cuz girls are girls. they should, they are emotional, estrogen. all that.



the real question.




why do guys get so jealous? It's pretty bad. Guys I think are worse than women when it comes to jealousy.


Or maybe I have read too many mingle threads.

They should? So what else "should" women do? C'mon stereotype all the women....huh. Typical guy.

Jealousy has to do with trust, if you are jealous then you don't trust your partner. It has nothing to do with being emotional, having more estrogen or raging hormones.

Here's the Cycle -

Good Relationship > Good relationship goes sour > Unhappiness sets in > Jealousy Begins > Trust is gone > Relationship gets worse > No more hope for trust > Relationship is over

Now if you aren't even in a relationship and looking to date but you find yourself jealous over your "date" from the beginning - then you have serious trust issues, which means somewhere in your past either the way you grew up or the people you were with, royally ****** you up - then that trust is gone. You no longer have the capability to trust - so that turns into unconcious anger and hate, which turns into jealousy.

Not all people are the same. Not everyone is jealous.

Men are not jealous!

It isn't a whole lot of fun, dude.

trust me on this one.

As to the point of jealousy being a result of a relationship going downhill...

I have been in relationships where the woman was jealous and possessive right from the word go.

It has more to do with them being insecure in the first place, methinks.