pretty girl in a pretty part of the world.....be bold and ask a guy out......I bet you they say "yes"

I suppose that everyone has their own opinions and thoughts on this subject. I dunno, the reason that I'd rather have the man approach me first is that I'm a bit old-fashioned. Maybe it's because of how I was raised, but I can flirt all day long and still not find the nerve to make the first move. Guess I need to get bolder. Grow myself a pair instead of waiting on the guy?
And as far as not being able to use my looks to get a guy to notice me at work, well, I joke and flirt and still get no response (except for guys old enough to be my father, lol). I can't say that I'm funny, but I do thing I can be charming. I dunno. Just having issues with being single again, even though it was my decision.

Honestly, I think if someone truly finds that they are attracted to someone, whether it be looks or personality, or whatever, that they should let the person know. This goes for both Men and Women. Also, heck, if you want to ask someone out, ask them out; you never know what will or could have happened until you do. And, that goes for both Men and Women! Whoever deemed it to be a man's job to ask out someone is crazy; if the feeling is mutual, hell what does it matter who asks the other out except the fact that person did it sooner. I myself have always asked out the wrong types of women. So now, I set back and unless I really want to push to ask a certain woman out that really gets me, I set back and wait for the Woman to ask me. Doing so has told me that alot more women are interested in me than I thought and than I had noticed having an interest in until I met or talked with them. I guess in some ways, I'm not old fashioned, just waiting.

I'm not telling him I like him.

It's not just the assets you have it's in how you use them.

Agreed

LMAO! You didn't have to... you let me crawl under your skirt!

How much do you need? My interest rates are very low, too. My popularity is dropping like a stone, it seems nobody is interested in me any more, either. I don't even wear a baggy uniform. I am a naturally fat man.

I think lilmomma is very pretty...and I am not sure why she's having issues.

To the person who commented about this being another post about a whiny fat person (didn't take the time to quote that), you are obviously blind. If I were fat, I'd have never started this thread. I'm just honestly curious about why it's so hard to meet anyone these days. And thank you, rko712. That was a sweet thing to say.

"Courage is the greatest of all the virtues. Because if you haven't courage, you may not have an opportunity to use any of the others."

So don't be affraid to approch any guy my friend!! Also when it comes to talking to people online and it being so easy of course it is cause quit honestly if you dont like what they say you can block them or simply just close the page, and you never have to see that person again and well in person that can be not so pretty especially if your in a croweded place and they are just flat out rude and thats not fun at all.......

Yeah and they aint got a pic of them up! Anywho, I know what you mean-Its seems it is hard these days. Not sure why?!

Where do you go, besides work?


What do you do besides work?

You wear a uniform to work...

not after work, or on your days off.



If you feel your best asset is your breats....then so will most men.

If your best assets are your directness, and honesty, your outlook on life, and your capacity to enjoy life with or without a partner...men will too.


Men are attracted to women who are confident, capable, and very comfortable in their own world. That is sexy to 99% of most men...

not the size of their breasts...yeah sure, those that are attracted to them, want you bad, baby....but not to consider as a partner.

Focus on having a life outside of work...find new interests, even if it is as simple as hiking, or taking weird arsed photoes on a digital camera...

..and you will find interesting people appear.

Here's my problem with where I live. I'm about an hour from two cities, and there's not a whole lot to do here for social interaction. Yes, there's the casino, but it's hard to relax when I know most of the staff. And that place is like living in a small town, everyone is into everybody else's business. I won't drink and drive, and sad as it seems, I haven't made many friends since I moved out here. That's why I'm here. Make some friends, or maybe meet that special someone. Who knows? I felt like it was at least worth a shot.

Your best assets are your breasts????

What the ?????


You never mentioned your personality at all!!

What is that like?

And flirting?

Don't flirt with these guys unless ya mean biz

Or unless you have the strong personality and confidence to go with it



Jmo

First, welcome

Your best bet online is patience. Internet people are wary of anyone new because of players and scammers. Once you get past the initial hazing and henpecking, you'd be surprised at the quality of friendships that can be found.

If you haven't discovered it yet, scrolling down the forums page, there's a regional forum. They're usually slow but if you're determined to find locals, that's the place.

Also, I wouldn't worry about the uniform. Most men could spot boobs through a concrete wall.