so i had another random thought...

say you were dating somebody for about 2 of 3 months and they wanted you to get an std test before yall got down and dirty.what would be your reaction?

I've done it.

He did it too.

laughter...

Sex? WTF is that.

STD's... see Sex.. WTF etc...

well if they want to know if you are clean from STD, some never tell their partner if they have STD and end up giving it to them without them knowing about it.
If they want to know if i got one, i will go test and prove them!

I wouldn't have a problem going to get tested.

i don't like random thoughts.my brain can't handle them very well

I would.... for as long as he would do it too... We will go hand in hand to the clinic...

i wouldnt either ive never been asked tho but i think more people should get tested there are people walking around with stds that dont even know they have one!

Win!

I just had a random thought tooIf she wants a random STD test then she randomly pays for it cause hers truly randomly has not had a random relationship to contract a random std. The insurance is already high enough without a randomly persisting pre condition such as randomly acquired std.

I think everyone should be tested if they are sexually active, it will give you both peace of mind.

But...one does not need to be in a random relationship to get catch a STD. One can be in a committed relationship and still get one.
The other person could have had it before they entered into a committed relationship. Or...one person could have been committed to the relationship and the other one secretly cheated.

That is fair enough

I'd still do it, that way you can establish a lot of trust with one another.

If it is the woman asking a man to get tested for std's before sex he will be rushing to the nearest clinic.

The operative word here is relationship that one has had to have been in one in order to contract such a thing. In addition with all conditions nowadays put on the Insurance policy holders specially those randomly above the age of 45 is as such that unless one was as clean as Angels in Heaven above one could not secure an insurance randomly or otherwise.

Just get tested, duh. Both of ya. WTF This aint rocket science. I got a box full of dated std test records. I got instant hiv tests in my closet (mouth swab)with the condoms and lube. I would never want to give anyone a disease and if i got hiv i dont think i could get it up let alone pass it on. I would be happy that the person opened their mouth and showed they were actually a responsible adult, someone that loves themselves to the extent that they dont leave everything up to chance when it comes to their own well being, should be the norm and is fcukin sexy as well. i think. If a girl asked me to get tested i would think she might be a keeper. You're only as capable as loving someone else as much as you love yourself. snoogans!

yes exactly!im not comfortable with the whole well he looks clean and play s.t.d Russian roulette!

I'd tell him I'm a virgin.

i'm not saying it's romantic or anything but it's better than catching something awful. just be glad he's safe about it.