Topic: how come i cannot find the right man
redbone1960's photo
Mon 07/27/09 09:32 PM
i have been looking for mister right so long that i have gave up 48 yr old black female cannot find good man why i hav e my own home and my own income no kids they are in college ans i do look very good andsexy for my ageblack wommen dont get old no this one ok so if u are out there holla at this sweet and lonley woman i love allsexy and goodlooking men ok bye

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 07/27/09 09:38 PM
Well, I can't help ya out there..
but hello and welcome :smile:

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Mon 07/27/09 09:44 PM
I wish you much luck....do not give up hope there is someone out there for you...sometimes things just do not happen over night. Some people find someone quickly, others later....keep tring and remember you have a lot of friends:smile:

AndyBgood's photo
Mon 07/27/09 09:44 PM
I have been here for a while but the thing is there is not such thing as instant gratification. Hit the forums and spend some time in the environment.

There are men out there in need of some Mocha Lovn' and I am sure once you find them things will wind up nicely.


Patience is about all you can employ in a situation like this.

TexasScoundrel's photo
Mon 07/27/09 11:11 PM
What I feel everyone should do is first take a good, hard look at yourself and think about what you have to offer the kind of person you want to attract. When you know what your strengths are you simple have to come up with a way to display them to others that might be interested.

earthytaurus76's photo
Mon 07/27/09 11:30 PM

What I feel everyone should do is first take a good, hard look at yourself and think about what you have to offer the kind of person you want to attract. When you know what your strengths are you simple have to come up with a way to display them to others that might be interested.


I couldnt agree more, this gentle reminder is always valuble.

With your self confidence you will go far, keep posting, and surely a nice man will appear.

Good luck.