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Topic: how do i break the cycle
NORWICHGUYFORFUN1990 Joined Sat 07/04/09 Posts: 18	Sun 08/02/09 09:01 AM
so theres this girl, she knows i like her but weve ended up in this flirt like mad but try to make the other jealous cycle...sure theres a little kiss here and there but nothing serious...and it keeps going back and forth....what can i do to get out of this circle?

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sun 08/02/09 09:03 AM
Leave?

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Sun 08/02/09 09:03 AM
stop acting like a 15 yr old might help

Carmindy Joined Fri 07/31/09 Posts: 6	Sun 08/02/09 09:04 AM
Maybe neither of you are ready for a serious relationship.

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Sun 08/02/09 09:50 AM
What exactly are you getting from this? There is some payoff for you, emotional, psychological or you wouldn't keep doing it. Sounds like pulling pigtails in third grade...

Quietman_2009 Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7430	Sun 08/02/09 09:55 AM
oh, you're 19 it comes with the territory give it a few years

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sun 08/02/09 10:28 AM
What exactly are you getting from this? There is some payoff for you, emotional, psychological or you wouldn't keep doing it. Sounds like pulling pigtails in third grade... Eeeewwwwwww...cooties!

catseyes1 Joined Fri 06/19/09 Posts: 1459	Sun 08/02/09 11:24 AM
Get up and leave. There is always the word NO.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sun 08/02/09 11:26 AM
so theres this girl, she knows i like her but weve ended up in this flirt like mad but try to make the other jealous cycle...sure theres a little kiss here and there but nothing serious...and it keeps going back and forth....what can i do to get out of this circle? go forward

gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Sun 08/02/09 11:28 AM


Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 08/02/09 11:29 AM
What exactly are you getting from this? There is some payoff for you, emotional, psychological or you wouldn't keep doing it. Sounds like pulling pigtails in third grade... Eeeewwwwwww...cooties!

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21823	Sun 08/02/09 11:29 AM
Hold on to nineteen, enjoy it and all the little games as long as you can. Pretty soon you'll be old and they won't want to play that anymore.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 08/02/09 11:29 AM Edited by Calleigh12 on Sun 08/02/09 11:30 AM
i'd say grow up, but we both know that doesn't work instantaneously...so i got nothing..sorry!

Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Sun 08/02/09 11:30 AM
Life is a Circle...& there's occasional "jerks" in it...

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Sun 08/02/09 11:30 AM
Tell her to go **** herself.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 08/02/09 11:31 AM
Hold on to nineteen, enjoy it and all the little games as long as you can. Pretty soon you'll be old and they won't want to play that anymore. I'm old and I love playing cat and mouse.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 08/02/09 11:32 AM
Tell her to go **** herself. If he's just flirting with her, she's probably doing that anyway.

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21823	Sun 08/02/09 11:32 AM
Life is a Circle...& there's occasional "jerks" in it... Where do I join this circle of life you speak of?

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sun 08/02/09 11:32 AM
Tell her to go **** herself. she probably does alot of that if she treats men like this...:)

Modela Joined Fri 09/19/08 Posts: 2535	Sun 08/02/09 11:33 AM
What exactly are you getting from this? There is some payoff for you, emotional, psychological or you wouldn't keep doing it. Sounds like pulling pigtails in third grade... Eeeewwwwwww...cooties!