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hey i like my vampire lovers!
that being said you cant force yourself to be attracted youll be miserable and resentful and mean! |
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hey i like my vampire lovers! that being said you cant force yourself to be attracted youll be miserable and resentful and mean! in other words, she'll end up just like me, and i don't wish that on anyone. :) |
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Edited by
JasmineInglewood
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Tue 08/11/09 12:37 AM
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meh... ok.
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 * heads to post office to begin process to get passport so I can go chew on Gypsy * |
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* heads to post office to begin process to get passport so I can go chew on Gypsy * perv
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so you meet someone who is every single thing you could possibly want in a significant other - hilariously funny, intelligent, generous, crazy about you etc etc, but you are not physically attracted to him/her. he/she does not want to remain in your life as just a friend (or even a very close friend that you very much treasure), it's all or nothing. what do you do? If they want out, they can leave. If they mess up, they're out- they only get one shot. End of story. |
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seriously though, it sounds you like this person in spite of the physical attraction, maybe if you continue to spend time with him, the attraction will grow. i wasn't attracted to my first bf- i thought he was weird and ugly- but eventually i thought he was freaking fantastic. go figure.
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It's unfortunate that he wants all or nothing right now. I've seen a lot of relationships that did not start with attraction blossom into something really great. Putting a time restraint on developing that relationship does make you feel like you have to "force" attraction and that certainly wouldn't work. Then again, look at arranged marriages where the parents pick your mate. I've met a lot of women in these marriages and they all say the same thing. "My parents didn't choose him because of lust or how he looked but because they believed he was right for me" (and our parents who know us tend to look out for what's best for us). "The love and attraction grew after marriage." And arranged marriages have a higher success rate than ours! If he's forcing you to go all in right away and your parents have not approved, wish him well.
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* heads to post office to begin process to get passport so I can go chew on Gypsy * perv Nuh uh.
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* heads to post office to begin process to get passport so I can go chew on Gypsy * perv Nuh uh. 
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you can fix a lot of things about someone but ugly is to the bone
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ahahahahahhaahahaaa
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you can fix a lot of things about someone but ugly is to the bone omg you're evil  . he's not ugly at all, i just have particular tastes .
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you can fix a lot of things about someone but ugly is to the bone omg you're evil . he's not ugly at all, i just have particular tastes . don't we all.... |
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Trying to build physical attraction would be like building and out house. It might be functional but living in it would stink to high heaven.
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Trying to build physical attraction would be like building and out house. It might be functional but living in it would stink to high heaven. 
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Trying to build physical attraction would be like building and out house. It might be functional but living in it would stink to high heaven. wow, i'm stealing that metaphor. |
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* heads to post office to begin process to get passport so I can go chew on Gypsy *  what was the question again???
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you can fix a lot of things about someone but ugly is to the bone beauty is only a lightswitch away |
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I would screw them ....just to make certain.....
so you meet someone who is every single thing you could possibly want in a significant other - hilariously funny, intelligent, generous, crazy about you etc etc, but you are not physically attracted to him/her. he/she does not want to remain in your life as just a friend (or even a very close friend that you very much treasure), it's all or nothing. what do you do? |
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