Topic: Is this part of the reason why you're single?
isaac_dede's photo
Mon 07/20/09 03:51 PM

I'm with Melody on this one, if you feel like an outcast maybe it's because you WANT to feel like an outcast. If you're different from others, rock it like it's hot because to someone it IS hot. If you walk around all woe is me with your head down no one will ever notice you that way. flowerforyou

be proud to be a nerd....and run out and buy the newest blackberry because the is the nerd thing to do!

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 07/20/09 03:51 PM

offtopic Sorry this is off topic but I can't email Melody....

Melody send me an email so I can respond... I'm not old enough to send you one tongue2


You are old enough but not a boy! tongue2

isaac_dede's photo
Mon 07/20/09 03:52 PM

offtopic Sorry this is off topic but I can't email Melody....

Melody send me an email so I can respond... I'm not old enough to send you one tongue2

shouldn't you be working or something?

bgeorge's photo
Mon 07/20/09 03:53 PM
nope...i'm single by choice

Atlantis75's photo
Mon 07/20/09 03:55 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Mon 07/20/09 03:55 PM

I'm with Melody on this one, if you feel like an outcast maybe it's because you WANT to feel like an outcast. If you're different from others, rock it like it's hot because to someone it IS hot. If you walk around all woe is me with your head down no one will ever notice you that way. flowerforyou


Well, ok, but try going to a small village (like Lexfonteyne experienced), with a 3-4000 people max (or less) living in houses spread out in the woods and live a few years there. You will change your opinion.

You know Stephen King? It's no coincidence of where he comes from with these weird stories and he finds Rhode Island/Mass/CT/NH is the most suitable place for a "weird" setting. winking

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Mon 07/20/09 03:56 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Mon 07/20/09 04:00 PM


I'm with Melody on this one, if you feel like an outcast maybe it's because you WANT to feel like an outcast. If you're different from others, rock it like it's hot because to someone it IS hot. If you walk around all woe is me with your head down no one will ever notice you that way. flowerforyou


Well, ok, but try going to a small village (like Lexfonteyne experienced), with a 3-4000 people max (or less) living in houses spread out in the woods and live a few years there. You will change your opinion.

You know Stephen King? It's no coincidence of where he comes from with these weird stories and he finds Rhode Island/Mass/CT/NH is the most suitable place for a "weird" setting. winking


Then do it like "Footloose"!!! Don't whither but take 'em by storm! I have to DANCE!! :banana:

msmyka's photo
Mon 07/20/09 03:59 PM


offtopic Sorry this is off topic but I can't email Melody....

Melody send me an email so I can respond... I'm not old enough to send you one tongue2

shouldn't you be working or something?


Shouldn't YOU be working or something? tongue2

bgeorge's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:02 PM


I'm with Melody on this one, if you feel like an outcast maybe it's because you WANT to feel like an outcast. If you're different from others, rock it like it's hot because to someone it IS hot. If you walk around all woe is me with your head down no one will ever notice you that way. flowerforyou


Well, ok, but try going to a small village (like Lexfonteyne experienced), with a 3-4000 people max (or less) living in houses spread out in the woods and live a few years there. You will change your opinion.

You know Stephen King? It's no coincidence of where he comes from with these weird stories and he finds Rhode Island/Mass/CT/NH is the most suitable place for a "weird" setting. winking


i live in a town of 1500 mostly upscale artsy people...lol for some reason it works for me for now...i'm their token white trash rebel i guess...

msmyka's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:02 PM


I'm with Melody on this one, if you feel like an outcast maybe it's because you WANT to feel like an outcast. If you're different from others, rock it like it's hot because to someone it IS hot. If you walk around all woe is me with your head down no one will ever notice you that way. flowerforyou

be proud to be a nerd....and run out and buy the newest blackberry because the is the nerd thing to do!


Don't hate on my blackberry, it's AWESOME!

earthytaurus76's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:04 PM
I dont know, but I know its possible to try to be so different your the same.. ahh childhood.

Atlantis75's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:04 PM



I'm with Melody on this one, if you feel like an outcast maybe it's because you WANT to feel like an outcast. If you're different from others, rock it like it's hot because to someone it IS hot. If you walk around all woe is me with your head down no one will ever notice you that way. flowerforyou


Well, ok, but try going to a small village (like Lexfonteyne experienced), with a 3-4000 people max (or less) living in houses spread out in the woods and live a few years there. You will change your opinion.

You know Stephen King? It's no coincidence of where he comes from with these weird stories and he finds Rhode Island/Mass/CT/NH is the most suitable place for a "weird" setting. winking


Then do it like "Footloose"!!! Don't whither but take 'em by storm! I have to DANCE!! :banana:


This place is about 20 min. driving from me, you thought the Blair Witch Project was something weird.





Note from the Connecticut State Police: Those who go, or attempt to go to Dudleytown will be arrested for trespassing and/or parking. The fines start at $75.00 per person and rapidly increase.

In northwestern Connecticut within the town of Cornwall, in the shadow of three mountains, lies the remains of Dudleytown. The small hamlet holds accounts of ghostly tales, demons, unexplained events, and curses coupled with over 400 years of British and American history -- including ties to King Henry VIII, Horace Greeley, General Heman Swift, and General George Washington.

Today, only the cellar holes and a few foundations remain. The roads have become forest trails that hikers and ghost hunters still traverse, regardless of warnings of evils spirits, and many claim the woods become strangely silent -- the birds and bugs that sing and call during a hike up to Dudleytown don’t follow into the hamlet.


