Topic: GETTING A "DEAR JOAN" E-MAIL
NEIGHTNURSE's photo
Thu 07/30/09 08:14 AM
Well Ladies, in my book this beats them all to hell......after 5 months of "dating" which consisted of a couple nice outings a couple nice dinners but mainly me going tohis place, (he only came to mine twice, after yet another truck load of empty promises he had the nerve to dump me via e-mail..... no real reason except he said " I am old fat ugly and tired" Sounds like a real dog ready to go off and die. Yes it is absolutely thebest thing for me and yes I did send him a THANK YOU FOR RELEASING ME e-mail but still. ARE THERE ANY REAL MEN OUT THERE ANY MORE ? !!!!!

prisoner's photo
Thu 07/30/09 08:20 AM
grumble This all could have been avoided if you realized he was a dog and never went out with him in the first place. And yes,there are still gentlemen left. be seeing you

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Thu 07/30/09 08:22 AM

Well Ladies, in my book this beats them all to hell......after 5 months of "dating" which consisted of a couple nice outings a couple nice dinners but mainly me going tohis place, (he only came to mine twice, after yet another truck load of empty promises he had the nerve to dump me via e-mail..... no real reason except he said " I am old fat ugly and tired" Sounds like a real dog ready to go off and die. Yes it is absolutely thebest thing for me and yes I did send him a THANK YOU FOR RELEASING ME e-mail but still. ARE THERE ANY REAL MEN OUT THERE ANY MORE ? !!!!!
YES , BUT WHERE ARE ALL THE SINGLE WOMEN , LADIES GIRLS AT??????????????????????

auburngirl's photo
Thu 07/30/09 08:29 AM
Holy COW!!! Sorry for some of the comments you've received.

I'm sorry you are hurt. Those things had to hurt. flowerforyou

newarkjw's photo
Thu 07/30/09 08:32 AM
flowerforyou I'm sorry.

TxsSun's photo
Thu 07/30/09 08:32 AM

Well Ladies, in my book this beats them all to hell......after 5 months of "dating" which consisted of a couple nice outings a couple nice dinners but mainly me going tohis place, (he only came to mine twice, after yet another truck load of empty promises he had the nerve to dump me via e-mail..... no real reason except he said " I am old fat ugly and tired" Sounds like a real dog ready to go off and die. Yes it is absolutely thebest thing for me and yes I did send him a THANK YOU FOR RELEASING ME e-mail but still. ARE THERE ANY REAL MEN OUT THERE ANY MORE ? !!!!!



I got mine via text message.

I am sorry this happened. flowerforyou

NEIGHTNURSE's photo
Thu 07/30/09 08:54 AM
thank you for responding, i really appreciate your input however, he started out being simply wonderful! on our first "date" he bought me a dozen longstem red roses!! how could I have argued with that?

auburngirl's photo
Thu 07/30/09 08:58 AM

thank you for responding, i really appreciate your input however, he started out being simply wonderful! on our first "date" he bought me a dozen longstem red roses!! how could I have argued with that?


Hmmmmmm. Roses, like kisses aren't promises. There's some old saying about that. People, always, in time show you who they really are. I'm glad you sent him that "Thank you" email. That is priceless!

tanyaann's photo
Thu 07/30/09 09:03 AM
Sorry that you experienced that! flowerforyou

Blackbull222's photo
Thu 07/30/09 09:16 AM
it's always tough. Keep your chin up.

NEIGHTNURSE's photo
Mon 08/03/09 06:04 AM
ty for responding and my heart goes out to all of us decent women trying to truly find the "right" one......

NEIGHTNURSE's photo
Mon 08/03/09 06:06 AM
I am going to age myself here, but donnyOsmond said it with his song...paper roses...they had been in my freezer until the day he disposed of me, i disposed of them.....

NEIGHTNURSE's photo
Mon 08/03/09 06:06 AM
ty but that's esy for a guy to say

NEIGHTNURSE's photo
Mon 08/03/09 06:07 AM
ladies....be ware!!!!! he is back here on line from ashtabula ohio!!!!! no change in profile............

no photo
Mon 08/03/09 10:22 AM
Mean people suck.flowerforyou

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Mon 08/03/09 11:53 AM

Well Ladies, in my book this beats them all to hell......after 5 months of "dating" which consisted of a couple nice outings a couple nice dinners but mainly me going tohis place, (he only came to mine twice, after yet another truck load of empty promises he had the nerve to dump me via e-mail..... no real reason except he said " I am old fat ugly and tired" Sounds like a real dog ready to go off and die. Yes it is absolutely thebest thing for me and yes I did send him a THANK YOU FOR RELEASING ME e-mail but still. ARE THERE ANY REAL MEN OUT THERE ANY MORE ? !!!!!


Gee... I can't help but think that there wouldn't be quite the same amount of stink if the roles were reversed. But that's just me thinking out loud, though- the fact is that anyone, regardless of gender, who would stoop to such levels after dating for a certain amount of time can be called "low-rent".

Some of us don't even get "Dear John" emails either- I, for example, have been given the ol' heave-ho via a particularly-flippant IM after a couple of relationships went down south to Tijuana over the years. If anything, this probably sucks even more in there's much less forethought or concern for the other party's feelings in the matter at hand.

I'd venture to assume that there'd be a significant lack of respect for the targeted party going on there as well. Sucks just the same, though.




Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 08/03/09 11:56 AM

Mean people suck.flowerforyou


what she said