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Ladylid2012
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Wed 08/12/09 12:24 PM
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And it is total wash... didn't go well!
There are very few men in my area, most bore me and I have had some email communication with someone here that actually peaked my interest a bit. We decide to meet at his request at a park up the canyon to watch the meteor shower. I have my 18 year old son and one of his friends with me, so I figure this is a safe fun thing to do. We agree to meet around midnight-ish. So I'm running behind and get up there about 12:15, I look for his truck, don't see it.. go up the road to 2 more parks thinking maybe some confusion on which park. Never saw the described truck so I find a spot and the kids and I throw down blankets and watch the sky. I come home about 2:45 and have an email that says.. "I saw the white chevy, saw the kids, saw you, married, blocked" I'm a bit confused on what he thinks he saw.. I am the most single person I know, haven't even been on a date in over a year, divorced ten years ago. Was he a no show? Could he have seen a family that he thought was me and mine? Strange.. Is he just a flake? Any input here?? |
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LL,
Doesn't really matter does it? Do you want to communicate with a man who didn't approach (whether he saw you or another family), jumped to conclusions (married) and made a decision based on that (blocked). You are better off. That said, I would have emailed back and said exactly what you said in your post. 
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LL, Doesn't really matter does it? Do you want to communicate with a man who didn't approach (whether he saw you or another family), jumped to conclusions (married) and made a decision based on that (blocked). You are better off. That said, I would have emailed back and said exactly what you said in your post. I did email..I think I'm blocked. |
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LL, Doesn't really matter does it? Do you want to communicate with a man who didn't approach (whether he saw you or another family), jumped to conclusions (married) and made a decision based on that (blocked). You are better off. That said, I would have emailed back and said exactly what you said in your post. I did email..I think I'm blocked. His loss Honey and probably your save. |
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And it is total wash... didn't go well! There are very few men in my area, most bore me and I have had some email communication with someone here that actually peaked my interest a bit. We decide to meet at his request at a park up the canyon to watch the meteor shower. I have my 18 year old son and one of his friends with me, so I figure this is a safe fun thing to do. We agree to meet around midnight-ish. So I'm running behind and get up there about 12:15, I look for his truck, don't see it.. go up the road to 2 more parks thinking maybe some confusion on which park. Never saw the described truck so I find a spot and the kids and I throw down blankets and watch the sky. I come home about 2:45 and have an email that says.. "I saw the white chevy, saw the kids, saw you, married, blocked" I'm a bit confused on what he thinks he saw.. I am the most single person I know, haven't even been on a date in over a year, divorced ten years ago. Was he a no show? Could he have seen a family that he thought was me and mine? Strange.. Is he just a flake? Any input here??  He said you were married???
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wierdo.
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Did you write him before the meet to let him know you were bringing your son and his friend along? Maybe the guy saw the wrong people. I wouldn't know why he thought you were married. Maybe you guys should have met during the day, and then at night meet at the canyon. *Shrugs* Whatever the excuse is, I'm sorry it happened.
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Well at least you saw a meteor shower and it was beautiful I can imagine. Romance will come one way or another, friendship you have here on Mingle2, and laughter will overcome dissappointments if you want it to.
Good luck! 
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 Maybe he means that he is married
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Its also kind of weird that dude was scoping things out from hiding like that. Kinda serial-killerish
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Did you write him before the meet to let him know you were bringing your son and his friend along? Maybe the guy saw the wrong people. I wouldn't know why he thought you were married. Maybe you guys should have met during the day, and then at night meet at the canyon. *Shrugs* Whatever the excuse is, I'm sorry it happened. yes, he knew I would have the boys with me.. so it was the three of us. |
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What a rude and arrogant jerky thing to do!! He saw you and drove away? What kind of person does that?? I know, we meet ALL KINDS, or in this case DON'T MEET, don't we?! That was extremely unkind and rude, and I hope you can forgive him for your own sake. Absolutely his loss making such a judgement. We never know what goes through people's minds.
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And it is total wash... didn't go well! There are very few men in my area, most bore me and I have had some email communication with someone here that actually peaked my interest a bit. We decide to meet at his request at a park up the canyon to watch the meteor shower. I have my 18 year old son and one of his friends with me, so I figure this is a safe fun thing to do. We agree to meet around midnight-ish. So I'm running behind and get up there about 12:15, I look for his truck, don't see it.. go up the road to 2 more parks thinking maybe some confusion on which park. Never saw the described truck so I find a spot and the kids and I throw down blankets and watch the sky. I come home about 2:45 and have an email that says.. "I saw the white chevy, saw the kids, saw you, married, blocked" I'm a bit confused on what he thinks he saw.. I am the most single person I know, haven't even been on a date in over a year, divorced ten years ago. Was he a no show? Could he have seen a family that he thought was me and mine? Strange.. Is he just a flake? Any input here?? Maybe he saw someone else and assumed it was you, I mean it was dark out. That being said, if he jumps to conclusions like that and assumes you were going to meet him their and bring your husband LOL, then he has jealousy or control issues that would have come out later anyway. |
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Maybe he means that he is married yea, maybe 
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Oh that sucks!! Hey but on the positive you enjoyed the meteor shower. Sorry!
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Sorry this happened to you. If you were married, why would you bring your husband with you? Duh.
 I would say it is probably his loss.
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 Dude sounds kind of weird He probably just chickened out and came up with a lame excuse
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Sorry this happened to you. If you were married, why would you bring your husband with you? Duh. I would say it is probably his loss. Yeah, thats what I am wondering.Why would she bring her husband to meet a guy??
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Sorry this happened to you. If you were married, why would you bring your husband with you? Duh. I would say it is probably his loss. Yeah, thats what I am wondering.Why would she bring her husband to meet a guy?? yea, and if I had a husband I wouldn't take my kid with me to meet another guy... a few strange things about this I suppose. |
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Sorry this happened to you. If you were married, why would you bring your husband with you? Duh. I would say it is probably his loss. Yeah, thats what I am wondering.Why would she bring her husband to meet a guy?? yea, and if I had a husband I wouldn't take my kid with me to meet another guy... a few strange things about this I suppose.  Yeah,like this guy thinks you would bring the whole family to meet him
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