Okay, who here is NOT afraid of saying that physical attraction IS a
part of finding someone you wish to be close to? I mean come on, there
are enough people in this world that EVERYONE has a good handful of
others that will love their EVERY aspect; I think our focus is just in
the wrong place. One thing I've noticed that has made this whole topic
easier for me, is to consider how people look, rather than what they
look like. How that person makes you feel when they smile, get
frustrated, cry, eat food, sleep, and not be so caught up in, "is this
guy/girl making me horney?" Really where all of this ties in is
confidence levels. People NATURALLY look more physically attractive when
they are confident in themselves; there's more glow. Geez, be yourself,
love life, and don't expect people to like you. Be thankful for those
out there you know do, because they ARE out there, and they are hard for
EVERYONE to find. Much love to all those feeling unloved.

K

I actually agree. There are a lot of things that make someone physically
attractive beyond the basic looks good in a swimsuit. The little things
are what make someone cuter in the long run. like the smile and the
stupid faces and laughs they make.

you should see tulip in the mornings

AAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think confidence and self esteem plays a BIG part on how we feel about
ourselves. I think there is someone out there for everyone, big or
small. What matters is how we feel about ourselves and how we "present"
ouselves to other people.


-Joanne

you have a beautifull smile puffins

Lisa....


Thanks honey, so sweet of you to say...


-Joanne

You mean, like this stupid face???

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Joanne is hot, hot, hot!!! LOL

Haha! Yes, like that look. Originality strikes again!

Whoo Hoo!!!

Yes, I am quite unique, spank you very much!!

<~~~~~ Jesse....LOVE you sweetie

Ah, Everything..........I see you're a fellow Christian too, with your
first love as Christ...........It's wonderful to read something like
that!!

Love you too, Joanne!!!!

Physical attraction is very important, but its the inside that really
counts..but me personally i wont even date a guy if i dont think hes
cute or sexy, but personality is a plus!!!

I agree with Sweet, too.............A lot of great points here.

There's gotta be something there...it maybe looks it maybe whats inside
and it may be both.
but ultimatly after the initial attraction it is the make up off the
person on the inside and how it is allowed to showed.
the most beautiful shell can be tainted or shattered if the inside is
rotten.

Didn't think as many people would be as open about it! Yay!

I hate to admit it, but yes, I'm shallow. If they don't just take my
breath away (which is rare) I don't even bother. At the same time, its
not always the face or body that does that. It can be their style, their
body art, their silliness that makes them stand out. And also, I can't
help but veer toward the tallest guy in the room...