100% FREE ONLINE DATING
sponsored links
Previous
| Topic: Not Encouraging... | |
|---|---|
|
|
|
So... how does a woman turn down and otherwise not encourage flirting with a guy she's not interested in without hurting his feelings?
I know there's probably been threads like this, but I'm starting a new one so HA! |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
There's really no way to do that. You just have to be as nice as possible.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
So... how does a woman turn down and otherwise not encourage flirting with a guy she's not interested in without hurting his feelings? I know there's probably been threads like this, but I'm starting a new one so HA! |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
There's really no way to do that. You just have to be as nice as possible. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I wasn't talking about you, hon. Not about anyone in particular actually. I was talking about irl actually.
Lily... damn. I was hoping there was some trick. I HATE hurting feelings. 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
 you dont love me anymore?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
pull the..."wow, i love you like a brother" line.....just sneak it into a conversation while laughing or something
make brother references...eventually he will understand that you ONLY see him as a brother type...let's him down easy and you move on BUUUUT...that is the longer approach....the short approach would entail hurting his feelings |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
That would work for a friend, but what about a stranger at a bar?
And 7z... NEVER! 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
A sharp stick in the eye maybe?
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
Gossipmpm
on
Sat 07/25/09 07:25 AM
|
|
Just be blunt
"GET OUTA MY SPACE!!" Done deal |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
i dont think your hurting a guy by saying your not interested.
he may be dissapointed, but i dont belive he would be hurt |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Just be truthful ie. sorry not interested
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
That would work for a friend, but what about a stranger at a bar? And 7z... NEVER!
tell him he reminds you of your ex.....guys hate that and will usually move on...we NEVER want to be THAT guy |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Hm... I'll have to remember that.
Thanks for all the advice! 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
Nova86
on
Sat 07/25/09 07:25 AM
|
|
just doing my part to save some poor schmucks feelings
well, make that ALOT of poor schmucks feelings lol |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I can also say "little brother", as many of them are WAY younger than me. It's a compliment, yeah, but... no.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I can also say "little brother", as many of them are WAY younger than me. It's a compliment, yeah, but... no.
AHAHAHA...see?? i knew you would catch on quick..."little brother" cracked me up!! wait, are you trying to tell me something?!?! 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Nah, Nova... you'd be one of the few special exceptions.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Just tell me straight!!!
So... how does a woman turn down and otherwise not encourage flirting with a guy she's not interested in without hurting his feelings? I know there's probably been threads like this, but I'm starting a new one so HA! |
|
|
|
|
