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Topic: Attraction, clarify your image
daytime Joined Sat 04/25/09 Posts: 2735	Wed 07/29/09 11:05 PM
This is from a book by Neil Clark Warren, PHD, he was the founder of eHarmony.com He states "It is crucial to clarify your image of the person to whom you wish to be atttracted to". He then lists 10 dimensions "that are important to consider while formulating the image of you ideal spouse." 1. Personality 2. Intelligence 3. Appearance 4. Ambition 5. Chemistry 6. Spirituality 7. Character 8. Creativity 9. Parenting 10.Authenticity In the book he tells the reader that they need to put the 10 dimensions in order of importance for themselves (each person will have different items they consider important). So what do you think??

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Wed 07/29/09 11:07 PM
nudity

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 07/29/09 11:08 PM
I dont see big ****!!!

daytime Joined Sat 04/25/09 Posts: 2735	Wed 07/29/09 11:11 PM
I dont see big ****!!!

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Wed 07/29/09 11:12 PM
And for $59.95 a month he has guarantee he will find you your perfect match.

LeAiTàeRiSpEtTo20 Joined Wed 07/22/09 Posts: 161	Wed 07/29/09 11:16 PM
I dont see big ****!!!

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Wed 07/29/09 11:17 PM
This is from a book by Neil Clark Warren, PHD, he was the founder of eHarmony.com He states "It is crucial to clarify your image of the person to whom you wish to be atttracted to". He then lists 10 dimensions "that are important to consider while formulating the image of you ideal spouse." 1. Personality 2. Intelligence 3. Appearance 4. Ambition 5. Chemistry 6. Spirituality 7. Character 8. Creativity 9. Parenting 10.Authenticity In the book he tells the reader that they need to put the 10 dimensions in order of importance for themselves (each person will have different items they consider important). So what do you think?? He's the same guy who's site told me that I was " unmatchable ". Like I am going to take any advice from HIM.

daytime Joined Sat 04/25/09 Posts: 2735	Wed 07/29/09 11:17 PM
And for $59.95 a month he has guarantee he will find you your perfect match. I have never tried eHarmony....that sounds way too expensive

daytime Joined Sat 04/25/09 Posts: 2735	Wed 07/29/09 11:23 PM
This is from a book by Neil Clark Warren, PHD, he was the founder of eHarmony.com He states "It is crucial to clarify your image of the person to whom you wish to be atttracted to". He then lists 10 dimensions "that are important to consider while formulating the image of you ideal spouse." 1. Personality 2. Intelligence 3. Appearance 4. Ambition 5. Chemistry 6. Spirituality 7. Character 8. Creativity 9. Parenting 10.Authenticity In the book he tells the reader that they need to put the 10 dimensions in order of importance for themselves (each person will have different items they consider important). So what do you think?? He's the same guy who's site told me that I was " unmatchable ". Like I am going to take any advice from HIM. So they just send an email "you are unmatchable"....did you still have to pay the $59.95 ?

Want2B5ft Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 1267	Wed 07/29/09 11:24 PM
It is like goal setting. Once you recognize what you want and make a list then your mind is more open to the opportunities that are out there in order to make your goals attainable. It makes sense to me. I know people who have made lists and really follow them as far as personality traits and tolerance levels are concerned and it seems to work for them. They know what they can live with it and what they can't. I have also seen people who fly by the seat of their pants and live in the moment. They seem to have more let downs and failures. And then can't understand why. So I can see how this might "work".

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Wed 07/29/09 11:25 PM
And for $59.95 a month he has guarantee he will find you your perfect match. I have never tried eHarmony....that sounds way too expensive Yeah, it does seem that, doesn't it? And by the commercials very lame

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15111	Wed 07/29/09 11:26 PM
This is from a book by Neil Clark Warren, PHD, he was the founder of eHarmony.com He states "It is crucial to clarify your image of the person to whom you wish to be atttracted to". He then lists 10 dimensions "that are important to consider while formulating the image of you ideal spouse." 1. Personality 2. Intelligence 3. Appearance 4. Ambition 5. Chemistry 6. Spirituality 7. Character 8. Creativity 9. Parenting 10.Authenticity In the book he tells the reader that they need to put the 10 dimensions in order of importance for themselves (each person will have different items they consider important). So what do you think?? He's the same guy who's site told me that I was " unmatchable ". Like I am going to take any advice from HIM. I've heard a few people say that!

