Topic: I feel bad..
redhead44613's photo
Fri 07/31/09 02:00 PM
My friend and I also go out, to bars, concerts ect. But we have another friend who is 6months pregnant and she can't go out with us. I feel really bad, I want to show her I still care and like hanging with her. What can I do to make her feel better, I thought bout taking her to lunch tomorrow but that just seems blah! Any ideas?

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 07/31/09 02:13 PM

My friend and I also go out, to bars, concerts ect. But we have another friend who is 6months pregnant and she can't go out with us. I feel really bad, I want to show her I still care and like hanging with her. What can I do to make her feel better, I thought bout taking her to lunch tomorrow but that just seems blah! Any ideas?
:smile: That is what happened to a lot of my friends over the years.:smile: We couldnt go out and do stuff as much anymore because they had kids and I didnt.:smile:

lonetar25's photo
Fri 07/31/09 02:14 PM
buy some tiny shoes

she`s going to need them

she`ll realise that you understand

its cheaper than lunch

knights2444's photo
Fri 07/31/09 02:18 PM
take her to lunch, something really great and maybe a movie. she will like the fact you are spending time with her. getting her out of the house. she's pregnant not dead lol.

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Fri 07/31/09 03:34 PM

My friend and I also go out, to bars, concerts ect. But we have another friend who is 6months pregnant and she can't go out with us. I feel really bad, I want to show her I still care and like hanging with her. What can I do to make her feel better, I thought bout taking her to lunch tomorrow but that just seems blah! Any ideas?


Create a bar scene at you house (no alcohol for her) with nice drinks and music and lots of friends, or rent a movie and make it like a cinema place.

What I'm saying is make a surprise party for her and do it in a theme that she likes.

LewisW123's photo
Fri 07/31/09 07:50 PM
Ask her to be your Designated Driver.

misswright's photo
Fri 07/31/09 07:56 PM

My friend and I also go out, to bars, concerts ect. But we have another friend who is 6months pregnant and she can't go out with us. I feel really bad, I want to show her I still care and like hanging with her. What can I do to make her feel better, I thought bout taking her to lunch tomorrow but that just seems blah! Any ideas?


And why can't she go with you? She's pregnant, not a leper. It's not contagious or anything. LMAO

She doesn't need to drink, couldn't she just go hang out and have fun with you girls? Laugh, listen to the music, have a soda. Once the baby comes, she won't have the time, energy, or money to go to the bars.

If it would just be too hard for her to go and NOT drink, then by all means, lunch tomorrow sounds like a great idea. She's lucky to have a friend like you by the way. flowerforyou

catseyes1's photo
Fri 07/31/09 08:03 PM
Just make it a day for you and your friend, go to the mall look at baby stuff, take her to lunch and have a nice conversation with each other.

ClayFace2009's photo
Fri 07/31/09 08:05 PM

My friend and I also go out, to bars, concerts ect. But we have another friend who is 6months pregnant and she can't go out with us. I feel really bad, I want to show her I still care and like hanging with her. What can I do to make her feel better, I thought bout taking her to lunch tomorrow but that just seems blah! Any ideas?


As long as you stay away from the bars with her being pregnant, it shouldn't be a problem what you both do when you go out.

AngieRae's photo
Fri 07/31/09 08:37 PM
Pregos love massages... the two of you can have a spa day together. Or even just shopping. What you do is not nearly as important as the fact that you show her you still care and want to spend time with her. Actually, I find it really flattering when my friends want to just "hang out" and do nothing. It says that they enjoy my company enough to not need the distraction of activity! lol