Topic: got a question
shellymc's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:31 PM
i've been talking to a guy for about three weeks now we have had dinner and hung out nothing more besides a hug good nite ..than last tuesday he started talking about sex i mean every thing went back to it even when i tried to change the subject when i told him you can't plan a time and day either it will happen or it won't he said well i don't won't kids so we will just talk and hang out no sex ever ,,is there something wrong with me saying thats not the type of relationship i am looking for ???when i said this he tells me i think all you want is sex and you don't want to admit it ! please someone make sense of this and let me know wtf this guy is trying to do ...frustrated rant

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:32 PM
He is one horny fella

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:32 PM
* sits back and shakes head *

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:34 PM
Really

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:35 PM
sounds to me like he is using that to combat your stopping the first conversation about sex.. Of course you'd know better b/c you know what he said and we don't...

Honestly though, how can we tell you what he's trying to do, we weren't there and have very little info....

shellymc's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:36 PM

Really
really what ? i'm serious i need help ......

misstina2's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:36 PM
flowerforyou if you don't like the way he's being why continue?flowerforyou

papersmile's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:37 PM
i think he's backing way off as a form of reverse pyschology. he's probably thinking about nothing else but getting laid.

shellymc's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:40 PM

sounds to me like he is using that to combat your stopping the first conversation about sex.. Of course you'd know better b/c you know what he said and we don't...

Honestly though, how can we tell you what he's trying to do, we weren't there and have very little info....
i didn't stop the conversation i just told him i wasn't going to plan a date and time to have sex .........

no photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:40 PM

i think he's backing way off as a form of reverse pyschology. he's probably thinking about nothing else but getting laid.


Exact same thing I was thinking. He's trying to make her come to him so he doesn't get rejected.

lonetar25's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:41 PM
A. he has no lead in his pencil/ floppy joe

B. the next time he trys to talk about sex.... sit on his face

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:41 PM


sounds to me like he is using that to combat your stopping the first conversation about sex.. Of course you'd know better b/c you know what he said and we don't...

Honestly though, how can we tell you what he's trying to do, we weren't there and have very little info....
i didn't stop the conversation i just told him i wasn't going to plan a date and time to have sex .........
He wants sex.You dont give it to him hes gonewhoa

shellymc's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:42 PM

flowerforyou if you don't like the way he's being why continue?flowerforyou
i don't think i am ..:waving

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:43 PM


sounds to me like he is using that to combat your stopping the first conversation about sex.. Of course you'd know better b/c you know what he said and we don't...

Honestly though, how can we tell you what he's trying to do, we weren't there and have very little info....
i didn't stop the conversation i just told him i wasn't going to plan a date and time to have sex .........


He may have seen it as that... As in reverse psychology (as mentioned), he doesn't want to be shot down again...

shellymc's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:43 PM



sounds to me like he is using that to combat your stopping the first conversation about sex.. Of course you'd know better b/c you know what he said and we don't...

Honestly though, how can we tell you what he's trying to do, we weren't there and have very little info....
i didn't stop the conversation i just told him i wasn't going to plan a date and time to have sex .........
He wants sex.You dont give it to him hes gonewhoa
than he will be gone i guess because i'm not going to have sex to keep him ....tongue2

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:44 PM




sounds to me like he is using that to combat your stopping the first conversation about sex.. Of course you'd know better b/c you know what he said and we don't...

Honestly though, how can we tell you what he's trying to do, we weren't there and have very little info....
i didn't stop the conversation i just told him i wasn't going to plan a date and time to have sex .........
He wants sex.You dont give it to him hes gonewhoa
than he will be gone i guess because i'm not going to have sex to keep him ....tongue2
Their ya go:thumbsup: Hes a idiot

papersmile's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:45 PM
i think you should teach him a lesson and string him along for a couple of weeks or so (at the very least).

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:50 PM

* sits back and shakes head *


What kind of chair do you have? I have a futon, want to sit with me?