Topic: Almost Honest
TxsSun's photo
Thu 07/30/09 10:27 AM
I had that happen to me. I was dating a guy, everything was going well. AFTER we slept together quite a few times, he told me it wasn't going anywhere.


REALLY??? You didn't know this after the first or second time? Or even before????

franshade's photo
Thu 07/30/09 10:27 AM

Here is another theory I have....

(and I know its one-sided, don't jump on me, it could go both ways!]

If a guy would just be up front to whether he was just looking for a roll in the sack or something more.... there would still be women willing to just have the roll in the sack. And it would spare hurting those that aren't.


there is always that woman who thinks after she beds him, he will change his ways and change his mind.

tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/30/09 10:28 AM


Here is another theory I have....

(and I know its one-sided, don't jump on me, it could go both ways!]

If a guy would just be up front to whether he was just looking for a roll in the sack or something more.... there would still be women willing to just have the roll in the sack. And it would spare hurting those that aren't.


I can't help but agree with you girl!! That is all some people want or need so why not be honest about it?!


!!!!!!Hallelujah!!!!! Finally someone that agrees with me. When I discuss this with a guy the response I get are... 'that won't ever happen.'

tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/30/09 10:28 AM


Here is another theory I have....

(and I know its one-sided, don't jump on me, it could go both ways!]

If a guy would just be up front to whether he was just looking for a roll in the sack or something more.... there would still be women willing to just have the roll in the sack. And it would spare hurting those that aren't.


there is always that woman who thinks after she beds him, he will change his ways and change his mind.



Then that is her problem, not his.... he was honest!

robert1652's photo
Thu 07/30/09 10:29 AM


When one is honest they get angry about honesty
When one is dishonest they get angry about dishonesty
When one is a politician they get angry about slyness
When one is not committed they get angry about everything
When one is following priorities they get angry being second choice
What is one to do
Be totally comical

drinksdrinksdrinksdrinksdrinks

Promises, promises, question is when? I drank so much I am intoxicated ALONE

tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/30/09 10:29 AM

I had that happen to me. I was dating a guy, everything was going well. AFTER we slept together quite a few times, he told me it wasn't going anywhere.


REALLY??? You didn't know this after the first or second time? Or even before????


Yeah... if it was a sexually chemistry thing... then that should have been discovered and discussed after a couple times!

grneyedldy1967's photo
Thu 07/30/09 10:30 AM



Here is another theory I have....

(and I know its one-sided, don't jump on me, it could go both ways!]

If a guy would just be up front to whether he was just looking for a roll in the sack or something more.... there would still be women willing to just have the roll in the sack. And it would spare hurting those that aren't.


I can't help but agree with you girl!! That is all some people want or need so why not be honest about it?!


!!!!!!Hallelujah!!!!! Finally someone that agrees with me. When I discuss this with a guy the response I get are... 'that won't ever happen.'


Because men think they have to lie into making a girl think he wants a relationship so she'll sleep with him. Maybe just MAYBE she is wanting the same thing he is.. sex!

franshade's photo
Thu 07/30/09 10:30 AM



Here is another theory I have....

(and I know its one-sided, don't jump on me, it could go both ways!]

If a guy would just be up front to whether he was just looking for a roll in the sack or something more.... there would still be women willing to just have the roll in the sack. And it would spare hurting those that aren't.


there is always that woman who thinks after she beds him, he will change his ways and change his mind.



Then that is her problem, not his.... he was honest!


kudos - you are correct but she'd still be hurt.


robert1652's photo
Thu 07/30/09 10:31 AM



Here is another theory I have....

(and I know its one-sided, don't jump on me, it could go both ways!]

If a guy would just be up front to whether he was just looking for a roll in the sack or something more.... there would still be women willing to just have the roll in the sack. And it would spare hurting those that aren't.


I can't help but agree with you girl!! That is all some people want or need so why not be honest about it?!


