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Topic: Is flirting cheating?
hiddenblessing's photo
Sun 08/02/09 07:41 PM
Would break up with the woman you love.

Is it fair to break up with her based on false assumptions.

It's OK guy get jealous, but false assumption is not right.

Please guys put your input from the bottom of your heart.

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 08/02/09 07:42 PM
well...I'll let the guys help ya there then

but hello and welcome :smile:

robert1652's photo
Sun 08/02/09 07:43 PM
Edited by robert1652 on Sun 08/02/09 07:50 PM
By getting the guys to say it is OK I hope you are not trying to clear your own conscience

have you been flirting? By the way

PS by the way I will never get jealous if my partner flirts
I used to when I was 18

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 08/02/09 07:44 PM

Would break up with the woman you love.

Is it fair to break up with her based on false assumptions.

It's OK guy get jealous, but false assumption is not right.

Please guys put your input from the bottom of your heart.




:smile: I certainly would feel dumb if I broke up with a woman because of false assumptions and it turns out later that is was not right.flowerforyou

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Sun 08/02/09 07:46 PM
My answer is yes. Flirting is Cheating's ugly cousin. It's a gateway.

If someone was in a relationship, why is there a need to be a flirt? Correct me if I'm wrong, When someone is in a relationship (married, engaged or simply boyfriend and girlfriend) there should be mutual respect. I am no longer "out there", I am officially off the market. Yes, flirting is cheating, for both men and women.

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Sun 08/02/09 07:48 PM
Flirting and false assumptions are two diffrent ballparks. Are you asking if flirting is cheating or false assumptions of flirting???

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Sun 08/02/09 07:49 PM
nah...
Flirting is harmless if you do not take it seriously.
Internet flirting is okay with me, now if you are flirting with my partner in real life and in front of me? that's different!

newarkjw's photo
Sun 08/02/09 07:50 PM

Would break up with the woman you love.

Is it fair to break up with her based on false assumptions.

It's OK guy get jealous, but false assumption is not right.

Please guys put your input from the bottom of your heart.


From the bottom of my heart.......... Welcome...smokin

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Sun 08/02/09 07:51 PM
ok... (assuming he was the one that was flirting) Would I feel bad if I was flirting with someone in front of my significant other?
Would you?

Legalkat's photo
Sun 08/02/09 07:51 PM
I don't think flirting is cheating, but it depends on what kind of flirting it is. If it's just casual chit-chat, that's not bad, some people are just more friendly than other people. But if you are touching and hanging over someone, that is a different story. Kissing and hugging and maybe even dancing take it too far. All in all, it's just disrespectful to your partner. If you care about them and they about you and show it, then you won't feel the need to get the attention of someone else.

It's all about respect. Just like it's extremely RUDE for men to oogle other women when they are on a date or with another woman. If you want to go after other 'prey,' go solo!

Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 08/02/09 07:52 PM
I don't consider flirting cheating

But I think it's wrong !

I consider it disrespect

I would not do it ! :heart:

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Sun 08/02/09 07:54 PM
If someone was flirting with you in front of your significant other and you did not respond, no that is no means for a break up. Jealousy??? NOt really, would just be proud that I am with that person, unless i had some serious insecurities.

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Sun 08/02/09 07:54 PM
Flirting and false assumptions are two diffrent ballparks. Are you asking if flirting is cheating or false assumptions of flirting??? W:banana: Well if is cheatin when you Flirtin with someelses mate r partner

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Sun 08/02/09 07:56 PM

nah...
Flirting is harmless if you do not take it seriously.
Internet flirting is okay with me, now if you are flirting with my partner in real life and in front of me? that's different!


You're telling me you would feel confortable flirting online while your significant other was watching?

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 08/02/09 07:58 PM
Edited by JustAGuy2112 on Sun 08/02/09 08:00 PM

Would break up with the woman you love.

Is it fair to break up with her based on false assumptions.

It's OK guy get jealous, but false assumption is not right.

Please guys put your input from the bottom of your heart.


For one thing....it's TOTALLY gonna be dependent on the level of the " flirting ".

Letting some other dude play grab *** with you?? Not gonna work very well for most guys. Me included.

You just have to be really careful about what your guy is going to be sensitive to.

Queene123's photo
Sun 08/02/09 08:02 PM
flirting is not cheating, as long as you dont touch your fine

earthytaurus76's photo
Sun 08/02/09 08:16 PM
Yeah I make sure I dont do any flirting til we are in bed having sex.. and then I wait til the middle..

alternativa's photo
Sun 08/02/09 08:17 PM

My answer is yes. Flirting is Cheating's ugly cousin. It's a gateway.

If someone was in a relationship, why is there a need to be a flirt? Correct me if I'm wrong, When someone is in a relationship (married, engaged or simply boyfriend and girlfriend) there should be mutual respect. I am no longer "out there", I am officially off the market. Yes, flirting is cheating, for both men and women.


:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

alternativa's photo
Sun 08/02/09 08:20 PM

I don't consider flirting cheating

But I think it's wrong !

I consider it disrespect

I would not do it ! :heart:


:thumbsup: Exactly! VERY disrespectful.

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Sun 08/02/09 08:28 PM


nah...
Flirting is harmless if you do not take it seriously.
Internet flirting is okay with me, now if you are flirting with my partner in real life and in front of me? that's different!


You're telling me you would feel confortable flirting online while your significant other was watching?


Why would I be here if I have one?

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