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 Man this sucks and I feel for you but you know what, I've not seen anyone on here mention this but you don't have to accept the pain that this is causing. It's something that you will someday come to realize is that everything is ok but you don't have to wait for that moment to come at all....if you chose you can have it right now. I know it's hard but you have to pull it together and power through it and when any feeling of pain begins to creep into your heart you have to fight like hell to push it out and you have to keep doing it constantly but very soon it will pay off and it will just become an anoyance. Remember, no one ever said you have to accept this kind of pain, it's not physical there for you can reject it. And something else I've come to realize is that life isn't over at all for ya. There is always...ALWAYS someone else waiting for you out there. This reminds me of the saying "fake it till ya make it".... |
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Just split with my childhood sweet heart after25 years of marriage. She got a new job and cut me out of her life. Dont know what to do with out her, Dont even know how to approach another woman. I feel alone and useless Where do I start YOUR HERE,,,stay here,,get involved with some posts you find interesting,,,keep posting to them and being seen,,people will read you and see you and your start making some friends on here.. THIS PLACE will let you get ABSORBED in it however DEEP you need to go,,to keep your mind OFF of her... THIS is true,,if YOU really want to reach out and help your self and make great friends in doing so.. I DID THIS,,and stayed,,,,wink,, Good luck and just don't look back,only fprwards... |
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Just split with my childhood sweet heart after25 years of marriage. She got a new job and cut me out of her life. Dont know what to do with out her, Dont even know how to approach another woman. I feel alone and useless Where do I start YOUR HERE,,,stay here,,get involved with some posts you find interesting,,,keep posting to them and being seen,,people will read you and see you and your start making some friends on here.. THIS PLACE will let you get ABSORBED in it however DEEP you need to go,,to keep your mind OFF of her... THIS is true,,if YOU really want to reach out and help your self and make great friends in doing so.. I DID THIS,,and stayed,,,,wink,, Good luck and just don't look back,only fprwards... [/quote Ditto!!! you beat me to it Terry  |
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My 21 year marriage just ended.
Now I am the most important person in my life,I still take care of the others who need me. I do the things I want to do when I want to,I don't put them off because I wish I had done them if I did not do them. Getting the things done I want to do gives me a sense of accomplishment.It gives me confidence. People notice You when you are confident. That's what is working for me,if someone else comes along they can blend into my life.I won't change for someone else. Only trying to help 
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maybe you need some time to heal first before you meet someone else
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I too recently had my heart broken. I was married for almost 18 years and got divorced. Thats not where the broken heart comes in though. I met someone, and we were a couple for 8 months, until he told me he had been seeing someone for the entire time we were together, and he felt bad, but had to make a choice. He chose the woman he was seeing, and I am left, wondering wtf is wrong with ME. We had been talking about the future and making plans. This was like a slap in the face, as I never saw it coming. I too, am wondering how to move on and get over it. If you find out, let me know.....
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Stay busy, Have fun with friends & family, join a gym & force yourself to live again, but with time all things will heal. If she sees that your life has gone on without her, you might get your answer
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Stay busy, Have fun with friends & family, join a gym & force yourself to live again, but with time all things will heal. If she sees that your life has gone on without her, you might get your answer
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Just split with my childhood sweet heart after25 years of marriage. She got a new job and cut me out of her life. Dont know what to do with out her, Dont even know how to approach another woman. I feel alone and useless Where do I start you should talk this over with jack daniels |
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