Topic: Guys and lesbians..
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Sat 08/22/09 08:02 AM


I :heart: Women


They love you too.flowerforyou




flowerforyou

cesca27's photo
Sat 08/22/09 08:02 AM

by Cheryl Macdonald
A study released last month by Liverpool John Moores University in England suggests that 1 in 25 fathers could unknowingly be raising another man’s child. The study concludes that 4 percent of all men are unwittingly bringing up a child they have not fathered.







Well isn't he a silly little man for assuming it's his.. If everyone is so paranoid about it, as YOU are, As someone previously suggested, it is called DNA tests. Take advantage!



cesca27's photo
Sat 08/22/09 08:05 AM

So anyway, since being here I have met some great people and made some awesome friends. However, I am on here to meet a "specific" kind of partner. Which I clarify in my profile! Anyways, I get all excited when I am alerted thru my email that I "have a new message!" and find it is from a guy wanting to "hook up" or something or rather..
I am quite specific about what I am looking for, however, some (rather thick?) people, seem to completely ignore the obvious statement in my profile (LESBIAN) and contact me seeking a relationship/fun/other/ I find it incredibly irritating and still wonder why they BOTHER????

I don't get it, and I am not a guy, so I will never understand.. But why annoy/bother me with messages, when all I have to say in response is "duh, re read the profile"?

It wastes my time and theirs....

Thoughts on how to avoid this?

Cesca


So what are you trying to say?



Uhhh.. I am trying to say how to avoid this? Sorry......... how do I make this more obvious? THOUGHTS ON HOW TO AVOID THIS? Capitals help?

Cesca

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Sat 08/22/09 08:05 AM


by Cheryl Macdonald
A study released last month by Liverpool John Moores University in England suggests that 1 in 25 fathers could unknowingly be raising another man’s child. The study concludes that 4 percent of all men are unwittingly bringing up a child they have not fathered.







Well isn't he a silly little man for assuming it's his.. If everyone is so paranoid about it, as YOU are, As someone previously suggested, it is called DNA tests. Take advantage!





Honey, don't waste energy ......smokin

grneyedldy1967's photo
Sat 08/22/09 08:05 AM

In fact I do yes, am I wrong well I beleive not.

Women in the UK who have kids are given priority, Given homes and looked after by every agency they can muster.

A guy is low priority and if working has to care for a child regardless of whether that child is his.

Now when a lesbian has a child in the UK, the donor has to pay child support, I wonder why the world went upside down, if a woman wants a child and cannot afford it then soultion is simple have it aborted, if on the other hand the lady or lesbian in question can afford it then by all means have as many as they like.

I object to the state having to pick up the tab and so fed up hearing women say if you stop benefits you will hurt the kids.

Finally if a guy who is a hard working chap has to pay for a child he should have the right to DNA and if proven the child is not his, then to prosecute the woman involved for fraud and decepton.

35% of men are bringing up another mans child beleiving it to be theirs. So am I wrong sorry I work 7 days a week and pay taxes so women can target guys and get a cut of the wage packet while they look for next guy.




Do not take your anger out on how your country does (or does not do) things.

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Sat 08/22/09 08:06 AM
http://divorcemagazine.wordpress.com/tag/paternity-fraud/

The Stats are avaliable here, but I shall post the calculation of over 35% in a few hours, I am not in denial I am single and through choice.

However, others may not see that I really do beleive in freedom of speech, and as such I am entitled to voice in this forum my opinion.

And as you are all aware a forum is where everything is for debate.

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Sat 08/22/09 08:07 AM
Edited by silly on Sat 08/22/09 08:12 AM



In the UK Women have all the rights, guys are just well here to work and pay the bills.

Ia m single becuase she was asked to leave, so not a problem there,

Worst still I dislike it when guys are put down but a lesbian needs male sperm in order to have a child.

So I am cool chap but I cant stand women beating up on guys when it's totally cruel to do so.


im English. not british

the above statement is an exceptable thing to say as its my opinion but it isn`t an attack on any one.





:Mikey:heart: :heart: u are great

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Sat 08/22/09 08:08 AM



by Cheryl Macdonald
A study released last month by Liverpool John Moores University in England suggests that 1 in 25 fathers could unknowingly be raising another man’s child. The study concludes that 4 percent of all men are unwittingly bringing up a child they have not fathered.







