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Did anyone actually read all that stuff? Freaky........... 
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Did anyone actually read all that stuff? Yes. 
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I'm confused...... uhh huh...me too. 
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I spoke to a young 22yr old girl last night for 3 hrs on the phone, I do counseling, and she has a 1yr old daughter, She said, My boyfriend wrote me a piece of paper to say he has been cheating on me and yet we have been together for 2 yrs {but he dose not believe in marriage so he would not marry me when we had are daughter he told me to get rid of her or to keep her but he would not marry her}, he called to ask me if I have received it and she said NO... so he told her on the phone he has been with another women for over 6 months and that he is leaving her and he wants his child on the weekends.. Last night because of "no tax" in this state he came and dropped off money so she could buy a few things for her and the baby. The young girl said, I love him but I don’t believe he loves me? I said but he came and thought of you and the baby he did not have to do this, she said but I know he dose not love me, I said because of that is why he found a new women, you don’t believe he loves you.. But you love him... so that means this... YOU want man to hate you so he can love someone else because you don’t believe you can be loved so you pushed him away. She said, No! I love him I said your right, but you never allowed him to love you and you would not believe he loved you and you would not accept him to love you so you ... showed him that you don’t believe you can ever be loved by him.. If he can not feel that you love him and he is hurting you emotionally then he should not be with you for he loves you so much he has to leave so he dose not do this anymore... This is how so many women on this site feel it is also how so many men portray women... I want to love you but I can not because I know you will never accept or love me. With this kind of thinking... NO one can love anyone. ONLY a few a few, has enough courage to ask a women out and take a chance and say I will give it a try. And if women would stand up and say, this is the man, I think you could be good for me. His integrity was there and he new he could not live it... That was very true but what it showed was this... We marry women, we have kids with women, and then were dose it all goes wrong, it is women want and want more and more, they want what they want. If the man believes he can not afford her or the lifestyle she lives... then he stops trying, he walks away leaving the children needs. ONLY a few men want the best for women, only a few that are hard to fine because they are married. What channel was that show on? |
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Did anyone actually read all that stuff? I started thinkin bout the roller derby half way thru... |
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ahem..but anyways, my initial thought of your post was that this young woman came to you in confidentiality, i don't think its ethically sound to post her problems on a public forum like this for the whole wide world to see.
But thats just my opinion. |
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ONLY a few men want the best for women, only a few that are hard to fine because they are married. This is probably the most out of touch statement that I've seen on this site. Think about it. Do you hear stuff like this in a conversation in daily life outside of the net? Unlikely. I sometimes hear men talking favorably about their girlfriends or wives and I often hear other men saying that their lady is driving them nuts and they are still trying to please them or they say 'yeah, she's right' but you will hardly ever hear a man talk bad about his woman or say he's leaving her because there is too much responsibility in it for him and he's not done screwing around yet. If he would say that, he'd likely have his arse kicked. |
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