to answer instead of lying to you should speak volumes. Give it time. Realize unless you are ready to hear what you do not want to hear then don't ask the question.

How would you respond if the situation was reversed? Sure we all would like to say we would respond honestly but I doubt any of us would. Women and men lie to each other all the time. Don't think so "your the best I ever had" how many of us had said that when we really meant you suck but i can fix that because we are in a relationship.

Also guys do not talk about feelings like women do? Most guys are raised with the notion of suck it up, be a man. Feelings are for women. Think about how he was raised. Does he talk about his feelings at all? Or is that just you? How does he answer other questions about how he feels? Not just how was your day but when other issues that cause stress come up. Are you rushing the relationship because you have known him so long? a couple months and you are already feeling insecure doesn't sound right.

some questions that almost always end in a fight.
What do you think of my family( family is psycho)
How do i look? (after they had been dieting and only lost a few pounds)
Do you think he/she is pretty?
Why do you believe in ________?
Who is a better cook me or your Mom?
How do you feel about ________?

for him to even tell you that is rude. and from 9th grade??? wow childhood crush, hmmmm...He wants your friend, don't allow him to use you to get to her...tell him to go explore that..and go find a guy who wants just you

why does it always come to this? someone carries a weapon and the natural conclusion is that they need psychiatric help..

give me a break.. I carry a knife everywhere I go. It's useful to be able to cut something. Never know when you're going to come across a box that needs to be opened, a pesky piece of string, a rattlesnake that doesn't need it's head anymore.. little things in life are made easier when you apply the appropriate tool.

If you're intimidated by someone else carrying a knife, perhaps the psychiatric problem exists with the man you see when you shave in the morning.

We dont have snakes in Scotland, and if you took the time to read his post you would see he openly stated in the forum it's his weapon to get compliance.

Sorry you never took the time, perhaps one day people wont need to carry weapons, but as you said yourself it's also your weapon of choice.

Red flags all over this forum and I wonder why you would admit that. Strange

The new figures indicate that in the year 2007-8 there were some 277 deaths from stabbings in England & Wales alone (the highest recorded figure for 30 years). This represents an average death toll as a direct result of stabbings of over 5 for every week of the year!

I carry a mobile phone and loose change myself, I see no need to carry a deadly weapon. not would most sane logical people in the forum

as to the OP, i see a couple of possibilites as to why he's reluctant to answer whether likes his former crush..

1) he still likes her and if they were both single, he might pursue her

2) he used to like her but has gotten over it and moved on, He's with you now and that should be what matters

3) two chicks at the same time.

whatever the case may be, no answer he gives is going to satify you. Therefore, he keeps his mouth shut. "Let your speech be better than silence, or be silent." If you simply can't get over the fact that he liked someone before you, what can I say? I can't really help you with that. Is there not someone you used to like that you might run into once in a while?

don't always have a needle in a hem

Violent crime, particularly offences involving knifes, has risen in Scotland for the third consecutive year.
Figures show that the number of violent crimes across the country rose by 11% last year, with crimes involving knives rising by 21%.

aND WHERE i LIVE YOU WOULDNT EVEN WANT TO WALK OUT YOUR DOOR.

As I said I carry a mobile and loose change, people who carry weapons sorry they either have made bad enemies or they have a complex.

Oh geeze. Dude. Stop trying to sound intelligent because you are just making yourself look foolish.

Fear and the knife carrying thing has been a running joke around here for a long time.

You, being new, are completely clueless about that running joke.

Just sit back and read for a while before you decide to start berating someone for saying something that ( even if you don't like it ) you have absolutely no clue what it's in reference to.

<-------not going to hijack the thread. but I'd be happy to run you up and down the street in a conversation about why the means to self defense is a natural, inherent human right.

Yep you must be right, I will watch and hate to say it as a newbie I have being doing IT for 25 years long before internet was dreamt of. But I concede you must be correct and therfore I am wrong.

I run badly you would stab me before I got of starting blocks, and self defence in the UK is no defence perhaps your laws allow that ours dont.