Topic: Trying too HARD?
ghostkast's photo
Fri 05/25/07 05:03 AM
puffins can you please cover that tatoo up...there are children in here
that still believe a lady is a lady. And if they wanted skanks they
would go find you in the red light district. God bless you

oldsage's photo
Fri 05/25/07 05:05 AM
Puffs,

Someday I'll get a new pic showing my tat.
Have one in about the same place.
Protrait of my wife.
My advice on anything is work at it,
EARN IT, everything takes work.
You get what you earn
Think about it

ghostkast's photo
Fri 05/25/07 05:06 AM
GREAT advice oldage

oldsage's photo
Fri 05/25/07 05:07 AM
Ghost because you chose to have bad manners,
is no reason to use them here.
In 2 different topics all you can do is be rude.
Don't like it here LEAVE, don't wait to get banned
As you are requesting.

oldsage's photo
Fri 05/25/07 05:08 AM
More GOOD advice ghost

no photo
Fri 05/25/07 10:35 AM
sage, you have the strangest looking dogs......what are they? they are
strange but cute, I just have no idea what kind they are...huh :smile:

Pucks's photo
Fri 05/25/07 11:25 AM
heck no...no effort. single and luvin it.

slikylisa's photo
Fri 05/25/07 11:41 AM
i havent tried hard at all i havent been on a date in about one year
flowerforyou

nusalor's photo
Fri 05/25/07 11:43 AM
Hey Lisa!:wink:

slikylisa's photo
Fri 05/25/07 11:45 AM
hey darlinflowerforyou

nusalor's photo
Fri 05/25/07 11:52 AM
There's trying too hard...

Not trying enough...and

<<< gave up trying!:wink:

slikylisa's photo
Fri 05/25/07 11:53 AM
ok now iam desparate i want a date this weekendsad sad sad

PetiteKitten's photo
Fri 05/25/07 11:54 AM
Yea, I could use a date myself..............At least up until June 15th.
LMAO

no photo
Fri 05/25/07 11:55 AM
well slikylisa, you are a beautiful woman and I bet you can get a date
with any guy on hereflowerforyou

no photo
Fri 05/25/07 11:55 AM
Im working all weekend.....no time for a dategrumble

Puffins1958's photo
Fri 05/25/07 11:57 AM
Lisa....

What can I say, that's why I started this thread. I thik...actually I
know that I try too HARD. Everyone tells me that I should just give up
trying, then that's when things happen when you least expect it. Is
there anything WRONG with wanting to have someone NICE to share your
life with?? I never thought so

Nice to see you...by the way

-Joanne flowerforyou

slikylisa's photo
Fri 05/25/07 11:58 AM
well the same goes for you sweety flowerforyou flowerforyou

no photo
Fri 05/25/07 11:58 AM
what exactly do you do to try too hard?

Puffins1958's photo
Fri 05/25/07 12:01 PM
Gypsy,

I can't even begin to answer that, hon. All I know is that I don't like
to be ALONE. I feel like I have "settled" my whole life with men that
for one reason or another could not satisfy me (and I DON'T mean sexual
either). I am beginning to think that it is selfish to want it ALL

-Joanne flowerforyou

no photo
Fri 05/25/07 12:07 PM
I know what that's like, I went through a stage where I "settled" for
situations that were really no good for me, just because I didn't want
to be alone.

What I learned was, it's better to be alone than stuck with the wrong
person.

I think it's a kind of "grass is greener" thing -- when I was alone, I
would always be thinking of ways to find someone. Then when I was with
someone, I would spend 90% of my time trying to figure a graceful way
out of it!

Then I met the "right person" -- and eventually lost her. But that
experience really helped me differentiate between what I truly need in a
partner, as opposed to what's convenient or temporarily distracting....