Lots of good people here, glad someone could say it so it reached you.

Good luck, know you will do GREAT.

It souns like you just need to take some time for yourself. Have a day
just for you and remember that soon he will be out of your hair, at
least for a bit. Just take it day by day

yeah well i kicked my ex's ass in front of a crowd of people ....just
got him in the head lock and wrestled him to the ground.....then punched
him in the face and let him go....

sure did feel better after that!!!!!

i dont recommend it however!!!!!

oh my goodness...you all are great!!!!!

crazysilly you rock.

yea it does feel good thou huh!!


i'm a good gurl thou! ***giggles****


As long as you let them take up space in your head they are still in
control..

Its not easy to do you just have to tell yourself they are not worth
your time...



then beat them!! ****snort***

good luck to you gurl!

cutelildevilsmom,
Thanks for understanding.
I am trying to cope but he really did a number on me. Just hearing his
voice fills me with anxioty. He was so controling that I feared a
divorce and contemplated it for an entire year!

You all rock!!! I love you all!!!
Now I am filled with love!!!!!!!!!
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE...LMAO

It is INCREDIBLY DIFFICULT!!!

yeah i hate being near my ex also.he tries to take over anything and
nothing i do is right.but now i tell him to go f himself.i found when i
stood up to him he backed off.big hugs to you and good luck.i was
divorced 3 times and this last one was by far the most difficult because
of his bull****.
oh well live and learn.
now i just hope he dies before i do so i can piss on his grave.

LMFAO...you are hilarious!!!!! I would like to pee and also take a dump
on mine!!!
And brave! After this I don't think I will remarry and time soon!
HELL TO THE NO!!!!

Well, I have mixed feelings about my ex. He was diagnosed with
pancreatic cancer just a few months after our divorce was final. He
died a year later when our son was just starting his senior year in high
school.

Don't be too quick to hate. I felt a lot of anger, but when he was so
ill,and seeing how our son still wanted him in his life, it tore me up.
I've done my best to keep his dad alive in my sons life and he honestly
appreciates every effort. My son is now 23 (wow! am I that old?) and
we have a great relationship despite our struggles or maybe because of
our struggles.

lark,that just shows you have a good heart, and queen, it is ok to hate
for awile, just don't let it consume you, you are going through a rough
time, you need to take the time to find yourself, then you can begin the
healing process, and it ain't easy, but you can do it

queensgirl...anytime babe, just give me a ring and we go have a drink.
Don't forget long beach friday lol.

This is kinda corny, but if I'm heated, and think I will explode, I pull
out pictures of my cats and see their fuzzy faces looking back at me.

OMG I MISS THEM AND THEY ARE AT HOOOMMMEE

awwww it is not corny, you have feeling too

Yeah now I'm feeling sad, I need a hug...(hint hint) =P

awwwwwww ((((((HUG)))))))))

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