Topic: Outside your league
Ladylid2012's photo
Wed 08/05/09 01:43 PM



Personally I feel like men out of my league are some that I believe could do better than me, mostly looks wise, because I have very low self esteem. Regarding intelligence/integrity, it would not be a problem for me because I feel I have enough to offer in those areas.


you are beautiful:smile:

Thank you very much.flowers I'm sorry, I'm not "fishing" for a compliment. I will probably always struggle with it.


didn't think you were fishin.. just wanted to say it :smile:
I'm not gay, just so ya know..

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD's photo
Wed 08/05/09 01:45 PM




Personally I feel like men out of my league are some that I believe could do better than me, mostly looks wise, because I have very low self esteem. Regarding intelligence/integrity, it would not be a problem for me because I feel I have enough to offer in those areas.


you are beautiful:smile:

Thank you very much.flowers I'm sorry, I'm not "fishing" for a compliment. I will probably always struggle with it.


didn't think you were fishin.. just wanted to say it :smile:
I'm not gay, just so ya know..


Brad Pitt will be happy about that last line.

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Wed 08/05/09 01:47 PM

I like Margaurita's and tortilla chips.bigsmile

think Note to self,,,chrissy likes margaurita's and tortilla chips,
with big smiles.....................lol

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Wed 08/05/09 01:48 PM

Personally I feel like men out of my league are some that I believe could do better than me, mostly looks wise, because I have very low self esteem. Regarding intelligence/integrity, it would not be a problem for me because I feel I have enough to offer in those areas.
Your wrong,,because your beautiful..so there.........

hereformore's photo
Wed 08/05/09 01:50 PM




Personally I feel like men out of my league are some that I believe could do better than me, mostly looks wise, because I have very low self esteem. Regarding intelligence/integrity, it would not be a problem for me because I feel I have enough to offer in those areas.


you are beautiful:smile:

Thank you very much.flowers I'm sorry, I'm not "fishing" for a compliment. I will probably always struggle with it.


didn't think you were fishin.. just wanted to say it :smile:
I'm not gay, just so ya know..

I know you're notlaugh i appreciate it. Women need to back each other, I too think you are an atractive lady.

hereformore's photo
Wed 08/05/09 01:51 PM


Personally I feel like men out of my league are some that I believe could do better than me, mostly looks wise, because I have very low self esteem. Regarding intelligence/integrity, it would not be a problem for me because I feel I have enough to offer in those areas.
Your wrong,,because your beautiful..so there.........

flowerforyou Thanks

darkowl1's photo
Wed 08/05/09 01:55 PM
Edited by darkowl1 on Wed 08/05/09 02:13 PM
when one has humility, such as many of you have shone in these posts, it makes one more beautiful.....so to me, many of you are beautiful....enjoy! keep up the good work! oops! i didn't mean it to look like i was a teacher(yoda), or talkin down... sorry, my words just get in the way of my mouth.....y'alls beautiful! there!

terry! your head is beautiful!! what a change! cool mandrinker drinker drinker laugh laugh


tngxl65's photo
Wed 08/05/09 02:31 PM

Personally I feel like men out of my league are some that I believe could do better than me, mostly looks wise, because I have very low self esteem. Regarding intelligence/integrity, it would not be a problem for me because I feel I have enough to offer in those areas.


Do you really want to be with a man that is strictly looking for a beauty queen? That would make him terribly shallow.

It is funny how you can see yourself so differently than others see you. I think most any guy here would tell you that you're attractive, and yet you don't see it in yourself. I suspect as you start to find yourself again you will start to see it.

MeChrissy2's photo
Wed 08/05/09 02:39 PM
This is a very interesting question. So let's noodle it through.

You meet a man/woman, graduated MIT (mom and dad paid), great job, lots of material things, plenty of money but always in it for themselves.

Next,

You meet a man/woman, single parent, works two jobs to provide for kids, volunteers, lives in a trailor, GED, and just making ends meet.

Whose in what league?

Personally, the traits, strengths and determination of person number two would attract me much more.:wink:

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Wed 08/05/09 02:41 PM


I like Margaurita's and tortilla chips.bigsmile

think Note to self,,,chrissy likes margaurita's and tortilla chips,
with big smiles.....................lol


And I'll always remind you if you forget.laugh

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Wed 08/05/09 02:47 PM

when one has humility, such as many of you have shone in these posts, it makes one more beautiful.....so to me, many of you are beautiful....enjoy! keep up the good work! oops! i didn't mean it to look like i was a teacher(yoda), or talkin down... sorry, my words just get in the way of my mouth.....y'alls beautiful! there!

terry! your head is beautiful!! what a change! cool mandrinker drinker drinker laugh laugh


Hey Vincent, thanks maqn,,,and may I say,,you got a nice one here your self,,its new ,,,,isn't it? Don't think I seen ya posting it before,,,drinker

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Wed 08/05/09 02:49 PM



I like Margaurita's and tortilla chips.bigsmile

think Note to self,,,chrissy likes margaurita's and tortilla chips,
with big smiles.....................lol


And I'll always remind you if you forget.laugh
Note to self,,,,,,SHE REMINDS TO,,,,,HOW FREAKIN COOL IS THAT, oh,,sorry note book,,
She has a great memory for things she LIKES,,,,,,:wink: lol

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Wed 08/05/09 03:05 PM
No one has a league, we all have a taste and a self judgement of our selves,,,,if we THINK we don't fit,,,then WE DON'T TRY,,most times.
It is all about what we have in our heads for ego's and respect for who we view US to be in the mirror...noway drinker drinker

Peekinin's photo
Wed 08/05/09 03:06 PM
Personally, I'm interested in the home run. :wink:

Not what "league" I hit it inhappy flowerforyou

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 08/05/09 03:19 PM
Through my years of dating experience, I only tend to use the term "he is out of my league" if he is really well off financially.

I am intimidated by people with a lot of money. I've spent most of my life in school, almost ready to graduate with my master's degree, and I don't have a lot of extra money. I am frugal until I finish school (even though I like the nicer things in life), and dating a guy with a lot of income makes me feel "out of his league". That is my own insecurity. whoa

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD's photo
Wed 08/05/09 03:24 PM

Through my years of dating experience, I only tend to use the term "he is out of my league" if he is really well off financially.

I am intimidated by people with a lot of money. I've spent most of my life in school, almost ready to graduate with my master's degree, and I don't have a lot of extra money. I am frugal until I finish school (even though I like the nicer things in life), and dating a guy with a lot of income makes me feel "out of his league". That is my own insecurity. whoa



Personally, with someone like you, who has real beauty, I would consider myself that way as well. There is one lady I feel is actually out of my league because of her looks, but she's also a very close friend, for now, working on more.

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 08/05/09 03:29 PM


Through my years of dating experience, I only tend to use the term "he is out of my league" if he is really well off financially.

I am intimidated by people with a lot of money. I've spent most of my life in school, almost ready to graduate with my master's degree, and I don't have a lot of extra money. I am frugal until I finish school (even though I like the nicer things in life), and dating a guy with a lot of income makes me feel "out of his league". That is my own insecurity. whoa



Personally, with someone like you, who has real beauty, I would consider myself that way as well. There is one lady I feel is actually out of my league because of her looks, but she's also a very close friend, for now, working on more.


Thank you blushing

I wish you the best in developing a closer relationship with your friend! flowerforyou

Holly4459's photo
Wed 08/05/09 03:31 PM
You can't think in terms of "out of your league"
You would basing things on judgements you have formed about a person that may be completely off!

In other words-"Don't judge a book by it's cover"

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD's photo
Wed 08/05/09 03:31 PM



Through my years of dating experience, I only tend to use the term "he is out of my league" if he is really well off financially.

I am intimidated by people with a lot of money. I've spent most of my life in school, almost ready to graduate with my master's degree, and I don't have a lot of extra money. I am frugal until I finish school (even though I like the nicer things in life), and dating a guy with a lot of income makes me feel "out of his league". That is my own insecurity. whoa



Personally, with someone like you, who has real beauty, I would consider myself that way as well. There is one lady I feel is actually out of my league because of her looks, but she's also a very close friend, for now, working on more.


Thank you blushing

I wish you the best in developing a closer relationship with your friend! flowerforyou


Thank you flowerforyou

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Wed 08/05/09 03:32 PM
This one is fun! excellent question.

Date: Mechanics, Ministers! Machinist, Roofers, Carpenter, HAVC/R

The funny thing is thy are the one that dated a IN-HOME CHILDCARE GIVER!

Gee! did they have guts or courage!

MY EX-Husband, Machinist/Mechanics/Carpenter/Hvac-r!
"WELL HE HATES ME" & I have the kids with college degrees!

Ministers/Roofers "HE LIKED BLONDS NOT BRUNETTES" and size dose matter OUCH!

Ministers/Mechanics "Parkinson's illness took him away" Enough said!

Funny I am the one in the low paying job! but I am the one that Owned the house, and has a stable life along with the kids, and now grandchild!

They had the Mind, we both had the skills working side by side, I had the heart and passion...

But when you work your self to death your too tired to breath, I did the best I could sharing everyone's time, I guess it was just not enough for man kind!

4am to 7:30pm Kids, career, housework, cooking, college kids.
9pm to 12mid man! Gee was that not enough??? LOl

Can't please everyone! Not even yourself...

Yep the sun just came out.. YEA>>>>>