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These things happen, some people complain about the emails the get & some complain about emails they don't get..... it's a free site 
Right. It's a free site, meaning she has just as much right to complain as anyone else here who has complained. |
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These things happen, some people complain about the emails the get & some complain about emails they don't get..... it's a free site
Right. It's a free site, meaning she has just as much right to complain as anyone else here who has complained. No Sh.!t really? |
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These things happen, some people complain about the emails the get & some complain about emails they don't get..... it's a free site
Right. It's a free site, meaning she has just as much right to complain as anyone else here who has complained. No Sh.!t really? PATS...is that a wart on yer nose? |
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These things happen, some people complain about the emails the get & some complain about emails they don't get..... it's a free site
Right. It's a free site, meaning she has just as much right to complain as anyone else here who has complained. No Sh.!t really? PATS...is that a wart on yer nose?   wow, I mean....WOW
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Hmmm why not ask THEM. I mean really how is anybody but them supposed to know? Not liking it, then tell them and move on. Not a big deal. Just because you are not interested in them as a dating partner, does not mean that friends cannot be made. And unless you are talking about people from idea, then I do believe the correct term is NATIVE not Indian. 
They are from India. I get IMs from them all the time. I don't care if they're not from America -- I'm not at all racist -- but for God's sake try and send me a message that says more than two sentences. Even if your native language isn't English, I'll take that into consideration if you have something worthwhile to say in the first place. 
ANYway, sorry... rant. To the OP: Like everyone else said, chances are, they want to date a bi chick. I once asked my guy friend why guys like lesbians: "It's not like they even WANT you, so you have NO chance with them anyway." "Yeah, well... OK. Maybe bi then." 
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(First time posting in the forums) Is it just me or are there a lot of Indian guys who message the lesbians wanting to communicate? I've gotten three tonight and even more over the course of the last week or so.  I will ask them
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because they are losers
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(First time posting in the forums) Is it just me or are there a lot of Indian guys who message the lesbians wanting to communicate? I've gotten three tonight and even more over the course of the last week or so. You could be a goat and they would send you a message. |
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Some people only look at the photos and not the profile. Some men may be intrigued by bi-women. Maybe they think they can get a threesome with a bi-woman and one of her female friends / sex partners.
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Edited by
John1932
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Mon 07/27/09 03:18 PM
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Ok, sex? Threesomes?
 wow I need to get out there more, I didnt realize things get this deep on dating sites.  I just assume that if you are looking for love or dating then you put up your profile and search, but why would you look for sex? or threesomes? I mean is that the kind of person they want to spend their life with, someone that puts out with not only you but anyone else that comes to their door. There's a happy relationship right there.
No wonder I see so many profiles from ladies on here that seem to be rude. They aren't rude, they are just sick and tired. Hummmm, Im learning this stuff, just bear with me 
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Ok, sex? Threesomes? wow I need to get out there more, I didnt realize things get this deep on dating sites. I just assume that if you are looking for love or dating then you put up your profile and search, but why would you look for sex? or threesomes? I mean is that the kind of person they want to spend their life with, someone that puts out with not only you but anyone else that comes to their door. There's a happy relationship right there.
No wonder I see so many profiles from ladies on here that seem to be rude. They aren't rude, they are just sick and tired. Hummmm, Im learning this stuff, just bear with me
VERY sick and tired. Yep. It's nice when I get the PMs from guys who have something to SAY, but usually those are from the guys on here.
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(First time posting in the forums) Is it just me or are there a lot of Indian guys who message the lesbians wanting to communicate? I've gotten three tonight and even more over the course of the last week or so. Uhm...I might have clicked on your profile pic in your discussion post, not realizing your preference until too late. |
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Hmmm why not ask THEM. I mean really how is anybody but them supposed to know? Not liking it, then tell them and move on. Not a big deal. Just because you are not interested in them as a dating partner, does not mean that friends cannot be made. And unless you are talking about people from idea, then I do believe the correct term is NATIVE not Indian.
They are from India. I get IMs from them all the time. I don't care if they're not from America -- I'm not at all racist -- but for God's sake try and send me a message that says more than two sentences. Even if your native language isn't English, I'll take that into consideration if you have something worthwhile to say in the first place.
ANYway, sorry... rant. To the OP: Like everyone else said, chances are, they want to date a bi chick. I once asked my guy friend why guys like lesbians: "It's not like they even WANT you, so you have NO chance with them anyway." "Yeah, well... OK. Maybe bi then."
I think most guys (...and I consider myself an average guy) grow out of that desire for a bi girlfriend. Especially when you finally obtain such a gf, develop strong feelings for her, then later realize... THERE IS SIMPLY NO "GIRLS NIGHT OUT"!!! |
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Edited by
trublu4u
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Mon 07/27/09 05:31 PM
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laprincess, heres' why, IMHO:
TYPE COLOR; PROFILE LAYOUT "Searching for woman for dating" is in tiny letters, not positioned prominently, and the white letters are vague, even against the black background, dominated by all the orange type on the black background. I realize these are things not under your control. However, your topic title here does not indicate why you are a girl who "isn't interested". The internet represents a barrage of info. Important details may be missed. One learns these things over time...I know I'm still learning. TEXT LENGTH; REEL 'EM IN Your profile text is way too long (as mine once was, and maybe still is...), and I could find no mention of your preference, other than the above. Though this is the internet with all the bells and whistles, old print advertising techniques still apply, especially if your profile text must be extensive (as my topic replies tend to be...working on that). Break up large blocks of text with captions, stating the main idea of the following paragraph, hopefully worded in such a way as to draw an otherwise impatient reader inside... EVERYBODYS' IN A HURRY ON THE 'NET... Guys do tend to react to a persons' looks first. Younger guys may skip your profile text entirely, and if you happen to be a younger guy of another culture without a firm grasp of reading English... Sites such as these are like a candy store for people hungry for intimacy, and may be too quick to click... I hope this helps. You seem to be a very nice, interesting person. Wish you all the best. |
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These things happen, some people complain about the emails the get & some complain about emails they don't get..... it's a free site
Right. It's a free site, meaning she has just as much right to complain as anyone else here who has complained. No Sh.!t really? Guess the same could have been said about you pointing out the obvious in your post?
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And I am getting tired of getting hundreds of IMs from lesbians in Tanzania. Sheesh what kind of guy do they think I am?
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(First time posting in the forums) Is it just me or are there a lot of Indian guys who message the lesbians wanting to communicate? I've gotten three tonight and even more over the course of the last week or so.
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And I am getting tired of getting hundreds of IMs from lesbians in Tanzania. Sheesh what kind of guy do they think I am? You, too??? Could we have opened up a tainted email, or something? |
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okay so i'm gonna be the jerk of the group and just say this...
the same reason why you message guys who aren't interested in you. they don't know that until they message you. i'm just sayin... |
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(First time posting in the forums) Is it just me or are there a lot of Indian guys who message the lesbians wanting to communicate? I've gotten three tonight and even more over the course of the last week or so. It's not only human nature to want what we can't have, but some of us find a beautiful woman who is a lesbian to be downright sexy, or maybe it's that we're hoping to convert them to bisexuals. Maybe it's the challenge that gets us, or forgive me for making a generalization, which I have found on this sight to be worse than herpes, but watching two women kiss is far more sensual than watching a man and a woman kiss. It appears to be softer and gentler, between a woman and woman, whereas, forgive my evil generalization, but men seem to kiss in a far gruffer manner. Men can also say once they get rejected, that it wasn't thier fault, they were just a lesbian. Love me or hate me, those are just my two cents. |
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