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Topic: Which is TOO FAR- Kiss, hug or massage?
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Tue 05/22/07 08:21 PM
Which is TOO far on the 1st date- Kiss, hug or massage?

Often times depending on what you let happen, wrong signals may be sent
to your date.

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Tue 05/22/07 08:22 PM
The reason I am asking because recently I had a bad first date where
there was a misunderstanding. I didn't let him kiss me, he felt I was
being stuck up or not interested. He tried to massage me. One-word
"awkward"

The only thing I'm comfortable with is a HUG.

Duffy's photo
Tue 05/22/07 08:27 PM
kiss, hug or massage? well did you say hello first, and get to know the
guy?
what happened to the good old days where all u did was hold hands?
ya kissed, hugged, and massaged on the 3rd date.:wink: course we were a
little slower then, but i can't remember.glasses

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Tue 05/22/07 08:28 PM
lol I'm not fast so please don't try to give that impression.

Ofcourse we talked first. I'm talking about later on when guys try to be
slick..

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Tue 05/22/07 08:30 PM
I think holding hands is sweet duffy

seahawks's photo
Tue 05/22/07 08:30 PM
well i nibbled on the first date once, figuring i had gone to far, she
kidnapped me and said if i didnt continue to do that ,she would forget
about the ransom and keep me to herself. lmao

Duffy's photo
Tue 05/22/07 08:31 PM
im not saying u were fast.

ask some of the younger women that know about slickers. they can tell ya
better than i can.flowerforyou

HangedMan's photo
Tue 05/22/07 08:33 PM
wellllllll............nah won't answer that bored.

bigpappa4331's photo
Tue 05/22/07 08:36 PM
where are the 2 of you that massage is even possible,,,i mean if you
invited him in ,,,that's a big signal that you have interest ,,,and if
he's trying to massage you in the car well ,,,,,,errrr o.k n/mblushing

Karensmiles's photo
Tue 05/22/07 08:40 PM
It really has to do with chemistry and level of comfortability your at
with each person...flowerforyou

wanttachat's photo
Tue 05/22/07 08:43 PM
Hug or kiss on cheek on the 1st date

Unless he's damn hot then ..........(censured)and then (bleeped)
laugh

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Tue 05/22/07 08:46 PM
:heart: THEY COULD "ALL" HAPPEN ON THE FIRST DATE!!!
And none of THEM be or FEEL WRONG to me!!!:heart: blushing

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Tue 05/22/07 08:50 PM
iam4u what a mind of a male lol!

seahawks that's funny.

Eileen- your so bad lol.

Its funny someone mentioned car because he tried to massage my neck in
my car while talking and having a conversation. O_o I told him to stop.
I didn't ask him in.

Is there a medium? To where you will let the guy know you're interested
enough but not do anything you regret?

davinci1952's photo
Tue 05/22/07 08:54 PM
actually I wouldnt get a tatoo with her name on the first date...

the rest is ok..

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Tue 05/22/07 08:54 PM
lol

lazyj321's photo
Tue 05/22/07 08:56 PM
laugh laugh laugh

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Tue 05/22/07 08:56 PM
hi lazy

katrina_4888's photo
Tue 05/22/07 08:57 PM
massage? probly not. kiss? maybe. hug? most def.

eileena9's photo
Tue 05/22/07 08:57 PM
Hi Bored

Thanks for saying I'm bad, but that was wanttachat... but I would say a
hug and kiss is fine.........massage over clothes, with promise of
"more" after a few dates.blushing

bigpappa4331's photo
Tue 05/22/07 08:57 PM
medium would be you tell him to call,,,,, when he get's home and you
make a point of saying,,,,,, what a very nice time you had with
him:smile:

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