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Topic: How much stock do you...
Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Tue 07/28/09 03:01 PM
I'm stubborn, so if I like someone, I like them til they give me reason not to. Not sure if this is good or bad... Dang! Are you my long lost twin?

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 07/28/09 03:04 PM
I'm stubborn, so if I like someone, I like them til they give me reason not to. Not sure if this is good or bad... Dang! Are you my long lost twin? LOL you never know!

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD Joined Mon 02/16/09 Posts: 7186	Tue 07/28/09 03:16 PM
I just have to wonder why people let others effect their lives like that. Seems it's only normal to want to save the friendship if at all possible, but then to not ask about the rumor and throw a friendship away because of said rumor... I really don't get it.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76412	Tue 07/28/09 03:29 PM
One should only believe part of what one tells them and half of what they read. As far as gut feelings even at times we must step back and see the whole pictures. It's always best not to jump to conclusions many times the one telling it has a reason behind it .

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Tue 07/28/09 03:31 PM
How much stock do you put into something someone tells you about someone you like that is not a good thing, do you ask the person if it's true or not or do you just take the word of that person telling you and never get the friend's side? Gossip...another way of saying fail.

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Tue 07/28/09 03:31 PM
Griff, You make your own judgement...what you think is what matters Always ask. Trust your instinct! If you don't, you may make a big mistake that could have been the best thing that has ever happened to you. I agree 100% !!!!

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Tue 07/28/09 03:32 PM
But I am mean and horrible...ask anyone...

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD Joined Mon 02/16/09 Posts: 7186	Tue 07/28/09 03:33 PM
But I am mean and horrible...ask anyone... Really doubt that.

Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Tue 07/28/09 03:36 PM
There's always 3 sides to a story...his/hers...theirs...& the Truth...

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD Joined Mon 02/16/09 Posts: 7186	Tue 07/28/09 03:37 PM Edited by GRIFFIN_LIZZARD on Tue 07/28/09 03:38 PM
There's always 3 sides to a story...his/hers...theirs...& the Truth... Yes, but to only listen to one side and quit a friendship over it? WTF??? oh BTW.. HIYA Phuque

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Tue 07/28/09 03:46 PM
I don't believe anything I hear and only half of what I see...

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 07/28/09 05:11 PM
I just have to wonder why people let others effect their lives like that. Seems it's only normal to want to save the friendship if at all possible, but then to not ask about the rumor and throw a friendship away because of said rumor... I really don't get it. See that's what I tell people! Never let someone run your life or try to tell you what to do; at the end of the day, you're the one who has to answer for whatever happened. And you're the one who's going to suffer the loss of whatever you sacrificed for someone else.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 07/28/09 05:12 PM
One should only believe part of what one tells them and half of what they read. As far as gut feelings even at times we must step back and see the whole pictures. It's always best not to jump to conclusions many times the one telling it has a reason behind it . Yeah, I used to date a guy, and this girl tried to tell me something stupid about him. Turned out she wanted him too, and it was all jealousy, LOL

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 07/28/09 05:13 PM
There's always 3 sides to a story...his/hers...theirs...& the Truth... My mom says that all the time.

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD Joined Mon 02/16/09 Posts: 7186	Tue 07/28/09 05:39 PM
well I know this friend of mine that obviously listened to a bitter friend of mine and now she also is bitter, and I know why the original bitter one did what she did, but... I miss my friends... both of them.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 07/28/09 05:40 PM
well I know this friend of mine that obviously listened to a bitter friend of mine and now she also is bitter, and I know why the original bitter one did what she did, but... I miss my friends... both of them. People can really suck.

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD Joined Mon 02/16/09 Posts: 7186	Tue 07/28/09 05:54 PM
Neither one of these friends suck really, they just got me all wrong I guess.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 07/28/09 05:56 PM
Neither one of these friends suck really, they just got me all wrong I guess. I didn't mean them specifically, I meant people in general. They have the capacity to suck. It's nice you're not mad at them for misjudging you. You're much kinder than I am.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 07/28/09 05:58 PM
I would ask the person who the rumors are about to see what they said.

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD Joined Mon 02/16/09 Posts: 7186	Tue 07/28/09 05:59 PM
Neither one of these friends suck really, they just got me all wrong I guess. I didn't mean them specifically, I meant people in general. They have the capacity to suck. It's nice you're not mad at them for misjudging you. You're much kinder than I am. I like people, I don't hate too often, heck I don't even hate my soon to be ex for doing the crap she did. I'll take a friend over anything.