Topic: Obsessive friend
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Fri 07/31/09 01:06 AM
Have you had one before? How do you handle the fit and controlling behaviour?

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Fri 07/31/09 01:10 AM
yes and the scariest thing i had ever experienced was telling them she needed to leave me alone.

cutting someone off who goes too far is scary.

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 07/31/09 01:14 AM
I had a crazy obsessive friend once. He became a full on stalker.. showed up drunk, calling all the time and I mean all the time. I finally put a no trespass out on him.. didn't stop him.
He ended up killing himself.. he was going crazy and that is why I couldn't let him come over around my boys anymore. Went from everything to nothing.
Very weird.

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Fri 07/31/09 01:15 AM
Nope, never had an obsessive friend, now that I think about it, I have never had a friend...biggrin j/k

Obsessive people can be unpredictable..be careful.

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Fri 07/31/09 01:16 AM

I had a crazy obsessive friend once. He became a full on stalker.. showed up drunk, calling all the time and I mean all the time. I finally put a no trespass out on him.. didn't stop him.
He ended up killing himself.. he was going crazy and that is why I couldn't let him come over around my boys anymore. Went from everything to nothing.
Very weird.


Oh sorry to hear that... I've been there and it is not easy. I have to leave out of the country for a year...But I have a new one this time and I quit the email and the site we met before... He become very obsessive of me and gets mad sometimes when I do not email him back. Very sad!

Marie55's photo
Fri 07/31/09 01:16 AM
Made the mistake of marrying him. Took years to finally get the nerve to divorce him. You are right about the "scary" part.


munchiebellic's photo
Fri 07/31/09 01:16 AM

yes and the scariest thing i had ever experienced was telling them she needed to leave me alone.

cutting someone off who goes too far is scary.

I have i guy friend who is friends with a girl like than and he made the mistake of sleeping with her now she really wont go away and she wont leave either plus she wont let him other friends that are girls they all get sacred away. The girl is crazy then tries to be sweet to your face.

Jtevans's photo
Fri 07/31/09 01:17 AM
nope luckily

southern_bee's photo
Fri 07/31/09 01:22 AM
nope but if i did i tie them up and call a therapist

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Fri 07/31/09 01:23 AM


I had a crazy obsessive friend once. He became a full on stalker.. showed up drunk, calling all the time and I mean all the time. I finally put a no trespass out on him.. didn't stop him.
He ended up killing himself.. he was going crazy and that is why I couldn't let him come over around my boys anymore. Went from everything to nothing.
Very weird.


Oh sorry to hear that... I've been there and it is not easy. I have to leave out of the country for a year...But I have a new one this time and I quit the email and the site we met before... He become very obsessive of me and gets mad sometimes when I do not email him back. Very sad!


It was sad. Aug 26 will be 3 years. We were friends for 7 years, worked together... the alcohol got the best of him and he really did just lose it, go nuts... very sad indeed. I don't miss the crazy stuff, I do miss my friend, the way it was before it went bad.