Well isn't he a silly little man for assuming it's his.. If everyone is so paranoid about it, as YOU are, As someone previously suggested, it is called DNA tests. Take advantage!





Honey, don't waste energy ......smokin


Lol, I know I know.. but it is so much fun to play.. hehe.. Hook, line and sinker EVERY time! It's crackin me up, lol..laugh

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Sat 08/22/09 08:10 AM




In the UK Women have all the rights, guys are just well here to work and pay the bills.

Ia m single becuase she was asked to leave, so not a problem there,
Worst still I dislike it when guys are put down but a lesbian needs male sperm in order to have a child.

So I am cool chap but I cant stand women beating up on guys when it's totally cruel to do so.


im English. not british

the above statement is an exceptable thing to say as its my opinion but it isn`t an attack on any one.


:heart: :heart:

Thank U silly I appreciate that!!!flowerforyou :heart:

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Sat 08/22/09 08:11 AM

http://divorcemagazine.wordpress.com/tag/paternity-fraud/

The Stats are avaliable here, but I shall post the calculation of over 35% in a few hours, I am not in denial I am single and through choice.

However, others may not see that I really do beleive in freedom of speech, and as such I am entitled to voice in this forum my opinion.

And as you are all aware a forum is where everything is for debate.


debate yes, but lets not be condescending or mean to anothers preferencebigsmile

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Sat 08/22/09 08:11 AM
Edited by boredinaz06 on Sat 08/22/09 08:12 AM
Hey, here's an IDEA! go to your account on the home page (that's the one that comes up when you login) and open "SETTINGS", and from there you can control who emails you.

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Sat 08/22/09 08:12 AM
Edited by invisible on Sat 08/22/09 08:12 AM

http://divorcemagazine.wordpress.com/tag/paternity-fraud/

The Stats are avaliable here, but I shall post the calculation of over 35% in a few hours, I am not in denial I am single and through choice.

However, others may not see that I really do beleive in freedom of speech, and as such I am entitled to voice in this forum my opinion.

And as you are all aware a forum is where everything is for debate.


Of course you are entitled to voice your opinion, we all do that.

But we don't jump at people and insult them out of the blue like you did, and we don't run them down constantly either.

Perhaps you should have started with reading the forum rules.

We are not at you because of your opinion but for the way you treated the OP in the first place.

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Sat 08/22/09 08:12 AM




by Cheryl Macdonald
A study released last month by Liverpool John Moores University in England suggests that 1 in 25 fathers could unknowingly be raising another man’s child. The study concludes that 4 percent of all men are unwittingly bringing up a child they have not fathered.







Well isn't he a silly little man for assuming it's his.. If everyone is so paranoid about it, as YOU are, As someone previously suggested, it is called DNA tests. Take advantage!





Honey, don't waste energy on stupid......smokin


Lol, I know I know.. but it is so much fun to play.. hehe.. Hook, line and sinker EVERY time! It's crackin me up, lol..laugh


Understood. Carry on........smokin

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Sat 08/22/09 08:12 AM
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grneyedldy1967's photo
Sat 08/22/09 08:13 AM
Amen and thank God he's not American.. we have enough of our own and don't need to add another!

cesca27's photo
Sat 08/22/09 08:13 AM

Hey, here's an IDEA! go to your account on the home page (that's the one that comes up when you login) and open "SETTINGS", and from there you can control who emails you.


Does that "control" have a "lesbian only" option???laugh

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Sat 08/22/09 08:14 AM


Hey, here's an IDEA! go to your account on the home page (that's the one that comes up when you login) and open "SETTINGS", and from there you can control who emails you.


Does that "control" have a "lesbian only" option???laugh


Don't think it's quite that specific.laugh

msmyka's photo
Sat 08/22/09 08:15 AM
OP - the VERY first thing in my profile is a disclaimer pertaining to what type of emails I will not respond to. It doesn't make guys think twice about sending me these emails but I have no qualms about not responding/deleting them and blocking the guy. There will always be unwanted emails.

The ONLY way to avoid this is to set your email settings to say you will accept emails from women only.... flowerforyou

cesca27's photo
Sat 08/22/09 08:15 AM
Interesting responses from everyone happy

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 08/22/09 08:59 AM
My profile is very clear that my interest is in men..I have women hit me up all the time so I hear ya, I feel ya.