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Wed 07/29/09 11:27 PM
And for $59.95 a month he has guarantee he will find you your perfect match. I have never tried eHarmony....that sounds way too expensive I tried it...just like match or any other paid site. They do have the test you can take.. it's a personality test and I did that, doesn't cost anything to do it. It is really long though. Kinda cool though, I thought it was pretty accurate for myself.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 07/29/09 11:28 PM
And for $59.95 a month he has guarantee he will find you your perfect match. I have never tried eHarmony....that sounds way too expensive I tried it...just like match or any other paid site. They do have the test you can take.. it's a personality test and I did that, doesn't cost anything to do it. It is really long though. Kinda cool though, I thought it was pretty accurate for myself. I took a personality test with the Church of Scientology one time

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Wed 07/29/09 11:30 PM
This is from a book by Neil Clark Warren, PHD, he was the founder of eHarmony.com He states "It is crucial to clarify your image of the person to whom you wish to be atttracted to". He then lists 10 dimensions "that are important to consider while formulating the image of you ideal spouse." 1. Personality 2. Intelligence 3. Appearance 4. Ambition 5. Chemistry 6. Spirituality 7. Character 8. Creativity 9. Parenting 10.Authenticity In the book he tells the reader that they need to put the 10 dimensions in order of importance for themselves (each person will have different items they consider important). So what do you think?? He's the same guy who's site told me that I was " unmatchable ". Like I am going to take any advice from HIM. So they just send an email "you are unmatchable"....did you still have to pay the $59.95 ? No. I went through their 7 hour - 956 question - ' get to know you ' crap that has questions like " How often are you happy " ( rate from one to five-five being always happy ) and it came up with a screen that said " We are unable to find anyone that matches your criteria ".

daytime Joined Sat 04/25/09 Posts: 2735	Wed 07/29/09 11:30 PM Edited by daytime on Wed 07/29/09 11:31 PM
You are supposed to make the list according to what you think is important. Chemistry has to go to the top for me.

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Wed 07/29/09 11:31 PM
This is from a book by Neil Clark Warren, PHD, he was the founder of eHarmony.com He states "It is crucial to clarify your image of the person to whom you wish to be atttracted to". He then lists 10 dimensions "that are important to consider while formulating the image of you ideal spouse." 1. Personality 2. Intelligence 3. Appearance 4. Ambition 5. Chemistry 6. Spirituality 7. Character 8. Creativity 9. Parenting 10.Authenticity In the book he tells the reader that they need to put the 10 dimensions in order of importance for themselves (each person will have different items they consider important). So what do you think?? He's the same guy who's site told me that I was " unmatchable ". Like I am going to take any advice from HIM. I've heard a few people say that! I guess my " Give a St * level just wasn't high enough for anyone.**

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Wed 07/29/09 11:31 PM
And for $59.95 a month he has guarantee he will find you your perfect match. I have never tried eHarmony....that sounds way too expensive I tried it...just like match or any other paid site. They do have the test you can take.. it's a personality test and I did that, doesn't cost anything to do it. It is really long though. Kinda cool though, I thought it was pretty accurate for myself. I took a personality test with the Church of Scientology one time How did that work out for ya?

Gracy87 Joined Sun 09/21/08 Posts: 95	Wed 07/29/09 11:41 PM
This is from a book by Neil Clark Warren, PHD, he was the founder of eHarmony.com He states "It is crucial to clarify your image of the person to whom you wish to be atttracted to". He then lists 10 dimensions "that are important to consider while formulating the image of you ideal spouse." 1. Personality 2. Intelligence 3. Appearance 4. Ambition 5. Chemistry 6. Spirituality 7. Character 8. Creativity 9. Parenting 10.Authenticity In the book he tells the reader that they need to put the 10 dimensions in order of importance for themselves (each person will have different items they consider important). So what do you think?? I believe in meeting in person. Make no mistakes!

bigsullivan54 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 459	Thu 07/30/09 12:50 AM
1. Personality 2. Intelligence 3. Appearance 4. Chemistry 5. Ambition 6. Character 7. Creativity 8. Parenting 9. Authenticity 10. Spirituality