!!!!!!Hallelujah!!!!! Finally someone that agrees with me. When I discuss this with a guy the response I get are... 'that won't ever happen.'

tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/30/09 10:31 AM




Here is another theory I have....

(and I know its one-sided, don't jump on me, it could go both ways!]

If a guy would just be up front to whether he was just looking for a roll in the sack or something more.... there would still be women willing to just have the roll in the sack. And it would spare hurting those that aren't.


there is always that woman who thinks after she beds him, he will change his ways and change his mind.



Then that is her problem, not his.... he was honest!


kudos - you are correct but she'd still be hurt.




Do to her misconceptions and not being honest with herself... it is her problem than if she is hurt!

tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/30/09 10:32 AM
Because men think they have to lie into making a girl think he wants a relationship so she'll sleep with him. Maybe just MAYBE she is wanting the same thing he is.. sex!



EXACTLY!!!

tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/30/09 10:32 AM
:laughing: Robert!

franshade's photo
Thu 07/30/09 10:36 AM



When one is honest they get angry about honesty
When one is dishonest they get angry about dishonesty
When one is a politician they get angry about slyness
When one is not committed they get angry about everything
When one is following priorities they get angry being second choice
What is one to do
Be totally comical

drinksdrinksdrinksdrinksdrinks

Promises, promises, question is when? I drank so much I am intoxicated ALONE


nothing promised - just raised my glass to ya tongue2

tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/30/09 10:37 AM
Edited by tanyaann on Thu 07/30/09 10:50 AM
Come on people... I know you read it... any other thoughts?

robert1652's photo
Thu 07/30/09 10:58 AM




When one is honest they get angry about honesty
When one is dishonest they get angry about dishonesty
When one is a politician they get angry about slyness
When one is not committed they get angry about everything
When one is following priorities they get angry being second choice
What is one to do
Be totally comical

drinksdrinksdrinksdrinksdrinks

Promises, promises, question is when? I drank so much I am intoxicated ALONE


nothing promised - just raised my glass to ya tongue2

There goes one totally brutally honest Lass

Blackbull222's photo
Thu 07/30/09 10:59 AM
Well, it is part of social norms to be polite, which requires dishonesty. If someone asks you "am i fat?" how often do they truly want to hear, "yes you look like shamuu?" As such, people try to be polite, and sometimes too much so; othertimes, it's because they are selfish. either way, honesty is not always the best policy ( and i have often found this to be true for those who always say they want an honest response).

tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/30/09 10:59 AM
Brutally honest, but a total sweetheart too!

tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/30/09 11:09 AM

Well, it is part of social norms to be polite, which requires dishonesty. If someone asks you "am i fat?" how often do they truly want to hear, "yes you look like shamuu?" As such, people try to be polite, and sometimes too much so; othertimes, it's because they are selfish. either way, honesty is not always the best policy ( and i have often found this to be true for those who always say they want an honest response).


How rude is it to say 'you look like shamuu'?!? However, it is more appropriate to say, it's not your best outfit or I like this one better or yes, you look a little fat in this area. Or saying 'do you really want my opinion on this?'

Dishonesty or sugar-coating happens in life to spare feelings. Sometimes it is better to keep your mouth shut or not do something if you can't be honest about it.

But being dishonesty when in regards to sex, not cool. Or playing with someone's emotions by being dishonest... really not cool.

franshade's photo
Thu 07/30/09 11:14 AM

Well, it is part of social norms to be polite, which requires dishonesty. If someone asks you "am i fat?" how often do they truly want to hear, "yes you look like shamuu?" As such, people try to be polite, and sometimes too much so; othertimes, it's because they are selfish. either way, honesty is not always the best policy ( and i have often found this to be true for those who always say they want an honest response).

One can be polite and not dishonest.


franshade's photo
Thu 07/30/09 11:15 AM

Brutally honest, but a total sweetheart too!

:heart: