I went to a restaurant/bar opening where a friend was bartending. Sitting at the bar were several men each who bought me drinks. At least one of them was married, but he left at dinnertime to go home.

A younger fellow stepped in from the porch seating area and asked me to join his table where he and another friend were gnashing. Of course I will!! I am free and single and there for fun and promoting that sorta atmosphere.

This guy is married it happens to be and his friend is single, but of course the married one is buying my dinner and picking up my tab and he's nice and engaging and talkative with me...

and the conversation flowed and we never stopped smiling and he never stopped being interested in what I said, the bits and pieces of information about myself I was willing to share on first meeting. He wanted more and I laughed. He smiled. Single friend chimed in when he could but there was no mistaking the flow of energy and connection married guy and I are having.

Bartender friend gave married guy my phone number (I'm assuming when he closed his tab). He gave me his card. I never called. He called.

I'm thinking of meeting him. My rationale is that he has single friends.

I know. This is how this s*** starts.

Keep your rationale...

Are you trying to convince me....or yourself???

Recipe for disaster. I will see ya on Jerry Springer with the "Who's my baby daddy?"

He has a family and he's an ***--- your nut's for even considering such a thing--time to grow up!!!

LMAO!

Ummm, this situation has DANGER, DANGER, DANGER written all over it...Come now, he is married and his wife probably has no idea what he is doing...I suggest leave that ALONE

How can U justify dating someone married? There is NO way to justify it!!

I think I get this now. Your just pulling my chane--right--no woman would do this with a married man---got the joke!!

Think about his family(wife, children), don't contribute to their disaster! There are too many nice/good singles guys out there, for you to get involved with that married *ss hole! You can do better!!

What if it were you sitting at home taking care of kids, waiting on him to come home to you?

Just my opinion...

It is my rationale

If you are even considering this you are an idiot.......

well, yes it is! however i refute drama

If your rationale is that he has single friends then y didn't u talk to the single man that was with him.

noway should u start anything with him,he is married and maybe have a family.go found your own man and leave the married one alone.

Call his wife and invite her along. She might know some nice single guys as well.

What he said

You know he is married, therefore I think your rationale is pretty absurd (sure he has single friends) as you do, why not hang out with them? But this is only my opinion, do you, follow your instincts, and don't forget my friend karma

Your profile says your looking for "man for marriage"... So, what would you accomplish with an already married man? I suspect problems/troubles, not only for you...but for his wife as well! Just my opinion, again!