Topic: Best part of being single?
snarkytwain's photo
Mon 07/20/09 10:52 AM

not having to tell ANYONE who just called me on MY cell phone i have 2 rules: go through my wallet or my phone means grounds for immediate dismissal


It's an insecurity thing. My ex told me I could go through any of his stuff any time I wanted to. I didn't. He got mad at me for not telling him the same. Then assumed that meant I was hiding something from him. frustrated

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Mon 07/20/09 10:55 AM
Having a whole duvet cover to myselfbiggrin

BonnyMiss's photo
Mon 07/20/09 10:58 AM

Having a whole duvet cover to myselfbiggrin


I am wholeheartedly here with you on this one. bigsmile

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Mon 07/20/09 11:01 AM
laugh The best thing of alllaugh I can leave the toilet seat uprofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

racerx767's photo
Mon 07/20/09 11:01 AM


not having to tell ANYONE who just called me on MY cell phone i have 2 rules: go through my wallet or my phone means grounds for immediate dismissal


It's an insecurity thing. My ex told me I could go through any of his stuff any time I wanted to. I didn't. He got mad at me for not telling him the same. Then assumed that meant I was hiding something from him. frustrated
ya i would never even think of going through a girls purse even when my ex would ask me to get something out of it for her i would take the purse to her and let her get it. same with the cell phone it would ring and she would say go ahead and get that for me, noway. call them back when youre done!! some things are mine and not to be shared. lol

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Mon 07/20/09 11:02 AM
u can do so many things without bother or worried someone else, u feel free...and available to know people as many as u can...:laughing:

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Mon 07/20/09 11:04 AM

Not being criticized for my taste in music, clothing style, etc.


if you're with someone who doesn't respect your interests.. then you're with the wrong person.

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 07/20/09 11:09 AM
Oh lets see, a nag free existence , not having to go to family parties etc., i have my friends back in my life, i can watch foot ball on suday without being disturbed. Being drama free is a beautiful thing!

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Mon 07/20/09 11:11 AM

laugh The best thing of alllaugh I can leave the toilet seat uprofl rofl rofl rofl rofl


And I have no fear of going to the loo and finding the seat up ![ laugh laugh laugh

redbone30's photo
Mon 07/20/09 11:13 AM
hey

Seakolony's photo
Mon 07/20/09 11:13 AM

Single - not lonely.

What have you discovered is the best part of being single?



No one to answer to or tell your whereabouts or to clean up after besides yourself.

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Mon 07/20/09 11:16 AM




No one telling me that I can't go golfing cuz we have to go to her parents' house...lol


Golfing? sad


Sowwy. Why you crying about golfing???


When I was a preteen, the kids in my neighborhood had summers where we would pack backpacks with food, stop at the Pop Shoppe and grab .25 pops, and hike down a trail to the Hangman Creek to jump off the cliffs and swim and piknick. Some of the best memories of my life.

Then they razed the area, built tract homes surrounded by a fence, and a golf course right over my creek.

I never forgave golf. Why does it need to much room??? sad We could have SHARED!


It's not golf that you should blame.

Blame the developers and the state for allowing that kind of thing.

flowerforyou

JustAGuy2112's photo
Mon 07/20/09 11:17 AM

Not being criticized for my taste in music, clothing style, etc.


* sighs *

You really HAVE run into the wrong guys.

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 07/20/09 11:18 AM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Mon 07/20/09 11:19 AM


not having to tell ANYONE who just called me on MY cell phone i have 2 rules: go through my wallet or my phone means grounds for immediate dismissal


It's an insecurity thing. My ex told me I could go through any of his stuff any time I wanted to. I didn't. He got mad at me for not telling him the same. Then assumed that meant I was hiding something from him. frustrated



Generally, I agree with this and I will not change my attitude towards someone and their absolute privacy but I did burned once.

He never allowed me to see his phone -- but he was overly defensive. Yep, he was cheating.

My philosophy is that my stuff is there and not hiding. Having an SO with the same vibe is ideal.

When someone is over the top secretive -- and they lay down some type of Marshall Law -- then something is wrong.

Phuque2's photo
Mon 07/20/09 11:23 AM
I didn't do the dishes last night, I wanted 2 shirts at the store and just got them, I also left the seat up......But I had sex with myself. Not so good.

racerx767's photo
Mon 07/20/09 11:28 AM
Edited by racerx767 on Mon 07/20/09 11:29 AM
its not adding the law later in the relationship, its starting the relationship with that already in place. if a girl or guy out of the blue gets pissed for looking at his phone, i agree, ther is hiding going on. if you start with that in place you have nothing to hide and no reason to think otherwise

EquusDancer's photo
Mon 07/20/09 06:43 PM
I really hate the "what'cha thinking about". I don't like having to humor the guy when I desperately want to sit down and read. Or be rushed around when I go to things like Irish Festival or whatever. I'd also say not having to share the bed but as the deaf dog has been especially needy the past couple of nights I currently am fighting for space.

Lilypetal's photo
Mon 07/20/09 06:45 PM
No man laundry!

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Mon 07/20/09 06:47 PM
i can stay up late,and shes not sayin RU COMING BEDlaugh

Slyther83's photo
Mon 07/20/09 06:47 PM
no female hair burning out the fvcking belt on the vaccuum