If MM isn't in the forums where I can get an idea of who they are (a little anyway) I pay no attention. Only look there about once out of for every 6-7th time that I have time to be here.

It's basically a collection of pictures, nothing more!

Pats is right. When I had my real photo up I started to get mutual matches. When I went to that part of Mingle it didn't really tell you about the person. You had to press the yes, no or maybe just to get to the next person. When I actually pulled a profile it would be disappointing to find that they lived too far a distance to even consider, or had things in their profile which would have never had made me try to contact them. But since I always respond to someone who takes the time to e-mail me and people e-mailed thinking it was a confirmed mutual match.... I had alot of I am sorrys to e-mail out. And since I had to press something to get onto the next person, I had no idea that Maybe would make the other person think I was definately interested. How sad on both ends. Maybe with enough responses on the forum the word will get to the mingle site programmers.