when u meet (in person) some one u met online...are u expecting him/her to react certain ways, or to have some type of attitude towards you just because u met online...?

I would expect anyone, male or female, that I have chatted with online then met, to be friendly and respectful.

Yes

1. I expect they will not show up.
2. If they say they don't drink, they will be sloshed.
3. Their description can be expected to be somewhat *inaccurate*.
4. They will bring their computer.
5. They will text and chat online and drink coffee instead of
having a conversation.
6. They will think the date went GREAT.
7. You can ignore 2-6 because they didn't show up.
8. They will email you tomorrow.

I expect sex

Don't know, haven't met anyone yet. But I would expect them to be nice and a little nervous, like me.

LMAO

I agree

I agree. I haven't met anyone yet either.

Footsie under our table.....

I don't expect squat.

Hope you understood my post in another thread about switching your picture. I just like one of the other ones

I'm hoping for a reason to move.

I think its best to keep expectations to a minimum. That way there is the least dissapointments. Expectations dont come until much later in a relationship.

Right on!

i've recently made the mistake of missing them a little too much, and being a little too hasty in a text message that i wish i hadn't sent, for it almost cost me the relationship, but i learned that it's just gotta take it's course, no matter how strong these feelings become, and i must learn to cool them down a bit(hard as heck!).....it's crushing at times, and i don't get to say what i'd like to sometimes, so sometimes it gets mis-construed, or it comes out wrong, and limmiting time can do dammage with explanations, so playing it cool, and being there is the best remedy for this at the time. she knows my heart, and knows i'm different in person and on the phone thank gosh, for on IM, she types so damn fast, i wasn't able to keep up for even one question that she gave me, and i answered like a four year old....i had the answers.........the next day after i re-read it!

one thing.....when you are whispering, the other may take it as screaming....it's all into the interpretation of how one reads it.


that is the danger of words without expression!

Coincidently, when the expectations do come...so does the disappointment.

Yeppers

I'm awesome at disappointment, I've been practicing.