The Troubles Begin
Living in Dudleytown was never easy. Many things went wrong for the people and for the land. Were all of the events unexplainable? Was there a high lead content in the drinking water? Did Native Americans sneak into the hollow and wreak havoc? Or did the Dudleys carry a centuries-old curse into the village?

The rocks in and around Dudleytown do contain a high level of iron and other metals. It is possible there was some lead in the drinking water on the hillside. This theory could explain some of the dementia that area residents experienced, but continued lead poisoning is always fatal and for more than a century people lived in Dudleytown. If the water was bad, residents would have moved away sooner.

It is also true that there were many Native American tribes who lived in the general vicinity of Dudleytown, including the Mohawk nation. Some battles of the French Indian War (1755 – 1763) also took place within 100 miles of Dudleytown. There was fallout from the Native Americans for several years after the war, and one set of Dudleytown residents met their fate at the hands of angered Indians.

In August of 1774, an unidentified epidemic struck the Adoniram Carter household in Dudleytown and killed the entire family. A second Dudleytown Carter family, The Nathaniel Carters, distraught from the loss, moved near Binghamton, New York where Indians took the life of Nathaniel, his wife, and their infant by tomahawk. The Carters’ other three children were kidnapped to Canada where two daughters were ransomed. The son, David Carter, remained with his captors, married an Indian girl, and eventually returned to the United States for formal education. David escaped the curse of Dudleytown and eventually went on to become a Supreme Court judge.

One of the more bizarre tragedies occurred to one of Cornwall's more famous residents, General Heman Swift. General Swift served in the Revolutionary War under General George Washington. In April of 1804 his wife, Sarah Faye, was struck by lightning on their front porch and killed instantly. Shortly after his wife’s death, General Swift was reported to have gone "slightly demented."

Horace Greeley, editor and founder of the New York Tribune and most famous for his quote, "Go West, young man," married Mary Cheney, who was born in Dudleytown. The two met in a vegetarian boarding house, and their union ended when Mary Cheney took her own life in 1872, one week before Horace Greeley lost his bid for the presidency of the United States.

The next tragedy occurred near the very end of the 1800s to one of Dudleytown's last residents, John Patrick Brophy. John Brophy's wife died of consumption, and shortly after his two children mysteriously disappeared in the woods. The children vanishing could have been attributed to the fact that they were accused of stealing sleigh robes and wanted to run from the law. After losing his entire family, the Brophy home burned to the ground. Some have speculated that it was John Brophy who set the blaze. Regardless of how the fire started, John Brophy walked away from Dudleytown never to be seen again.

By 1899 Dudleytown was completely deserted. Children who grew up there married and moved away. The forest began to reclaim the land.

Dudleytown is Reborn
In 1920 Dr. William Clark, a cancer specialist from New York City, came to Cornwall for the quiet that the woods could provide. Dr. Clark fell in love with the surroundings and built a summer house there. In 1924, together with some of his friends and colleagues, Dr. Clark formed the Dark Entry Forest Association (DEF). “The Dark Entry Forest Association was formed as a nature preserve,” explains Dr. John F. Leich, former president and current shareholder of the DEF. “Dr. Clark wanted a place where he could bring his children and grandchildren in the summers.” The original charter stated the land would remain "forever wild," a nature preserve for its members to enjoy.

During a summer in the mid-1920s, Dr. William Clark was called away to an emergency in New York City. His wife stayed behind and when he returned a few days later, she was alleged to have gone mad. Sources said something from the forest attacked her and left her completely insane. She lived out the remainder of her days in a mental hospital.



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Mon 07/20/09 04:05 PM
I think we are all unique in our own way and if someone cannot accept you for your uniqueness then they are not worth your time. I have lived where I am now for 4 years and before my divorce I didn't get out much but for the past 2 years I have made some of the best friend that I've ever had in my life and they all accept me for me. Now if I can just find the man that accepts me for me... flowerforyou

isaac_dede's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:24 PM
Edited by isaac_dede on Mon 07/20/09 04:27 PM



offtopic Sorry this is off topic but I can't email Melody....

Melody send me an email so I can respond... I'm not old enough to send you one tongue2

shouldn't you be working or something?


Shouldn't YOU be working or something? tongue2

me? work?....what's that?

actually getting ready to have 20-30 days sic leave for my surgery :banana:offtopicsorry op

msmyka's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:27 PM

me? work?....what's that?

actually getting ready to have 20-30 days sic leave for my surgery :banana:


Right on, hope your surgery goes well so you can use your time off to play!

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:33 PM

i feel like that everyday of my life....


dont worry honey. when we get married.. i'll make that all go away.


### okay no really.

i'm pretty sure its the fact that i'm slightly obnoxious and settling isn't on my todo list for this week.

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:35 PM
I live in a community where a large percentage of people are part of a dominant religion and yes, they do invite to there functions, however over time there is a level of expectation that you come to believe like them, which isn't going to happen. There are also two colleges, so realistically as a single 48 year old woman, my options are limited.... and in comparison with the majority I am an outcast.

longhairbiker's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:44 PM
I'm not an outcast.

s1owhand's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:45 PM
I sent the club a wire stating, PLEASE ACCEPT MY RESIGNATION. I DON'T WANT TO BELONG TO ANY CLUB THAT WILL ACCEPT ME AS A MEMBER.

Groucho Marx

Gossipmpm's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:48 PM
I'm not an outcast either

It's that my looks makes people think diff of me then I really am and it's sad they don't get to know me

They always think they know me!

And they are always so wrong!!

Beavis31's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:50 PM
yeppers on this one