Topic: People who ask you to be on their friends' list
rivergirl301's photo
Sun 05/20/07 11:48 AM
And you have no idea who they are! What is up with that. I must be
missing some information about how this works. Could someone explain?
Thanks, MJ

no photo
Sun 05/20/07 11:52 AM
Well what gets me is that they don't message you or respond to you in
threads first to chat a little first. Getting familiar with each other
first would take the weirdness away

We really don't know anyone online.

LOL do you delete people who don't mail or talk to you in threads first?
I try not to.

I usually automatically delete those looking for intimate encounters
that have never messaged me or spoke to me in threads.

rivergirl301's photo
Sun 05/20/07 11:54 AM
No, I don't automatically delete people for no reason, but I find it odd
that this grown man (55) wants me to be on his friend's list, but he
never even e-mailed me or indicated he wants to get to know me. I think
knowing someone is a prerequisite for being a friend (or enemy!)

rivergirl301's photo
Sun 05/20/07 11:56 AM
Ew, he's separated. Anyway, I am blocked from replying to his e-mail!
Weird.

no photo
Sun 05/20/07 11:56 AM
I agree. Otherwise it's just odd LOL

Why is that usually the older men that are so many years older than you
try to holla?

no photo
Sun 05/20/07 11:56 AM
eww yeh that's weird lol

rivergirl301's photo
Sun 05/20/07 12:05 PM
Well, I just meant he is not a kid looking to fill up his friend's
space, which is something my kids would do, and I understand they like
to do that.

I don't mess with separated men. #1, then tend to LIE about being
separated. #2, I don't want someone fresh out of a relationship, on the
rebound.

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Sun 05/20/07 12:12 PM
I agree with 1# and 2# rivergirl.


I like getting to know people before putting them on my friends

list. I have gotton to know most through the threads. Some have

asked to be my friend and I did'nt know them and had never seen

them post either. ???

no photo
Sun 05/20/07 04:43 PM
good thread

tantalizingtulip's photo
Sun 05/20/07 04:45 PM
i have lots of weirdos on my friends list....

but..........

it gives you access to their pics:wink:

tantalizingtulip's photo
Mon 05/21/07 03:39 AM
i just gained another hope is normal:tongue:

Alada's photo
Mon 05/21/07 07:24 AM
I decline immediately.

Wildflower2286's photo
Mon 05/21/07 07:37 AM
I decline as well... I am not looking to have tons of people that i
don't even ever talk to on my friends list. I think it's only polite to
at least say hi first or something ... grrrr