hello im a 19 yr old male who is honest, nice, funny and very loveing.

now for the reason why i posted this.

i want the ladys to tell me what im doing wrong and tell me why pl wont respond when i talk to them and why its so hard to find a girl worth my time.

you see i live by very basic rules dont smoke, only give respect to the pl who respect me and never think badly about someone i dont even know. i even had an ex tell me that i was one of the nicest guys she has ever been with. so what am i doing wrong? im nice , im a good person i tend to think about others befor myself so what makes me so undateable.

my boy, you have come to the right place!

learn to flirt, express humor and intelligent thoughts
more fluently, right here on these forums. be honest,
polite, never rude, witty, lighthearted and smart.

be open to new people and experiences and enjoy the
many friends happy to interact with you here. meet some
of them in person. have some fun. learn and grow.

welcome to mingle2!

Welcome

Just continue being yourself!

It works!!


Tammy

I know I'm a guy

But I bet I could help

cuz you sound a lot like me...

There is someone out there for everyone, it just takes time and patience to find the one for you. Just continue to be who you are, do not get discouraged because someone doesn't respond to you. That means that they were not interested that is all. Good Luck in your search.

its a little harder then you think at least for me cuz im one of meny unlucky pl who get to live in a small town. my tiny town of 8000 isnt that bad cuz thare are towns around here that only have 15 pl living in them. but yea i guess ill keep doing my thing

i remember my first middle school dance. shy boys and
beautifully dressed girls hoped at each other from across
the room. shuffling feet and wanting to talk, wanting to
laugh, wanting to see a glint in another's eyes. groups
of the same sex gradually coalesced - talking to each other
the way they always did when not in this unnatural and
artificially induced atmosphere.

some of the established couples danced of course. exhibiting
for all to see - they had found comfort and compatibility
and needed no one else.

eventually - a boy walked to a girl and asked politely
"Would you like to dance?"

Could it be the haircut?

Wow......that was fabulous! Beautifully written post.

Good luck OP......consider what the optimists have said here and just have fun!

this is a old pic so i dont have the same hair cut, but how are pl going to know that so i guess i need a more resent pic of myself

Just don't try to be something that you are not - firstly it isn't right, secondly it is too hard to keep up the charade.
Let someone fall for you - the real you.
It will happen when it happens - be patient !

Your asking how to people who the vast majority (including myself) are single alone and complaining on how many losers there is out there, Good Luck with the answers.

And that answer son might be some of your problem. Perfect?

cause sometimes what we pursues,.. eludes us,..( for reasons beyond our understanding )..live as if it doesn`t matter anymore and that`s when it will happen

The lady's got a point.

oh no

*closes his eyes*

can i say somethin ignorant too?

criticising posts isnt a good thing ether, if you read what iv posted i give respect to the pl who give me respect