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YES and in the end they are no friends of mine.
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Ya know the older I have gotten the more pickier I have became.......If they try to control me, tell me what to do, put me down, act as if they are better, ignore me, ect..... I tend to shake my head wonder WTF they are thinking and just walk away. I don't have time for ones like that...  
(((Kristi))) how would you react if family, siblings tried that with you? I speak my mind no matter if it is family or not they all know me and know I will say what I feel................and boy do I say what I think  But.........I must admit my brother, Little sister & I have never had a cross word in our lifetime........no one in my family gets into the business of anyone's but their own...........they know better.........
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Ya know the older I have gotten the more pickier I have became.......If they try to control me, tell me what to do, put me down, act as if they are better, ignore me, ect..... I tend to shake my head wonder WTF they are thinking and just walk away. I don't have time for ones like that...
(((Kristi))) how would you react if family, siblings tried that with you? I speak my mind no matter if it is family or not they all know me and know I will say what I feel................and boy do I say what I think But.........I must admit my brother, Little sister & I have never had a cross word in our lifetime........no one in my family gets into the business of anyone's but their own...........they know better.........
I thini that's how families should be.. I thought mine was the same.. One or two of them keep reminding me their not.. I've finally realized that you can let go of family like you do any other bad person in your life... |
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What family I have left I love dearly but.........I will not take any crap from any of them if they was to do those things to me I would in fact speak my mind if they continued to do so then I would turn and walk away. Due to I'm one that no matter what I may think of one I will always be civil to them in front of others I just don't associate with them unless it just happens we are in the same room together.
I do have step-sisters that I do not have anything to do with them but there are times we are together. I'm civil to them I talk to them at the moment I do not share my life with them or my thoughts. Due to things they did in the past I have no use for anyone like that. |
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My sister is like that....when she starts in on me, I remind her that she and I shared a bedroom for 21 years and I know stuff about her she doesn't want people to know. I just look at her and hold up my cell phone and look at her....she knows exactly what I mean by that every time and she usually shuts up.
If not, I play innocent with her and keep asking her questions in a round-about way that points out how stupid she is acting. |
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I have two siblings that like to cause drama and like to be the center of attention.. I keep letting them back time after time.. They've finally gone to far and I'm done.. So now I'm getting emails that I never loved them.. It used to hurt, now it doesn't hurt I am somewhat amused by the neediness of those that think they have it all under control... I walked away a long time ago, they think they are just walking away not and decided to email me that information, yet I haven't spoken with them in months... Attention seeking???
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No one tries to control me because I am a man .
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No one tries to control me because I am a man .
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Edited by
tohyup
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Thu 08/20/09 11:56 PM
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Double post .
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No one tries to control me because I am a man . Oh please.. I've controlled many of men.. It's not pretty and not what I try to do but I can so being a man doesn't make you unable to be controlled... |
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Double post . HEY!!! Keep those triple posts under control!!!! 
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My sister is like that....when she starts in on me, I remind her that she and I shared a bedroom for 21 years and I know stuff about her she doesn't want people to know. I just look at her and hold up my cell phone and look at her....she knows exactly what I mean by that every time and she usually shuts up. If not, I play innocent with her and keep asking her questions in a round-about way that points out how stupid she is acting. your not the only one, my older sister blew up at me the other day and she tried calling me 20times to appligize, acording to my mom she going through a change. but geeze for what my mom told me, i dont want to even be around her. my sister has been going through the change for awhile and when i was at my moms she sweating up the storm and her face was pure read, but my mom was saying her actions are bad. well yea she has provde it more than once. i guess acording to my mom my sister would wake up in the middle of the nite sweating for 2hours before she could go back to sleep.. we didnt share the same room.. lucky there. she just doesnt know how to shut her trap... she came over to my house the other day and i was taking a nap she yelled at me for i dont know how long and said why didnt you answer your phone. well geeze i was asleep so i didnt hear the phone, she just totally wig out and i kicked her out of my house im sure the neighbors heard. |
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My sister is like that....when she starts in on me, I remind her that she and I shared a bedroom for 21 years and I know stuff about her she doesn't want people to know. I just look at her and hold up my cell phone and look at her....she knows exactly what I mean by that every time and she usually shuts up. If not, I play innocent with her and keep asking her questions in a round-about way that points out how stupid she is acting. I have 2 very evil sisters.. I have tried to work things out but they don't work the way a normal human works.. I've finally given up.. I now know that family doesn't mean love and loyalty and I was very naive to even think it did... |
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My sister started to think her shyte don't stink and when she starts yelling at me about my kids and things, I take her down a peg or two....like the night she yelled at me about how she's only been with two guys in life and how many have I been with??
So I reminded her I was single and dating........She was still married at the time she was with number two!! She shut her mouth pretty fast after that. |
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My sister started to think her shyte don't stink and when she starts yelling at me about my kids and things, I take her down a peg or two....like the night she yelled at me about how she's only been with two guys in life and how many have I been with?? So I reminded her I was single and dating........She was still married at the time she was with number two!! She shut her mouth pretty fast after that. My sister wouldn't even get it.. The truth doesn't phase her, it's her lies to herself that matters to her.. I'd rather live in my own real world than play in her psychotic one... |
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I made sure she got the point.......I reminded her she was married at the time, right in front of her second husband (guy she cheated with)......but he is another winner....
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I give up on crazy people Eileen.. I don't have the time or patience for them, family or not.. I want to believe the world is good and I know for the most part it is but when family can't even be civil it makes one wonder...
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I'm not allowed to drink around them......my favorite game is "Let's point out how stupid ______ is" game. (Insert her husband's name in the blank....
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It's very easy to play because he just gives you sooooooo much to work with.....I usually end up getting slapped by Mom when I play it.....as she whispers another one of his stupid comments under her breath. 
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ohhhhhhhhhhhh I have someone in my family that keeps marrying those types..
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