Have you ever gotten the feeling of being weirded out by someone on here even though they really did nothing to cause it? like your gut screams "RUN!!" even though they seem like a very normal person?

i got a guy who is about 10 years older than me, seems very nice, but, I don't know. I feel pressured by him to just talk. If i don't respond, I end up with like 4 or 5 emails in like a one hour period. He seems nice, but something deep inside me is telling me to block him.

and i don't know why!?!?

what would you do?

Block! Or point blank tell him your creeped out and ease up on the emails. If he listens then it's fine. If he doesn't then you know something is up!

Trust your gut feeling...If he seems weird, then he probably is

i mentioned it in a round about sorta way but he said i was jaded and hurt by someone on here and thats why i'm so distant. then he sent me another email saying it wanted to be my friend. that he had alot of women in his life right now..

it made no sense.

yep, what she said..go with that first instinct..

this happened to me about a week ago. he was cute, funny, interesting, blah blah. but it seemed like after a while, all he was trying to do was annoy me in his emails. like he knew just what it would take to make me jealous or annoyed, so he pushed all the right buttons. ultra creepy. i told him i never wanted to talk to him anymore.

Guys aren't good about round-a-bout. Just tell him point blank. If you get some bizarre story, it's time to block him.

yeah i'm just gonna have to do it and pray he doesn't find me in town. that would just screw my whole day up.

i disagree heres why. women think guys area all creeps and players from the begining, which most of us arent, and expect men to be mind readers which we arent, this puts a man under a microscope where everything he does is judged right or wrong, im not saying hes the right guy for you im just saying maybe if you didnt come off so sketch in the first place he would not react so creep,and you would be happy with him, instead of complaining to the message board like your on sex in the city

no offense intended

Not all of us think men are creeps - please don't make such blanket statements. I always ask if I am contracting them too much. Hell he sounds lonely just like me and we might go overboard sometimes. I would tell anyone to go with their gut feelings. I had to tell 1 guy already that I just thought we weren't in the same place because all he ever talked about was how alone he was. I tried to just be friends but it just didn't feel right. Luckily he said he understood and hasn't bothered me since.

Oh good, I thought it was about me...

But I hardly send mail to people

Just block him sox!!!!

Yas...I perv you daily & crave yer bewbs...THAT'S the creepy feeling you're getting...don't blame it on the guy...

being that its a message board built from complaining i think i have every right to. but i'm not complaining. i'm asking for advice. but apparently you didn't see it that way. you saw it as me man-bashing which i was not in any way shape or form.

that is why i said it was unfounded.

that is why i made it clear that i had no idea why i was feeling this way.

that is why i stated he was a very nice guy but something was off and hit me wrong.

that is why i'm here asking for advice to see if its just me, to see if maybe i should ignore the gut instinct and keep talking, or trust my gut and walk away.

but apparently you didn't see any of that.

and being a man, i would have really appreciated your advice instead of your condemnation.

thanks :D

lol well there's something about your kind face that tells me deep inside to allow you to do so.

plus i kinda heart you a lil LOL

dont tell anyone.

it'll ruin my bad girl image.

I am sure he is harmless...



or not!

LOL thanks. that cleared that right up.

I like to write dirty emails to random women

Harumph! You've never seen my seal form encased in leather...