WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU KNOW SOMEONE IS BEING PLAYED ON A SITE?

aND YOU LIKE BOTH OF THEM.....

YOU DONT WANT TO HURT NO ONE BUT.........

AT THE SAME TIME YOU FEEL A NEED TO EXPRESS TO ONE OF THE PEOPLE,


THAT THEY HAVE BEEN FLIRTING WITH SOMEONE.....ELSE

AND KNOW THE OTHER TWO ARE MAKING SERIOUS PLANS TO BE TOGETHER....


I AM REALLY CONFUSED ON WHAT TO DO .....

I ALMOST SAID SOMETHING TODAY.......

VIA EMAIL AND CHANGED MY MIND........

SO THAT PERSON KNEW THAT TWO DAYS BEFORE THE GRAND ANNOUNCEMENT,


THEY MADE I WAS THE QUEST OR PREY..AS WELL......


I AM VERY SERIOUS......

WHAT SHOULD I DO..

Seriously, keep out of it. You can only hurt yourself by getting
involved.

tantalize has a serious side! O_o??

If you really cared about that friend tell them. If it were you would
you want to know?

The other option is not to say anything.

Stay out of it it could make things worse for you. and the only reason I
say this is because I've been in this situation and it turn out for the
better

Never get caught in middle of a cross fire
Basic rule of life

I agre with Sage on this one.

I LIKE THEM BOTH.

AND PERHAPS YOUR RIGHT SHADOW....

BUT THE HASTE OF THEIR POSSIBLE FUTURE...

IS WHY I FEEL THE WAY I
DO...

I don't know what to tell you. I was in a situation like that and the
other girl came and told me and I was grateful, but sometimes people
kill the messenger.

YA OK!!!!!!!!!TY EVERYONE

There ya go advice from one who has been there. Hey Sage how's things?

Oldsage does it again!

Stevey Ray said it too..

"I am stranded...caught in the crossfire!"

brokenheart "I don't know what to tell you. I was in a situation like
that and the other girl came and told me and I was grateful,"

I agree! LOL But when it's all said and done I would want to know if it
were me.

Mail the two...that are going to meet soon.

Ask the new person if they are aware of the other.

Ask the one 'playing' two people if it is appropriate behaviour.

I am amazed at some of the responses...sheesh...someone is playing
someone here...and let's all look the other way.

Kim, you know me fairly well, so you know I am not backwards in coming
forwards.

If I have facts, I speak. If I don't, I ask.

All these same people that are saying look the other way, all say they
are extremely loyal and honest...and speak up when someone is being
harmed, and defend their friends...hmmmmm..

IM AFRAID OF THAT BROKEN....

THEY MIGHT BE GREATFUL .......

IM FEELING LIKE THEIR DESPERATE TO GET TOGETHER.....


ASAP


BUT UGH....

I GUESS I WILL LEAVE IT BE....

BUT FOR THE WOMAN IT MAY EFFECT HER ENTIRE FINACIAL SITUATION BEING
STUCK.......IN HER NEW DESTINATION SO SOON...

WITH A POSSIBLE CAD////////


DUNNO......


TOTALLY LOST.

you can't go wrong with Stevie Ray

Wow great post Jess

tell the one that is being bad to f off
let the other find out on her own
she will in due time and you dont have to be the one she resents just
cause the jerk picked on you

OK LEE......I WILL TAKE THIS VIA TO YOU.......


CUZ U KNOW ME PRETTY WELL

AND I AM NOT ONE TO LOOK THE OTHER WAY .....

HOWEVER.......

I DONT WANT TO CAUSE UNNECESSARY DRAMA EITHER.

Oh, and for the record, I was the other girl...

HES NOT A JERK REALLY

LISA.

UM.......


PERHAPS IT WAS LOVE AT FIRST EMAIL I DUNNO......

PEOPLE DO WEIRD THINGS AND MAKE STRANGE DESSIONS ON DATING SITES.....

WELL EVERYWHERE ACTUALLY.